Advanced EFT with Inner child work to resolve Daddy Issues – Session 1 |tapthegood.com


Daddy issues will not discriminate against you whether you are a man or woman, and/or the choice of your sexuality. Implying that, as a child if your father wasn’t the man you expected or wanted him to be, this is going to affect your adult relationships. Note that your father’s behavior whatever it was, has determined your beliefs about men in general. The relationship you had or didn’t have with your father is the foundation upon which you know how to relate with your partner(s), and other people.

In these EFT series I will be using EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique) to help you to resolve conflicts and negative stories reflecting on your father.

Please remember to go through this session for at least 14 days for it to be effective.

If you want more personalized sessions send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com. Or simply visit my website at http://www.tapthegood.com and follow the instructions of how to sign up for a session.

In the interim, I’m sending you abundant love from love from my heart to yours.

Love and light

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Invoking Christ Consciousness to Break all Agreements With Dark Entities


source-2Dark entities, negative spirits and other angry ancestral spirits can create havoc in one’s life. It takes more than wishful thinking or simple therapy to release the grip on them.

In this POWERFUL prayer, I invoke Christ Consciousness and the angelic realm to break all codes, contracts, agreements and associations plus the grip on this darkness.

Open your heart and allow the healing to take place.

If you need more work done, I specialize in helping clients release and heal from dark stuff.

Contact me if you need help. 

In the meantime, listen to this prayer every day for the next 9 days.

Sending you peace and blessings.

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Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains


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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

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If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from http://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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The Source of Inventions: An excerpt from the Book: Do Not Force It, Tap The Good


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Inventions are available to each of us if we open up our minds to them. It is both simple and exciting. If you want to come up with a new idea or service, begin focusing entirely on everything you do. As you go about your day, if you feel uncomfortable about anything you are doing, stop. Begin thinking about ways, means, or products that would have made your activity more comfortable or enjoyable to do.

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An invention is the gap between the uncomfortable and comfortable levels. That is how cell phones were made, to bridge the gap between the discomfort of having to look for someone all over the place, and the comfort of just picking up the phone and reaching them wherever they are.

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The next thing to do is search the Internet for any similar products or services that you think can bridge the identified gap. If there are none, then you have an invention. That idea right there is what you can turn into a mega product or service. The only work for you to do is to develop the confidence in the idea and pursue it limitlessly without letting anyone or anything discourage you. Remember, if you want it bad enough, you will get it.

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The Secrets of Ho’oponopono and How to Make it Work | Part 1


Ho’oponopono is a powerful Hawaiian healing modality that has secrets ingrained in it. The more you use it to liberate yourself from whatever is pursuing you, the more it reveals the different ways in which it can be used to resolve the most complicated emotional, mental and spiritual issues that you can ever imagine.

In this video I explain some of the secrets, call them tools, that are vital for the process to work.

You will learn how to make the process work to resolve any issues that you want resolved.

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Powerful Prayer- Invoking the Fire Element to Banish All Witchcraft


You are more powerful than you think. Your words are creative. Your awareness marries you to whatever you are aware of. Your name is I am. It is also my name. It is everyone’s name. And it is the name of God. Remember that “You shall not say the Lord’s name in vain.” Meaning that everything you put after I am, you become. You become that which you claim yourself to be with the power of “I am“.

In this powerful prayer, I invoke the fire element, aka, the holy fire, with the power of my words and based on the authority that we are all one with God, to banish, rebuke and destroy all witchcraft that could be affecting you in any way. Listen to the prayer, everyday for the next 30 days.

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Self-Purification Guided Meditation| tapthegood.com


Divine soul, welcome to my blog.

Remember that you are pure awareness. This is a guided meditation based on the teachings of awakened Master, Sri Moojiji. You can actually look him up on Youtube to access his special take on explaining this concept of pure awareness. This meditation will purify your soul, mind and body in ways that your personhood might not comprehend. If you are overwhelmed by negative thoughts or negative feelings, this meditation will take you back to your original innocence.

Do the meditation everyday, morning and evening for best results.

