Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains


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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

Click HERE to access the video recording.

If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from http://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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Or sign up for my complimentary 30 minutes consultation session to set up counseling sessions that are guaranteed to help you take your power back from the negative past in order to live life on your terms.

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Dr. Jacinta Mpa, Ph.D., MBA, is a published author, counselor and transformational coach. For more about her, visit www.tapthegood.com.

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It is Time to Surrender – 3 Proven Psychological Steps to Help you Surrender


Are you attached to a desire or goal and finding it hard to surrender to the process?

Does your passion/desire for your goal stress you out?

Are you worried that you might not achieve your goal?

Well, maybe it is time to surrender. And to do so, I have recorded this VIDEO with 3 proven psychological tools to help you detach from your goal, and instead focus on the goals as you also enjoy every moment of the process.

I know this will help.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/F2qpkBwEtqs

Please do not forget to share with friends or family who might need these tips.

Love and light.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PH.D., MBA

Author, Spiritual Counselor, Corporate Trainer, Speaker

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

 

FEELING STUCK? CHECK OUT THIS EFT SESSION TO HELP YOU OUT


Are you feeling stuck?

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Do you feel as if you’ve hit the wall and you just don’t know what to do?

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I feel you–which is why I have recorded this EFT session (accessible in THIS VIDEO) to help you resolve some of the related negative emotions.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/R1CGcqhUG7E (copy and paste the link in your browser)

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If you need personalized personal coaching, and/or counseling sessions, do not hesitate to send me an email at the address below.

In the interim, have a gracious day.

Love and light

 

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

 

Life is About Dealing With Issues


Life is about dealing with issues: financial issues, societal issues, political issues, etc, and especially, emotional issues.

Dealing with emotional issues on a continuous basis is the pathway to emotional freedom.

I have a gift for you; an eBook. With the magical tools of EFT, the Emotional Freedom Technique, also known as tapping, you are set not only to heal from emotional baggage, but also achieve self-empowerment, clarity and peace of mind.

To download the eBook, please click HERE

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Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

How to Perform an EFT Basic Procedure – Issue dealt with – Fear of Public Speaking


In this video, I illustrate how to administer an EFT basic procedure. Link to video is –  https://youtu.be/l3zc15Gjqnk

The issue I use to illustrate is “fear of public speaking”.

If you want more personalized sessions, feel free to contact me –contacts are included below.

The decision is yours to take the next step towards achieving emotional freedom from the mind-damn stuff. 🙂

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, EFT Master Practitioner, Success Coach & Counselor 

http://www.tapthegood.com