You Are Not Your Emotions!

Last week’s blog was about how we all at times, jail up ourselves and stay in relationships with people who are more than energy vampires. In there, you feel so emotionally weak and mentally drained, yet have no courage to walk away. He/she is like your personal-blend of an addictive drug that you need to survive-yet slowly but surely destroy yourself in the process.
Consciously, you are well-aware that you should run for your life; however, something within you keeps you holding on. You can’t explain it. It hurts, yet emotionally stings even more, whenever you attempt to stay away from them. Do you feel me???

As an Advanced Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Practitioner, I have included a brief video at the end of this article, with a free EFT session for anyone who feels like they are in a relationship-jail. The session will address general root-causes of any emotions that could be promoting one’s self-jailing attitude.

EFT is a psychologically-charged technique discovered over five thousand years ago by the Acupuncturists. Just like them, less of needles, EFT works by one tapping on the same meridian points and self-talking, while acknowledging whatever emotions are engrossed in the body’s energetic system-which then magically gets rid of them. EFT has been known to produce instant results regardless of whether one believes in the process or not.

In the attached video, please tap along with me, as you repeat the statements that I say.
Try it out with enthusiasm. This may be the ticket to your emotional freedom.

Happy tappy.

Is it Just Sex??


The love of Sex, although disguised and manipulated like nothing else in the world, with the exception of Money, is one of the most famous subjects in the world. That said, it is also still the most misinterpreted.

Accordingly, when two people meet, the first thing that pops in both their minds is normally sex-related. A guy looks at the lady and undresses her a thousand times-wondering what is underneath her garments. Before they have sex, he watches her every feature as if it is were something to eat. At the back of his mind, he’s wondering what he would do with it, and how it would feel. In brief, he has sex with her before he practically does.

The woman on the other hand, is wondering about the size of his “willie? “

Can he use it the way I want?” Can he kiss?” “I wonder how many women he has slept with.” She silently questions. 

Both parties silently evaluate each other sexually and hope that the other will do a good job.  This is not to say that they do not contemplate on other pre-set attributes that they expect in a partner; however the issue of sex tends to sound lounder than anything else.

When they finally sleep with each other, they, for the first time in most cases conclude that the act was weird. The most probable reason is that they didn’t take enough time to embrace, understand and appreciate each other at deeper levels.

We all forget that we are more than just our sex organs. We should stop taking our “private parts” so seriously. We are spiritual, emotional beings as well. For others to enjoy us, they need to know, or at the very least attempt to understand the totality of who we really are.

If you are in a relationship based on just sex, then you need to step back and evaluate the entirety of your partner-else your relationships is set for the rocks.

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