Advanced EFT with Inner child work to resolve Daddy Issues – Session 1 |tapthegood.com


Daddy issues will not discriminate against you whether you are a man or woman, and/or the choice of your sexuality. Implying that, as a child if your father wasn’t the man you expected or wanted him to be, this is going to affect your adult relationships. Note that your father’s behavior whatever it was, has determined your beliefs about men in general. The relationship you had or didn’t have with your father is the foundation upon which you know how to relate with your partner(s), and other people.

In these EFT series I will be using EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique) to help you to resolve conflicts and negative stories reflecting on your father.

Please remember to go through this session for at least 14 days for it to be effective.

If you want more personalized sessions send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com. Or simply visit my website at http://www.tapthegood.com and follow the instructions of how to sign up for a session.

In the interim, I’m sending you abundant love from love from my heart to yours.

Love and light

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Invoking Christ Consciousness to Break all Agreements With Dark Entities


source-2Dark entities, negative spirits and other angry ancestral spirits can create havoc in one’s life. It takes more than wishful thinking or simple therapy to release the grip on them.

In this POWERFUL prayer, I invoke Christ Consciousness and the angelic realm to break all codes, contracts, agreements and associations plus the grip on this darkness.

Open your heart and allow the healing to take place.

If you need more work done, I specialize in helping clients release and heal from dark stuff.

Contact me if you need help. 

In the meantime, listen to this prayer every day for the next 9 days.

Sending you peace and blessings.

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Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains


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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

Click HERE to access the video recording.

If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from http://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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The Source of Inventions: An excerpt from the Book: Do Not Force It, Tap The Good


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Inventions are available to each of us if we open up our minds to them. It is both simple and exciting. If you want to come up with a new idea or service, begin focusing entirely on everything you do. As you go about your day, if you feel uncomfortable about anything you are doing, stop. Begin thinking about ways, means, or products that would have made your activity more comfortable or enjoyable to do.

Inventions

An invention is the gap between the uncomfortable and comfortable levels. That is how cell phones were made, to bridge the gap between the discomfort of having to look for someone all over the place, and the comfort of just picking up the phone and reaching them wherever they are.

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The next thing to do is search the Internet for any similar products or services that you think can bridge the identified gap. If there are none, then you have an invention. That idea right there is what you can turn into a mega product or service. The only work for you to do is to develop the confidence in the idea and pursue it limitlessly without letting anyone or anything discourage you. Remember, if you want it bad enough, you will get it.

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Session 14: Transcending The Fear of Losing Your Connection with God When You become Wealthy: (From the Book – Stimulate Your Money Magnetism)


The session below is retrieved from my newest book, Stimulate Your Money Magnetism: Advanced EFT, and Ho’oponopono Scripts to Dissolve all Your Subconscious and Conscious Money-related Fears and Stimulate Your Money Magnetism Now. There are 15 powerful sessions with scripts of advanced ho’oponopono and advanced EFT in the book. You will get to release all your negative programming about money.

Enjoy the free session below.

In case you don’t know where to tap or what the symbols mean, please refer to this diagram. And…you are welcome. 🙂

In some religions, they preach that God does not support wealth. And that it is ungodly to be wealthy. In this book, I will not indulge in religious disciplines. Rather, let me explain what I know about God.

Imagine that you decided to cover up the entire sky because you hate space. So, you collect a couple of friends and build strong and long towers in all corners of the earth. Next, you cover up the sky with thick, dark blankets that you nail into the towers. You continue patching up any gaps, spaces, and holes that you find so that the space in the sky is completely out of your sight.

Whether or not you accomplish your goal, sooner than later you realize you could only cover up the sky because you had the space in which to do so. If there was no space, you wouldn’t even breathe. You wouldn’t move. You wouldn’t be able to do anything. Your body is space, filled with whatever is in your body. For anything to be anything or anywhere, space is required. Equally, because God is infinite, “He/It” is everywhere. Just like the space in the sky and below it, we cannot escape the presence of God. God is not definite, meaning that God is not a thing or a person. God is imageless. Everything dwells in God, and God dwells in everything—unless, of course, you believe you are excluded from infinity, which belief is more fictious than fiction itself.

