The normal and decent way of living, is for kids to have both parents, not only nurturing, available and loving, but also openly embracing the same attributes for themselves. As kids we tend to soak in all experiences, since at that stage we don’t have the audacity to choose what is good for our mental banks and what isn’t.
Unfortunately, these memories comfortably lodge into our unconscious minds, only to create our future experiences.
If your father was abusive, violent or walked out on you and your mom, and you happen to have witnessed it all, your unconscious mind might have held onto these experiences as reality. That’s why you may be attracting the same type of men repetitively…with attributes very similar to your father’s.
Undoubtedly, there is a part of you that misses him, longs for him and/or blames him. There are also so many other emotions that may develop as a result of such experiences. Some people feel angry, sad, and/or lonely.
Unless you forgive that part of you still holding onto your father, there is a high possibility that you won’t attract true love. And if you do, you will be so busy searching for your father in every man you meet.
In this article, I have included a video recording of me administering a brief EFT- Emotional Freedom Technique exercise that will help you get an edge off those emotions. If you can do the exercise for a couple of days, I guarantee that you will witness positive changes in your life.
link to video is http://youtu.be/H0RpxMmPxg4
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