I love you, and I thank you.

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Are You Positively or Negatively Disciplined?


You might be wondering how discipline can be negative or positive, or how this content can benefit you. However just like all other inner powers that we possess, discipline is susceptible to the law of duality. You can use it to upgrade or degrade your life.

To elaborate on this point further, I will pose a few questions for you to ponder. The questions are;

  1. Have you ever been so disciplined about anything yet failed to achieve your desired goal?
  2. What was your inspiration? Meaning, what drove you into disciplining yourself? Was it pain, fear of losing more of what you had, fear of other negative things happening, or was it the forecasted pleasure you believed was part of the result you sought?
  3. Would it have been “resistance” that drove your discipline?

If you were driven by pain, pleasure or fear, and failed, chances are that your actions didn’t add up to what was required. So, although you were disciplined you were probably not clear about what you really wanted, or maybe this is not what you really wanted–which attitude was reflected in your performance. Furthermore, when discipline is driven by resistance, chances are that the results are unsustainable–because whatever is resisted persists. Note that this is negative-adorned discipline.

For instance, let’s imagine that you decided to lose a few pounds and consequently started disciplining your eating habits and exercise routine. If you got disciplined to lose weight because you were resisting a heart attack, or you were resisting being fired from a job that required you to be a certain size, you were driven by resistance. This also means that what you didn’t want to happen drove you. However, if you decided to lose weight and got motivated by the desire for better health, your discipline was driven by what you wanted (This is positive-adorned discipline).

In one of these scenarios you focused on what you didn’t want, and in the second, you focused on what you wanted. Note that for the most part, manifestations match the motivations of the discipline.

So, how do you ensure that whatever you are disciplined about will reward you your desired end? Below are a few suggestions to be considered before getting disciplined to pursue any goal.

  1. Decide on what you want in positive terms. Make sure that it is what you really want. You must be clear about the results you want to manifest.
  2. Once you embark on disciplining yourself to pursue your goals, make sure that you focus on your inspiration…what you want. Regardless of what happens during this process, do not let the psychological mind derail you from your positive focus.
  3. Live in the end: meaning that as you take the steps towards achieving a set goal, feel as though you already have what you want, in the now. Make your then, now and your there, here.
  4. Go beyond just disciplining your actions and consider disciplining your mind to religiously focus on what you want. 

“Make your then, now and your there, here.”

~ Rev Ike

The next time you decide to get disciplined examine the inspiration behind your decision. Also, if you are one who is energized by productivity and achievement, make sure that your disciplines are based on positive inspirations.

The Sanity WarriorBecoming The Authority of Your Experiences, is a book I published recently and it will inspire you to examine the inner workings of your psychological mind and how you can transcend the related viruses in order to start living life on your terms.

Get your COPY, TODAY.

If anything in this article sparked you, please share your sparks. 🙂

Love and light

Jacinta MM Murray

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The Role of Perception in Life


“The goal of all perception is to fully realize itself in whatever it perceives.” Dr. Jacinta M Mpalyenkana-Murray

The above quote came to me during one of my meditations. And it means that perception fully manifests when it sees itself in whatever it perceives.

“Perception fully realizes itself when it sees itself in whatever it perceives.” – Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray

Your perception is mirrored in what you perceive regardless of whether the former reveals the truth in whatever is perceived or not. And since perception is projection, your perceptive nature is projected from your inner world. So, you see the world as you are and not necessarily as it is. Hence, the saying, “As with in you so with out.”

Note that this notion has a few interesting implications.

  1. Your perception serves you by perceiving and presenting a reflection of your inner programming. Note that somewhere along the way you allowed information and data to comfortably dwell within, and program you, and this is how you design and project your perception onto your outer world.
  2. You are the authority of your experiences because you are the recruiter of the inner programming upon which you project and perceive the world, and the experiencer of these projections.
  3. You are superior and boss to your perceptive nature. Perception obeys you, and responds to your needs and delivers exactly that which you desire, good or bad.
  4. You are more powerful than you think. However, you can use this power to deliver positives in your experiences or create havoc in your life. It all depends on you. Remember, within you, is the King of your life’s kingdom. 