Money, wealth, poverty, and everything that is perceivable, and even unperceivable are in God. There is nothing without God. And this means that you cannot lose your connection with God, because you have earned or attracted more money. Note that you, the attraction of money, and the money itself, are all in God. God is also the supreme consciousness and awareness in which everything dwells. God is first and last of everything. You cannot lose the connection with existence. And God is existence, the source of existence and the awareness of existence. Try as you may, believe as you wish, deny with all the effort you have, but you can never be separate from God. You cannot escape God…and you have no choice.

Now that those facts are out of the way, let’s use the magical tools of EFT and ho’oponopono to dissolve the shadows of doubt and the egoistical based belief that you are separate from God, or that you can lose your connection with God when you become wealthy.

Let us begin.

Please refer to chapter 1 for more instructions about where and how to tap, if you haven’t already.

Scripts:

Step-up

Please tap on the karate chop point and report the following statements.

Even though I have this fear that I will lose my connection with God when I earn more money; I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though I have believed for so long that I am separate from God; I love, accept, and forgive myself and everyone else involved.

Even though I have believed other people’s opinions and beliefs about God; that is okay, I am doing the best I can.

General Session: (Note: I did not design the scripts in this session using the 5 steps procedure.)

Take a deep breath and continue tapping on the meridian points as you repeat the corresponding statements.

EB: What a costly mistake to believe that I am separate from God!

SE: I have been moving around believing that God is far away from me.  

UE: I have excluded myself from God, my source, holding onto beliefs that do not serve me.

UN: Why would God hate me or disown me because I have figured out how to be wealthy? This is sheer insanity.

Chn: I am so sick and tired of not having enough money, yet I keep inventing reasons to support my scarcity-infused consciousness. This is not right.

CB: I have been living a life of lies, with beliefs and fears that limit me. Oh my God! 

UA: It is time for me to wake up to the truth that God is nearer to me than my breath. God is my supply, my life and my awareness of being.

TH: I am now open to reconnecting with God within me, well knowing that it is God who provides, and I can never be separate from Him.

Ho’oponopono Session:

Say this prayer after the above session. The idea is to tune into your heart and believe every word you say. Repeat the prayer as many times as you deem right.

Divine creator, father, mother, God, I am so sorry for believing that I am separate from you. I forgot that my very I am-ness is you. I am, is your name; and it is my name also. We are not separate. I am, because you are.

Please forgive me for dreaming and believing that all I was, was my identity.

I let go of all my delusional notions of being separate from you, God.

I release my grip on the beliefs I have developed about who God is in me and who I am in God.

I return all my attention to my source, my creator.

I love you so much, divine creator, father, mother, God.

Thank you for loving me, taking care of me even when I didn’t really know or understand our relationship, or who and what you really are. Thank you for my life, and for bringing me to this point of recognition.

I love you, and I thank you.

Take a few deep breaths and smile.

To access all the other sessions, get your copy of the book

Love and light

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How “Fear” Stole my “Crown.”


Contestant number three, come up,” said the Miss Uganda Beauty Contest MC. And that contestant was me. As soon as I heard my number, fear took over my mind first, then my body. I started shivering and breathing as if I was going to die. I actually thought I would pass out. All my insecurities popped up in my mind like a dead fish on a water surface. My sight became blurred. I could hardly see. And all this happened in less than a minute. I later realized that the moment I gave in to the fear, it seemed to recruit all its negative relatives in form of emotions and memories.

I finally found my way to the stage. And I looked at everyone in the audience as if they had a gun pointed at me. My voice trembled as I answered the questions. Long story short, I didn’t take the crown home. I didn’t win the contest. And that’s how fear stole my Miss Uganda crown. But who is to blame? Me, myself and I. I gave in to the fear. I believed it. I welcomed it and it certainly showed up in avalanches.

The point is, if this fear blocked me from expressing myself confidently and probably winning the contest, how would it affect the flow of money to you? See, we are bombs of energy. And money is to us what we are to it. Money doesn’t chase after us; we do. But why? Because we have forgotten who we are to money and what money is to us. If we remember that money is nothing without us, then we let go of all our fears and be open to the different ways that can lead us to money-making opportunities. We have to remember that the energy of money flows to where the energy is clear, with a sense of ease. If you have money related fears, your relationship with money is conflicted and constricted.

