Become Positively Selfish


Often, we all focus too much on other people’s needs, problems, progress, etc, yet forget our own issues that could need urgent consideration. We then find ourselves so stressed out about other people’s issues, and ironically, ours.

There are times when we’ve got to become positively selfish; meaning that we give ourselves guilty-free permission to focus on ourselves.


In the preceding process, we need to examine our physical, emotional and spiritual beings in order to establish where we need to stretch and heal; or how we can change and grow. Once we are done examining these areas of our lives, we then discover that we actually don’t have a lot of time dealing with other people’s businesses. Also, considering that the better we become, the more attractive we become to ourselves and to the outside world, it is imperative to take time out for ourselves.


So, how do you become positively selfish?

  1. Establish how you can improve your physical, emotional and spiritual states.
  2. Start out by exercising for at least 20 minutes a day. Remember that exercising releases endorphins that reduce stress.Image
  3. Come up with a simple daily to-do list that indicates the things that you will do to improve or elevate your emotional and spiritual statesImage
  4. Spend at least 10 minutes a day, less of interruptions such as TV, cell phones, and think about the things that you WANT to happen in your life.
  5. ImageRead an empowerment or self-help book for at least 15 minutes every night before you go to sleep. Try Do Not Force It, Tap The Good: an inspirational philosophical book that shares lessons the whole world can live by. Image

You can take charge of your life my friend by focusing on yourself. Remember that we all deserve to be on top of our game.

 Love and light

Tap into Love-based Sex to Tone Your Muscles:

What is your motive of having sex? Is it love, a need, or lust? Read on!!

The Spiritual Sex CEO


Sex without love is fucking. Sex while in love but less of romance is what I call “convenient sex.” One of my life pursuits is advocating for sex morals; sacred sex, and sex based on love. In my opinion and according to research, committed-sex with one partner at a time is the only way that we can connect to our partners at a deeper level and then ablaze our sexual experiences.


Following are some sex styles and related toned muscles that I read from

The first advisable step is to stretch for at least 10 minutes daily. This will prepare your muscles for more sophisticated sex styles.

1. Cowgirl


With a standard cowgirl position, the lower part of the woman’s legs are braced on the bed or floor. This engages her butt and core. Please understand that modifying the cowgirl position can work additional muscle groups.

2. Lotus

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You are LOVE:

You are LOVE. A weekly blog to inspire you, and remind you who you really are.

Love, Men and Money


You are love.

Attracting love means that we feel the love within ourselves before it can show up in our external experiences.

It’s just a matter of tapping into the abundance of love within and around us, and staying connected.

Connecting with love means that we forgive, let go of the resistance to hold onto negative emotions and experiences, and then treat ourselves with love.


Today I challenge you to do things that will ignite the love in, and for you.

What you do could be as simple as cleaning your house and getting rid of all the clutter.


  1. Have a salt bath

Image2.  Sit down and do nothing; which means no television, no phone calls. Just sit down in your couch and think about all the great things in your life.


  1. Think about love. What does it do for you? How does it make you feel? When where you last…

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Beyond These Words: A Poem for my mother on Mothers’ Day.


Mama, you are the courage I hold for keeps

You are the smile brought to mine on time

You are the wings to fly beyond

You are the abundant source of my drive


Your wisdom is deepest beyond compare

Your love is stronger than all the strength

Your love it touches the core of my soul

Your love it soothes my very life-force

Your love is the fuel for my tired days

Your love is the source of the love I give.

Your passion deeper than the deepest seas

Your endurance present regardless of times

The support thy giveth compares to none

When I say I love you, it’s beyond these words.



Happy Mothers’ day Mama.


 Video recording for mama – link is at

Jacinta Mariah

The Most Important Sexual Secret About Men:

This week’s article in this blog is about the Biggest Secret of Every man. You definitely can’t miss out on this one. To learn more, click on the link with the title.

The Spiritual Sex CEO


According to the Wikipedia, Chromosomes are long, stringy aggregates of genes that carry heredity information. They are composed of DNA and proteins, and are located within the nucleus of our cells. Chromosomes determine everything from hair color and eye color to sex. Whether you are a male or female, depends on the presence or absence of certain chromosomes.”


The sex of any individual is determined by a pair of sex chromosomes: X and Y. Females have two of the same kind of sex chromosome (XX), and are called the homogametic sex. Males have two distinct sex chromosomes (XY), and are called the heterogametic sex. And this fact reasonably contributes to how men behave sexually.


Here is the secret: Deep within every man is a hidden, burning desire to get more of a woman’s X chromosomes, in order to attain a sense of balance. The only way this can…

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Set Standards for Yourself:

Please take a moment to preview this week’s article about setting standards for oneself, and the power of forgiveness.
Have a brilliant weekend.
love and light

Love, Men and Money


“When you don’t set standards for yourself, you fall for anything” is an adage that has been around for a while. When without standards, you are like a hunter who goes to the hunting grounds without a spear-with unrealistic-hope that your hunting buddies will spare one for you. The problem is that you have rendered yourself vulnerable to either getting a spear you don’t like or not getting any at all. If you had prepared yourself, got a spear of your size and length, you would be certain of taking part in the hunting spree.


Setting standards for yourself is a definite way of preparing yourself for the world. It involves establishing a clear and set mind of what you want in life, and then launching self-esteem benchmarks below which you won’t operate. This process requires one to program and monitor thought processes in order to eliminate all that…

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