Advanced EFT with Inner child work to resolve Daddy Issues – Session 1 |tapthegood.com


Daddy issues will not discriminate against you whether you are a man or woman, and/or the choice of your sexuality. Implying that, as a child if your father wasn’t the man you expected or wanted him to be, this is going to affect your adult relationships. Note that your father’s behavior whatever it was, has determined your beliefs about men in general. The relationship you had or didn’t have with your father is the foundation upon which you know how to relate with your partner(s), and other people.

In these EFT series I will be using EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique) to help you to resolve conflicts and negative stories reflecting on your father.

Please remember to go through this session for at least 14 days for it to be effective.

If you want more personalized sessions send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com. Or simply visit my website at http://www.tapthegood.com and follow the instructions of how to sign up for a session.

In the interim, I’m sending you abundant love from love from my heart to yours.

Love and light

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Invoking Christ Consciousness to Break all Agreements With Dark Entities


source-2Dark entities, negative spirits and other angry ancestral spirits can create havoc in one’s life. It takes more than wishful thinking or simple therapy to release the grip on them.

In this POWERFUL prayer, I invoke Christ Consciousness and the angelic realm to break all codes, contracts, agreements and associations plus the grip on this darkness.

Open your heart and allow the healing to take place.

If you need more work done, I specialize in helping clients release and heal from dark stuff.

Contact me if you need help. 

In the meantime, listen to this prayer every day for the next 9 days.

Sending you peace and blessings.

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Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains


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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

Click HERE to access the video recording.

If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from http://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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The Source of Inventions: An excerpt from the Book: Do Not Force It, Tap The Good


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Inventions are available to each of us if we open up our minds to them. It is both simple and exciting. If you want to come up with a new idea or service, begin focusing entirely on everything you do. As you go about your day, if you feel uncomfortable about anything you are doing, stop. Begin thinking about ways, means, or products that would have made your activity more comfortable or enjoyable to do.

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An invention is the gap between the uncomfortable and comfortable levels. That is how cell phones were made, to bridge the gap between the discomfort of having to look for someone all over the place, and the comfort of just picking up the phone and reaching them wherever they are.

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The next thing to do is search the Internet for any similar products or services that you think can bridge the identified gap. If there are none, then you have an invention. That idea right there is what you can turn into a mega product or service. The only work for you to do is to develop the confidence in the idea and pursue it limitlessly without letting anyone or anything discourage you. Remember, if you want it bad enough, you will get it.

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Blood is Thicker Than Color


One of the laws of nature is that energy flows where focus dwells. Meaning that, the more we focus on something the more we give it the power it needs to expand. Our attention magnifies things, and we shouldn’t ignore that.

In my humble opinion, I believe it is time for us to focus on how we can create inclusion and acceptance for all, instead of the contrary. We should ask ourselves the following questions?

  1. How can we forgive those who have hurt us and move on?
  2. How can we heal from the wounds of our past, learn from our mistakes and disappointments, and then focus on the positives in our lives and the world in general?
  3. How can we forgive ourselves, let go of guilt and begin relating with each other with empathy, compassion and kindness?
  4. How can we learn to accept and love one another regardless of our differences?
  5. How best can we communicate to find common ground on the issues of racism and discrimination?
  6. What systems can we establish in schools and at home to educate our children about the benefits of loving and accepting others for who they are?
  7. How can we all be at our best behavior, look out for each other and treat each other with respect?
  8. How can we re-establish our faith in our police force and the law markers?
  9. How can we help our police serve us better?
  10. How can we individually take full responsibility of our actions and behaviors, and start healing ourselves to be better people?
  11. How can we understand without a reasonable doubt that our skin color is just a color, and that we are all human?
  12. How can we remember that blood is thicker than color, meaning that who we are underneath our skin colors and race, are our hearts which beat because of the same force, God?
  13. How can we unite as one big human family? How can we do it?