I have a resource for you. Use the EFT and ho’oponopono scripts in my newest book. Stimulate Your Magnetism and you will reap the benefits.

Get your copy today. Click here to order.

Love and light
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Fear is What You Give it


A few years ago I found myself in an ambulance being rushed to the hospital for what I believed was a heart attack. My conditions started earlier that morning when I felt as if my heart was going to jump out of my chest. I felt fear overwhelm my senses and I believed I was going to die. The more I allowed the fear to overwhelm me, the more I shivered and trembled. In the ambulance on the way to the hospital the fear seemed to amplify. By the time we got to the hospital my entire body was shivering as if I was being electrocuted.

They took all sorts of blood work and when the doctor finally saw me, he said, “Girl, how do you feel now?” “I am okay.” I said. Apparently, the longer I stayed in the hospital the better I felt. I relaxed and started breathing normally. I wasn’t sure what was wrong. But I was certain that I was in some kind of danger.

You were having a panic attack,” said the doctor. “What are you worried about?” He continued. I was in shock. I couldn’t believe what he said. I thought I was in control of my emotions, but apparently I wasn’t.

Weeks before the panic attack, I had experienced a lot of traumatic events. Little did I know that I had saved them in my psyche. I had anointed these memories with avalanches of fear. And the more I gave into the fear, the more it manifested into panic, and hence the attack. This is how I concluded that fear is what we give it. It is just an emotion lingering in our consciousness until we give it our attention. Considering that our attention is so precious, everything we give it thrives.

What is in this Story For You?

~ Do you have money related fears?

~ What about money makes you afraid?

~ What negative memories about money do you have?

~ Is your money-conditioning free of fear?

~ How is fear blocking the flow of money into your experiences?

Find out more from my newest book, Stimulate Your Money Magnetism: Advanced EFT, and Ho’oponopono Scripts to Dissolve all Your Subconscious and Conscious Money-related Fears and Stimulate Your Money Magnetism Now

Using Doubt to Disable Fear


We often use doubt to investigate or negate actions, reactions or interactions. And these are normally external to us. However, we can also use doubt to disable our negative emotions.

Have you ever questioned your fears? Have you ever doubted fear without attaching it to the subject? Note that the subject is the whatever triggers the fear.

What if you start doubting your fears as they erupt in your mind? Why wouldn’t you?

When I feel fear, I always tell myself, “Fear, I doubt your genuinety, relevance and objectives. I doubt your intentions. I even doubt your root causes and reality. I doubt you, fear.” Silly as it might seem, this technique works to disable the fear.

You can also use doubt to doubt all other negative emotions or negative thoughts. And as you doubt them remember to maintain your position as the witness of your practice: meaning that you don’t add anything else to the doubt. Leave it virgin.

As a side note: Do you have your copy of “Stimulate Your Money Magnetism: Advanced EFT, and Ho’oponopono Scripts to Dissolve all Your Subconscious and Conscious Money-related Fears and Stimulate Your Money Magnetism Now

When You Let Go of Fear, the Truth Appears..


The lyrics to one of my favorite songs is, “When you let go of fear, the truth will appear, so simple and clear.”

Wouldn’t you agree?

How many times have you believed something to be what it is not, got super afraid of your convictions, only to realize at a future date that your belief and related fear weren’t the truth? How relieved did you feel?

At one point, I was so afraid of heights. My partner had to convince me to go down a kid’s slide. Before I got on it, I saw kids sliding down the simple slide easily and effortlessly. No one died. Yet I was so afraid to get on it. This is when I realized that I had deep-rooted fear for heights, and I also held onto it. I believed the fear and respected it.

My partner convinced me for about an hour before I got on the slide. And guess what? I didn’t die. lol

Why am I telling you this story? What is in it for you?

Well, what money-related fears are you carrying around in your psyche? Are you afraid that when you get wealthy or wealthier, you will lose your connection to your tribe? Do you believe that your family will isolate you if you hit that million? One of my clients told me once that she was afraid of becoming wealthy because her status will be received as disrespecting her father who had failed miserably in life. What other money-related fears do you hold dear?

