Two Main Reasons For Self-neglect and a Simple Remedy | tapthegood.com | Counseling


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Ever wondered why you resent taking care of yourself? Or why you prefer short term gratification and quick fixes for issues related to your well-being? This video shares some ideas that will help.

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Dr. Jacent M Murray, is a Spiritual counselor, Transformational coach, author and speaker. She helps her clients achieve emotional freedom from whatever is weighing them down, and partners with them to discover their true nature–in order to live life on their terms.

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Anger Management with Advanced EFT – 7 Video Sessions Included


In my humble opinion, anger is an indication that one is holding onto an unpleasant past. It is reveals that one is still stuck in the past–carrying a whole load of negative memories. 

There are many reasons on which anger is rooted. And although these reasons are acknowledged and respected, they retard, instead of progress us. 

My life has presented many opportunities for me to be angry. And I have given in to these “opportunities” more times than not. I have had very profound reasons to justify my anger. And I have held onto these reasons persistently at the back of my mind to promote the anger. I thought it was right and fitting, and actually needed of me to express my anger. I deserved to be angry. “Isn’t that what human beings do?” I thought.  Now, tell me about insanity!!  At the end of the day, the anger hurt me more than the people and experiences I was angry with. And this is a lesson to remember for as long as I live. I learned that it is vital for me to let things go as soon as they happen. There is absolutely no reason to hold onto an ugly past. And although one has to remember the lessons learned, the assigned perceptions and conclusions about the negative experiences should be nullified and dropped from the mind as quickly as possible.

It is important to remain silent and observe the angry thoughts dwelling in the mind before they take over our emotions. 

“Anger is one of the certain routes to insanity. “

If you are dealing with anger, I have recorded 7 videos to help you release and let this anger go. In the videos, I have employed the magical tools of EFT, the emotional freedom technique, known to help millions of people globally to achieve emotional freedom.

Please take advantage of these videos and do share about your experiences.

 

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Dr. Jacinta M M Murray, is a spiritual counselor and transformational coach. One of the techniques she uses to help her clients achieve emotional freedom is EFT. As an advanced practitioner, Jacinta has helped thousands of her clients achieve emotional freedom. 

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EFT Session to Release Fear Energy


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Fear is a positive emotion when it alerts us of the dangers related to playing it small or repeating what hurt us in the past. However, fear is retarding when it stops us from progressing. 

Fear has a tendency of telling us everything that could go wrong with what we plan to do or what we are doing at a particular moment.  Once we give in to these fears, we lose confidence in whatever we are pursuing. Fear blurs our focus, inspires procrastination, blocks our vision and keeps us captives of our self-created hell. Fear is the reason we stay in abusive relationships or at jobs that are literally killing us.

In this video I use the magical tools of EFT to release the fear that inspires a belief that things won’t change for the better. 

Use this recording every day for the next 21 days to release fear energy from your system.

Let me know how you feel after tapping.

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Keep Shinning Regardless – An Inspirational Message


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Have you ever shared your dream with someone only to be discouraged?

Have you ever been so certain about the direction that you want to take only to be told by someone you trust that you are going to fail?

If you answered yes, to any of the above questions then you understand how it feels when someone tries to blow out your light….damn your enthusiasm.

Apparently, it’s human nature for one to damn someone else’s light if theirs isn’t shinning. Remember that misery loves company, and if you are in company with people who have given up on their dreams, don’t expect them to inspire you.

Note that people who feel insecure about their own qualities will attempt to make others feel that way. They will devise mental plots to get you to start doubting yourself.

Furthermore, if one is stuck in a dark place for a while, understand that they have become accustomed to the darkness. They don’t want to experience anything different. Their brains have settled, and it normally takes some mental and emotional work for them to snap out of their illusion and start shinning their own light. Therefore, if you share your dream with someone in that mental state, be sure to receive discouragement.

“If one is stuck in a dark place for a while, understand that they have become accustomed to the darkness”

The next question is, what do you do if someone discourages you?

The answer lies in the very reason why you want to pursue your goal. Your why, should matter more than what anyone else says about you or your goals. Besides, what others think or say about you is their business: that’s their model of the world. Whatever one is projecting in their mind has nothing to do with you. Your business is what’s brewing in your own mind. Therefore, you can’t let naysayers retard your decision to move forward with your dream. Remember, no one but you has the power to put out your light. You are the master of your enthusiasm and your inner thrill, and it’s really up to you to keep shinning no matter what.