I believe there is one answer for all these questions. But I want to hear your views, because together we can brainstorm to create this urgently needed global change.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray is a Spiritual counselor, tranformational coach and author. For more about her, visit http://www.tapthegood.com

Advanced Ho’oponopono to Dissolve Childhood Trauma |Video 2| Release Subconscious Related Benefits


For the most part, if you’ve held onto memories of childhood trauma, your subconscious mind can create benefits in order to retain these memories. These benefits are created to justify and validate the retention of the traumatic memories.

For instance, let’s imagine that you were sexually abused as a child. As an adult the subconscious mind can create convictions that retaining these memories provides a safety net to protect you from related abuse. So, you hold onto the memories because with them, you feel protected.

For example, every time you come in contact with someone with the likes of your abuser, you immediately put up defense and avoid them with intent to protect yourself from being abused again. Consequently, if you are single, you can stay single for a very long time, or attract partners who abuse you, as a projection of your subconscious memories and beliefs.

However, you also have to remember that you don’t have to hold onto the memories to be protected from future abuse. It’s actually backwards. The more you hold onto these negative memories, the more they project themselves in your experiences. Holding onto these memories manifests into a lot of negative emotions and behavior that overrides the benefits. When you let them go, space is created within you to function from a place of clarity and peace.

With spaciousness, you can create more positive states and intentions that will be projected in your experiences. Note that as within, so with out.

In this session, we shall use advanced Ho’oponopono to get your inner child to release these delusional benefits so that you get started on your deeper healing journey.

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Powerful Affirmations to Transform all Negativity into Positivity|Listen Everyday to be Transformed


Quotes-About-Life-Positive-energy“It shall be done unto you as you believe.”

Listen to these affirmations (Video below) everyday as you also believe that they are changing your life instantly. Don’t doubt this. Don’t doubt your personal power. Believe, and it shall be done as you believe.

 

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Insert, “50% CCTH program” in the subject line, and make your purchase before or by 6/30/2020. When you send the email, you will receive further instructions on how to pay and how much your discounted amount is.

Interested in my newest book, The Sanity Warrior: Becoming the Authority of Your Experiences? Click HERE

In the meantime, trust in your “SELF.” Know that you are enough.

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Session to Release the Resistance to Healing Childhood Trauma (Session 1)


If you’ve had childhood trauma for a while, trauma has become a part of you. Releasing it implies dealing with change, and being open to the promise of the unknown. Depending on how long you’ve had the trauma, you may have forgotten how it feels like to be without it. So, releasing the resistance to letting go of the trauma is vital in softening your psychology to accept the release, as a positive act.

Go through this session for the next three days.

Instructions:

  1. Find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed.
  2. Get a glass of water to hydrate as you go through the session
  3. Remember to breath.
  4. Have a notebook to document any issues that might come up.

Questions in the session:

Now, answer the following questions without thinking too much about them.

    1. Would you let this resistance go?
    2. When would you let this resistance go?
    3. Can you let this resistance go? (Answer with yes or no)
    4. When can you let this resistance go?
    5. Would you welcome the releasing of this resistance and be healed from the trauma?
    6. When would you welcome the releasing of this resistance and be healed from the trauma?
    7. Can you welcome the releasing of this resistance and be healed from the trauma?
    8. When can you welcome the releasing of this resistance and be healed from the trauma?
    9. How would you feel if you released this resistance?
    10. Would you welcome these feelings into your heart?
    11. When would you welcome these feelings into your heart?
    12. Can you welcome these feelings into your heart?
    13. Take a deep breath, then welcome, and indulge in these feelings.

Say the following prayer: (Note that this prayer is in the recorded session. I’m only including it here for your convenience.)

I activate Christ consciousness into my conscious.

And as this consciousness is marinated into mine

I recognize Christ within me.

I now cement the truth that Christ is within me.