Note that whatever we are afraid of, we promote more of. When we let go of fear, we see the truth of what things really are.

In my book, Stimulate Your Money Magnetism: Advanced EFT, and Ho’oponopono Scripts to Dissolve all Your Subconscious and Conscious Money-related Fears and Stimulate Your Money Magnetism Now, you will go through 15 powerful sessions, designed to help you cleanse your mind from money-related fear, and then re-introduce you to your true and constant wealthy nature. After going through the sessions in the book, you will have a healthier relationship with money. You will feel enthused and worthy of wealth and abundance. You will start identifying new ways to earn more money.

Get the book today, and please share the book’s information with all your friends, especially those who are financially struggling.

Thank you

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Introducing my 10th Book on Money Magnetism with EFT and Ho’oponopono


Whether you are dealing with the fear of not having money, losing money when you get it, or never having enough money, plus 14 other money related fears, that constipate your money magnetism, this book will help you resolve those fears.

Using the magical tools of EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique) and Ho’oponopono, a Hawaiian healing modality based on forgiveness at all levels, the book presents 15 sessions of counseling and psychologically charged scripts designed to help you transcend, resolve and release all money related fear from the subconscious level.

One of the many benefits of the book is that you will develop a healthier relationship with money.
Get your copy today.

The “I am not that” Method – Part 2


In the first part of this article I briefly introduced the referenced method. I promised to continue the article in this part.

The “I am not that” emotional freedom method is simple, and this is how it works.

Whenever a negative emotion overwhelms you, silently or loudly say, “I am not that.” And it doesn’t matter what the emotion is or who intense it feels. Once you disconnect from it by saying the statement, “I am not that” emotional relief is instant.

We all know that we are not our experiences, emotions, achievements, identities, tribes, desires, plans, possessions or even the roles we play. And although at times we might get so caught up in the things we have, want or the relationships we are in, we are still not them. We are the witnesses of all these things. We own them. It is the egoistical mind that convinces us that we are what we have, want, or our experiences. However, we are different, in that we are not things, we are not our thoughts. We are the space that dwells in our bodies, and actually beyond space. We are pure consciousness expressing as human beings, in our bodies. When we remind ourselves of this truth constantly, we are not affected by the illusion in our worlds.

By the way, I just published my newest book, Stimulate Your Money Magnetism: Advanced EFT, and Ho’oponopono Scripts to Dissolve all Your Subconscious and Conscious Money-related Fears and Stimulate Your Money Magnetism Now

The book is a game changer. Check it out

Love and light

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The “I am Not That” Self-healing Method


Unconditional self-love is a stress-reliever.” Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray, PhD, MBA

Who would consider the idea that loving yourself unconditionally can relieve your stress? 

When you ponder this idea, you realize that loving yourself unconditionally is powerful medicine to the body and soul.

But how do you love yourself unconditionally?

How do you stay in love with yourself when your conditions appear life threatening? How can you be in love when you have concluded that you are overweight, or not good enough?

How would you look at yourself in the mirror when you have zero balance in your bank account, and genuinely tell yourself how much you love you? 

How do you overlook your unpleasant conditions and stay in love with yourself unconditionally?

Here are a few pointers that helped me achieve that personal goal.

  1. Know who you are. 
  2. The only way to know who you are, is to know what or who you are not. Note that who you are can not be defined. You are not a thing.

Once you start identifying and detaching from what/who you are not, who you truly are will be looking back at you through your own eyes. 

Let me explain:

Let’s imagine your conditions are not pleasant. The egoistical mind automatically steps into your thoughts and presents ideas that seem so appealing to consider. Once you consider these ideas, you are hocked to the ego’s drama. Your mind is captured into the delusional web. Stress. anxiety, self-doubt, self-hatred, and all other negative emotions, ideas and even memories show up in your mind to convince you that it is over for you because the unpleasant conditions are here to finish you. Self-love, becomes the last idea on your mind. 

So, how do you use the “I am not that” Method to relieve stress and overcome these unpleasant conditions?

Well, share your views and I will continue this article with my own views of this method in the next post. 