“No one but you has the power to put out your light.”

Serena Williams

In this video, I share a few tips that you can use to keep your light shinning. The tips are simple and I’m certain that you already know about them. However, sometimes it helps when we are reminded that the answers and solutions we seek for are always within us.

 

 

 

 

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How Doubt Blocks us From Earning More Money


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It’s often said that getting things is easy; but believing that we can get these things is the difficult part. Doubt tends to engulf our minds consistently, which then blocks us from doing all we can to earn more money. This doubt is normally based on dwelling on past unfavorable experiences where we either didn’t earn the money we needed or we lost it.

For instance, let’s imagine that you have been working so hard to earn more money, but for some reason haven’t made it happen. Even if a new opportunity comes along, you may not believe that this opportunity will earn you money because that hasn’t been your experience. However, we also have to remember that dwelling on the past creates a similar future.

Doubt is also accelerated by the fear that our past might repeat itself in the future. In his book, The Magic in Believing, Claude Bristol explains that believing, is the link between what we want and don’t have, and having it. Once you start believing that you can get something your brain will identify ways to make it happen.

Believing creates enthusiasm. Believing fuels our focus, and positive attitude towards what we want. Believing amplifies our confidence.  

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Doubt, on the other hand retards our excitement. Doubt drains our mental and physical energies and hence weakens us.

When it comes to money, doubt is one of the many reasons why we don’t earn more of it. Therefore, if you have a goal to earn more money, firstly be sure to release the doubt that you can’t have that money. If you don’t have faith, pretend you do, and soon or later you will start believing. You can also mentally go back to a time when you didn’t believe that you could realize a goal, but did. This memory will be a kind reminder that you can actually achieve what you want if you put in the work and get your vibration in congruence with your desire.

In this video, I use the magical tools of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) to resolve all doubt towards earning more money.

I suggest that you do the exercise every day, for 7 days.

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6 Reasons Why We Stay in Abusive Relationships


To begin, what are abusive relationships?

Certainly, the answer is relative and depends on the way we individually develop our personal standards. Culture also has a lot to do with what is regarded as abusive and what is not. 

In this article, I share a generalized view of the different and common forms of abuse, and the reasons we stay in abusive relationships.

What are the different forms of abuse?

The list below includes some common forms of abuse although it is not exhaustive of what abuse can be.

  1. Saying Lies About You

When someone says a lie about you, they have abused your persona. They are probably jealous of you or just want to make themselves feel good by putting you down. Another reason why people lie about others is that they want all the attention to be directed at them. For the most part, they are insecure and don’t really feel good about themselves. They believe that by lying about you, others will turn their attention away from their weaknesses and focus on yours.

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  1. Lying to You

When someone repeatedly lies to you, they firstly do not respect themselves, and the same goes for you or anyone else. Remember, we generally treat others the way we treat ourselves. Most importantly, someone lying to you is a form of abuse. They abuse your intellect by lying.

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  1. Verbal Insults

This is self-explanatory. When someone insults you by either calling you rude names, making negative comments about your self-image, your intellect, or criticizing the way you do things, they are abusing you. I appreciate that at times someone might say negative things to you because they are going through their own drama and aren’t nice to anyone especially to themselves. But if one insults you more than once they have abusive tendencies. 

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  1. Judgment and criticism

We believe it is normal to judge and/or criticize others. But this is not only wrong but also implies that we are investing our focus on something that doesn’t, and will never promote us. We normally judge others based on what we’ve either been told about them, subconscious bias–if they are different from us, or if they intimidate us. We find a way to judge them–which means making conclusions about them without enough evidence. People are also so accustomed to criticizing others and constantly identifying what they believe is wrong with them. This turns into abuse if one is doing it often and doesn’t change even when you bring it to their attention.

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  1. Physical Abuse

Physical abuse is when someone hits, pushes or engages in any forceful physical activity that causes you discomfort or bodily pain. Note that one time is more than enough times for you to walk away—and trust me on this one.

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Why do we Stay in Abusive Relationships?

In this video, I share 6 reasons that I believe you will relate to. I also share a simple yet powerful tip that will help you get out of any abusive relationship.

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