It is not selfish to say that it’s all about you. It’s actually empowering. Remember that you are the most important treasure for your life. Without you, your life and world do not exist.
I understand that we’ve been programmed to make our lives about others. It’s been the right thing to do. It’s deemed the spiritual thing to do. However just like batteries, they won’t have any purpose if they aren’t charged. By understanding that it’s all about you, you prepare and charge yourself for the world. Your wellbeing is the key to your giving, living, loving, and being.
How do you give what you don’t have?
How do you donate from an empty account?
How do you support when your foundation is cracking?
You need to fully own who you are in order to give yourself to others–without losing yourself in the process.
That’s why it’s vital to take care of you before anything or anyone else. This is not selfish. It’s actually the exact opposite. It is the most enlightened philanthropy.
How do you program yourself to remember that it’s all about you?
Do Not Force It, Tap The Good: How to Tap into one’s Inner Infinite Intelligence, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on his/her Terms, is a book that show you how.
Love and light
Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana Ph.D., MBA
Author, Speaker, Counselor / Coach