I am one with Christ

I am one with divine healing

I am one with God

I activate the Holy Spirit into my spirit.

I recognize and affirm that healing is taking place

And I welcome this healing into all parts of my body and in all areas of my life.

I seal this process with divine love and wisdom

Love and light

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Everything is Temporary-The Uplifting Truth to Transcend the Negative


Everything is temporary regardless of what it appears to be in your mind or in your external world. The challenges we face are temporary. Even if something seems as if it will kill you, it is temporary. Even if it does, it only kills the body, because who you truly are, never dies and was never born. You are an extension of God, remember? And God doesn’t die.

The emotional turmoil we experience is temporary. Whatever is alive in us depends on the attention we give it. Trust what’s permanent in your nature. Remember that the one who is in you is greater than all that’s out of you.

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Have faith in this power within you. Know that you are the creator of this power, because you are one with God.

Love and light 

 

Why Are You Holding Back?


So, there you are with everything you need to move forward. You know how to get started on that goal. You have all the resources, you know what you want, you are clear about the end results of your actions and you know that this is the right step to take. However, for some reason you don’t take action. Why?

Why do we hold back? What is it within us that prevent us from moving forward?

In this article, I share three reasons that I know hold us back from moving forward.

1.   Self-doubt

Often times, you start doubting yourself. You believe the psychological mind that presents thoughts such as, you are not enough for whatever you need, you don’t have what it takes to get it or that you are not worthy that milestone. However, what’s interesting is that when you stop and think about these thoughts you realize that there is no evidence to support them. In a nutshell, these thoughts are based on pure illusion, unsupported conclusions—the likeness of insanity.

2. Fear of failure

Fear is a powerful state that can either inspire you to move forward or retard your actions. The latter fear has a tendency of recruiting all sorts of reasons why you shouldn’t move forward. You could envision failure and disappointments, and actually start generating negative emotions to reflect on your delusional visions. But again, if you self-evaluate you realize that there’s no evidence to support the visualized negative future.

3. Fear of Success:

Now, the fear of success is one of the many reasons why we should never trust our psychological minds…our thoughts. Of course, you want to succeed. Who doesn’t? But the egoistical mind will tell you otherwise, because its job is weaken and rule (“It’s the supreme politician” ~ Sri Moojiji). Note that the more afraid you are, the less you act; the less you make decisions authentic to you; the more you panic, and the more susceptible you become to negative programming.

There are many reasons that we normally have to support our inactions. However, most of these reasons are rooted on fear. Therefore, if you are holding back self-evaluate to establish if your reasons are not solely rooted on fear. If affirmative, click on that button, make that call, send that email, make that purchase; do not let the egoistical mind hold you captive to its delusional suggestions.

I also have a resource for you: my newest book, The Sanity Warrior: Becoming the Authority of Your Experiences: a must read, a must-have, filled with real life inspirational stories and 13 psychological tips to help you transcend the virus of the egoistical mind and then live life on your terms. The book is designed as your go-to goodie for when the going in your world gets tough. Don’t hold back. Get the book today. You won’t regret it.

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When It feels as if Satan Has You in Stitches: What do You Do? – Volume 2


In my last article, which you can find here, I shared a personal story on how it felt like having satan’s stitches. Check out the article to give you a foundation for this blog.

It all started when a sequence of strange events started happening in my life; it was one disappointment after another. So, I had to stop everything I was focussed on to evaluate the root causes of these events. I had to find solutions, and quick. I had to win myself back from the illusion.

Meanwhile, I was also afraid and extremely disoriented. I felt defeated before I even began exploring the options available to transcend the negativity in my life.

However, I also realized that in order to find solutions that would work, I had to convert my negative emotions into positive ones. To begin, I was so angry at the people who I believed were involved in brewing this mess in my life. But I also knew that this anger in itself wasn’t taking me anywhere. So, I had to transform the anger into courage, the courage to find solutions. I used the anger as an inspiration to propel me not to give up. I also felt extremely sad, because some of the people who were promoting this negativity in my life were people I loved. So, I decided to drop the sadness and started forgiving myself and everyone involved. And that was the first step towards my breakthrough.

