Apparently, according to our social structures, love day is a day away. Interesting, right? Does this imply that the remaining 364 days are hate days? What happens during these days? Are we supposed to save our love-related behavioral traits for 2/14? Are we expected to restrict our hearts for feeling love and doing things that reflect that, just to save the cream for the Love Day Theme? What are we supposed to do during the Hate Days?
In my opinion, we’ve mastered the attitudes and actions to take during the 364 Hate Days. We kill, conflict, prepare for war, steal, spam, trick, and do all the hate related activities around the clock. It is funny-because even on Valentine’s Day, a day that humanity has saved for love, we still do hateful things.
The next question then is; what can we do to feel and practice love 24/7, 365.5 days a year…every time, all the time? With all the negativity going around like a dangerous flu, how do we survive hate for ourselves, others and everything in our environment?
To achieve this, I have put together a 5 step proven process that will help one not only heal from self-hate and self-sabotage, but also help them achieve sustainable love for themselves and others.
Step 1: Acknowledge that the greatest love of all is loving yourself. We all have to remember that our experiences are determined by our internal dialogues. Whatever we feel inside, is what we offer to the world. When you have absolute love for the self, this is exactly what you radiate to the world.
2. Take 100% responsibility of your emotional baggage
This will help you initiate and succeed at the forgiveness process. When you realize that no one owes you anything, and that you owe yourself the focus and related actions to heal your life, then, and only then, can you gain back your self-power.
3. Build sustainable self-standards.
This is self explanatory. Set standards below which you won’t serve, receive, give, experience or relate. We have to remember that we are the navigation systems of our lives.
4. Nourish your spiritual being.
You can do this through meditation, prayer or whatever else your spiritual/religious preferences advocate for in order to maintain a sense of peace and faith in a higher power within you.
5. Accept change as part of evolution.
This will help one maintain unconditional self-love regardless of external occurrences. No change or event will derail one’s high regard or love for themselves if they understand that change is part of progress.
Happy Love day; and I hope this positively shifts you or someone you know.
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Love and light.