The questions are:

(a) Are you taking on the king’s position or the slave’s?

(b) How do you become the authority of your experiences?

(c) How do you stay on top of your life’s game and win yourself back from the insanities in life?

In my book, The Sanity Warrior: Becoming the Authority of Your Experiences, you will discover or simply be reminded of your God-given powers and how you can use them to transcend the virus of the psychological mind and then live life on more positive terms.

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Blood is Thicker Than Color


One of the laws of nature is that energy flows where focus dwells. Meaning that, the more we focus on something the more we give it the power it needs to expand. Our attention magnifies things, and we shouldn’t ignore that.

In my humble opinion, I believe it is time for us to focus on how we can create inclusion and acceptance for all, instead of the contrary. We should ask ourselves the following questions?

  1. How can we forgive those who have hurt us and move on?
  2. How can we heal from the wounds of our past, learn from our mistakes and disappointments, and then focus on the positives in our lives and the world in general?
  3. How can we forgive ourselves, let go of guilt and begin relating with each other with empathy, compassion and kindness?
  4. How can we learn to accept and love one another regardless of our differences?
  5. How best can we communicate to find common ground on the issues of racism and discrimination?
  6. What systems can we establish in schools and at home to educate our children about the benefits of loving and accepting others for who they are?
  7. How can we all be at our best behavior, look out for each other and treat each other with respect?
  8. How can we re-establish our faith in our police force and the law markers?
  9. How can we help our police serve us better?
  10. How can we individually take full responsibility of our actions and behaviors, and start healing ourselves to be better people?
  11. How can we understand without a reasonable doubt that our skin color is just a color, and that we are all human?
  12. How can we remember that blood is thicker than color, meaning that who we are underneath our skin colors and race, are our hearts which beat because of the same force, God?
  13. How can we unite as one big human family? How can we do it?

I believe there is one answer for all these questions. But I want to hear your views, because together we can brainstorm to create this urgently needed global change.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray is a Spiritual counselor, tranformational coach and author. For more about her, visit http://www.tapthegood.com

Advanced Ho’oponopono to Dissolve Childhood Trauma |Video 2| Release Subconscious Related Benefits


For the most part, if you’ve held onto memories of childhood trauma, your subconscious mind can create benefits in order to retain these memories. These benefits are created to justify and validate the retention of the traumatic memories.

For instance, let’s imagine that you were sexually abused as a child. As an adult the subconscious mind can create convictions that retaining these memories provides a safety net to protect you from related abuse. So, you hold onto the memories because with them, you feel protected.

For example, every time you come in contact with someone with the likes of your abuser, you immediately put up defense and avoid them with intent to protect yourself from being abused again. Consequently, if you are single, you can stay single for a very long time, or attract partners who abuse you, as a projection of your subconscious memories and beliefs.

However, you also have to remember that you don’t have to hold onto the memories to be protected from future abuse. It’s actually backwards. The more you hold onto these negative memories, the more they project themselves in your experiences. Holding onto these memories manifests into a lot of negative emotions and behavior that overrides the benefits. When you let them go, space is created within you to function from a place of clarity and peace.

With spaciousness, you can create more positive states and intentions that will be projected in your experiences. Note that as within, so with out.

In this session, we shall use advanced Ho’oponopono to get your inner child to release these delusional benefits so that you get started on your deeper healing journey.

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Powerful Affirmations to Transform all Negativity into Positivity|Listen Everyday to be Transformed


Quotes-About-Life-Positive-energy“It shall be done unto you as you believe.”

Listen to these affirmations (Video below) everyday as you also believe that they are changing your life instantly. Don’t doubt this. Don’t doubt your personal power. Believe, and it shall be done as you believe.

 

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Insert, “50% CCTH program” in the subject line, and make your purchase before or by 6/30/2020. When you send the email, you will receive further instructions on how to pay and how much your discounted amount is.

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In the meantime, trust in your “SELF.” Know that you are enough.

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