Suggestion:

Do you feel as if situations have you wrapped up in discouragement? Do you feel as if Satan has you on a 24 hour watch and monitoring to destroy your progress?

Check in to identify all the negative emotions you are feeling and transform them into the courage or inspiration you can use to find solutions. It is also important to start forgiving yourself and everybody involved. These steps might not seem powerful or relevant to help you heal your life. However, they are the foundation upon which you can propel yourself to move forward. The emptier you are on the inside, the easier it will be for you to discover the truth about things. And remember, God is within you. You are one with God. Believe this truth in your heart and see the wonders that await  your life.

Stay tuned for the next episode of this article. Trust me; things are going to get very interesting. 🙂

In the meantime, check out my newest book, The Sanity Warrior: Becoming the Authority of Your Experiences. This book is designed as a go-to goodie when the going in your life gets tough. You will be inspired to move beyond your obstacles and start living a life less of the negative influences of the psychological mind.

Get your copy today.

Love and light

 

 

Guided Meditation to Re-ignite Your Connection to The Creator-God For Perseverance |tapthegood.com


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“.….Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.” ~1 John 5-21

This video will anchor this divine truth in you and remind you of your true nature.

Isaiah 41:10 (NAS) ‘Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’

God is within you, Divine one. “He” is closer to you than your breath. You are one with God. So, don’t be afraid.

May the message in this recording re-ignite this truth in you and resolve all fear and confusion.

Abundant love from my heart to yours

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Ho’oponopono to Clear a Problem in Your Life|Tapthegood.com


By repeating or listening to the four Ho’oponopono statements as you focus on an issue(s) in your life, you clear the attachment to, relationship with, resonance with, and belief in the issue. Go through this session twice a day for as long as you please until you feel relieved and free from the issue.

You can also listen at the end of each day to clear your mind and have more restful sleep. Trust your inner guidance and God within you to do the work through these magical statements.

Love and light

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When It feels as if Satan Has You in Stitches: What do You Do?


c11620eab249346478e7a77272f23833I recently heard the above phrase from Bishop TD Jakes, in one of his sermons about overcoming the works of darkness. And I thought the phrase perfectly describes some of my experiences, and I believe some of yours.

The first question is how would it practically feel if you had stitches created by Satan? To answer, I will use my own experiences.

At one point in my life I felt as if Satan had strategically positioned me where he saw my every move, altered all my plans, numbed my joy, chased away all my friends, created conflict in all areas of my life and delivered millions of tons of emotional pain in my heart: pain that I felt in places I never thought I had. Satan had me in emotional stitches.

I had it so bad that I visionalized him as a deliberately ugly guy with whiskers made of sharp bones, irregular sharp teeth of different sizes that had holes in them, red eyes, a tongue longer than 20 feet, a mouth filled, and dripping of brown super-smelly foam, hair with strands of red eyed snakes, and a body filled with bumps of many sizes and shapes. This fool was beyond ugly.

I also envisioned him whistling and celebrating every time I hurt.

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At one point, I sat down to figure out how I could find him and then stop him from harassing my life, and….I found nothing. I realized that it was all in my mind…as a big thought that I had personally created. Then it struck me that although I couldn’t negate my struggles, my definitions of these hardships were my creations—thoughts I had believed and expanded on. And I knew that since these thoughts were in me, I had the power to just observe them without defining or creating more of them. I could actually just witness them without giving them more of my attention. And that was the beginning of my breakthrough.

Do you feel as if Satan has you in stitches? Subscribe to my blog and you will be notified when I post the continuation of this story.

Meanwhile, hang in there. Remember that no weapon formed against you shall prosper—if you just believe.

Love and light

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