Love and light

Happiness Must be Earned…


How can you possible earn something that you already have?

It is without reasonable and unreasonable doubt that all the emotions we need or generate are already within us. So, how and why should happiness be earned? Besides, happiness is related to happening. It is indicative that for happiness to manifest, something must first happen. But is that the truth? Aren’t there people who are happy regardless of what is, or is not happening? How then do we earn happiness?

In her book, “The Game of Life and How to Play it,” Florence Shinn, wrote;

In that wonderful moving picture, “The Thief of Bagdad,” we were told in letters of light that happiness must be earned.

It is earned through perfect control of the emotional nature. There can be no happiness where there is fear, apprehension or dread. With perfect faith in God comes a feeling of security and happiness. When man know that there is an invincible power that protects him and al that he loves, and brings to him every righteous desire of the heart, he relaxes all nervous tension and is happy and satisfied. He is undisturbed by adverse appearances, knowing that Infinite Intelligence is protecting his interests and utilizing every situation tp bring his good to pass.

Uneasy lies the head that wears a frown.”……

That being said, it also worth considering the idea that sadness is also earned. When we forget who we truly are in our true nature, that loss of memory earns us not just sadness, but also all the madness you can imagine in the world.

In my book, Command: 21 Days of Affirmative Prayer and Counseling, you will not only release all self-inflicted emotional, mental and soul-based pain, you will also re-learn who you are in God, and who God is in you. And this is life changing information that will earn you all the happiness you only dream about; especially if you do the work suggested in the book.

Get your COPY HERE

Love and light

Dr. Jacent M Mpalyenkana-Murray, is a spiritual counselor, coach, speaker and published author.

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The Power in Immateriality – In Memory of my Father


We live in a material world, or at least need materials to facilitate our lives. Evidently materialism has its place. However, the source of materiality takes the superior position if compared to the latter. All things regardless of their nature and magnitude are rooted in immateriality, aka the invisible: and to be more specific, consciousness. To divert slightly, invisibility is the source of visibility. And sometimes, if not most, the invisible nuggets we possess are more powerful and impactful than our “visibles.”

Why am I sharing this?

Well, today is 28 years since my biological father decided to leave his body. At a very tender age, I looked at his lifeless body and felt my heart melt in tears by the burning, unending and determined pain. I was heart broken. I was confused, disappointed and afraid. I hadn’t known him long enough. I didn’t know how I was to remember him. I didn’t know what he had left for me, that I would hold onto to keep him alive in my mind, and especially in my heart. I moaned his death for years.

But today, I understand that the immaterial wealth our parents leave in us, is more important than the material they give us. I know that even if he had left for me the most expensive car on earth, it would not hold the same value, today. I have also learnt that values, skills, knowledge and wisdom, are some of the most valuable invisible nuggets that have the power to endlessly create visible things… materialism.

No material thing survives time. Time consumes everything. So, today, I sit in gratitude and honor of my father, because of the wisdom he gave me–wisdom that has stood the test of time. I remember he told me that money is important but it doesn’t buy love; forgiveness is a pathway to peace: and trusting other human beings is overrated. As I get older, these nuggets of wisdom are great additions to my personal values. They possess the potential for unlimited materialism, or wealth, in different forms. Most importantly, although I miss my father very much, what he left in me, keeps him alive in my heart. And although he is no longer visibly available for me to see, he is always alive in my mind, in my heart and in my life. He is always here with me in my very DNA: the DNA he gave me when he fathered me. And I will forever be grateful for what he left in me.

What is in this Story for you?

Below are a few of the takeaways.

  1. True wealth is rooted in the invisible world. What you have, is who you are.
  2. The most precious gifts in life, are invisible nuggets such as wisdom, knowledge, skills and personal values.
  3. Just because you don’t see it, doesn’t mean it is not there.
  4. Gratitude is like a sun: it brings warmth and light in times of sadness and darkness.
  5. We don’t die: we only leave our bodies. 🙂

Feeling sad and despondent today? Get my book, The Sanity Warrior: Becoming the Authority of Your experiences. The book will not just inspire you: it will lead you, step by step, into igniting your own inspiration.

Love and light

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