Who Cares What They Think About You?


In this video, I share 3 tips that will help you become more empowered by stopping to think about what people think about you.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/wI9N8sWCCJc

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Counselor, Speaker, Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

Three Steps to Become Enthusiastically Focused


So, let’s assume that you’ve determined what you want, and why you want it.  You have also established that you have all the practical and mental resources you need to execute the required tasks towards achieving your goal. However for some reason, you can’t focus. You are not inspired to take action. And you keep wondering what could be wrong. In this article I share three tips to help you become enthusiastically focused.

Well, you are not abnormal. For the most part, lack of focus is all based on fear: the fear to fail…the fear of being disappointed especially if you’ve embarked on projects in the past that haven’t succeeded. So what do you do? Here we go!

  1. Go back to the drawing board and establish why you want to achieve that goal. What will you emotionally or financially benefit if you achieved your goal? What will your rewards be? Be as specific as possible. Write it down. Read your reasons, and re-write them if that’s what it will take to be clear. Don’t rush. Take your time.

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2. Establish what you will lose if you don’t take action. Will you lose freedom, friends or status? You know the answers. Write these answers down. The idea is to be honest with yourself.

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3. Determine the first step you will take towards achieving your goal. Make this step simple and easy. The simpler it is, the better it will be for you to embark on it. For instance, if your goal is to write a book, set a goal as simple as writing half a page a day, or writing for 10 minutes. Make the first step fun and easy. Do not overwhelm yourself.

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If you follow the above steps, you will get very clear about why you want to achieve that goal, and then get focused to taking action. If you write everything in a “contemplation note-book” (get one if you don’t already), focus, won’t be a problem. The idea is to remove any stress or fear that you’ve attached to your goal.

Last but not least; I once heard this saying: “God will give you food but he won’t cook it for you.” If you want something, you have to do something about it. You have to focus on it. There are no shortcuts. There is no magic. Nothing happens if nothing moves.

If you need more help with getting clear on your goals, or letting go of negative emotions that no longer serve you, I have a resource for you. Check out www.tapthegood.com/contacts/ fill in your details, and I will schedule you for a complimentary 15 minutes’ counseling and/or success coaching session.

Love and Light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Counselor, Success Coach, Professional Speaker

http://www.tapthegood.com

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Clearing Your Resistance to Miracles Through EFT!


Is it hard to believe that miracles are unfolding all around us? And that we have access to co-creating our lives and goals with the divine?

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Yes, sometimes it is hard! Hey, I know it can be hard for me some days!!
Sometimes life, money and our goals can seem heavy and overwhelming! Do you ever feel like, “it’s all on me to do everything”? This is a great time to tap–as this is a particular vibe that literally blocks miracles from showing up. Whenever we feel weak, it just means that for a while we’ve forgotten about our abilities to co-create with the divine. This also implies that we are disconnected from the infinite magnificence…the kingdom of God that dwells with us. When we tap on these negative feelings, we remove the emotional blockages to our inner confidence; and are then able to tap into divine intelligence for direction, inner drive, and will power.

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So let’s do that now; shall we?
Firstly, let’s dive into an exercise to examine where we are in regards to our goals.

Think about this year. Think about your money goals, wealth goals, and/or business goals.

Now, test this phrase by saying it aloud in two ways: “I have to make it happen.”
With all the emphasis on ‘have,’ notice the feeling in that…and how true it feels.
What is the emotion?

Now say the following statement again with the emphasis on ‘make’.
“I have to make it happen.” Notice the feelings in your body when you say it that way.

Now start tapping!

Round 1: We are going to tap on the statement: “I have to make everything happen
on my own (there’s no support!)”

Karate Chop Point:

Even though, the truth is I have to make it happen; it’s all on me. I’ve got to do it,
I accept all of me now.

Even though, I have to make this happen. I feel that pressure, that constriction,
but I can’t just let this go. I accept all of my feelings now.

Even though, the truth is, it’s all me. There’s no one supporting me, no miracles showing up. I have to make this happen. Otherwise I will fail, and that will be all on me. I love and accept myself anyway.

Tapping Through the Points:

Eye brow (EB): It is all on me. It’s always been on me. I can’t just trust. I can’t let go.
Side of the Eye: (SE) That would be slacking off. I have to make this happen. Make it happen with my will, with my own two hands, my blood, sweat and tears.

Under the Eye (UE): It’s exhausting. But I keep doing it. I’ve got to make this happen.
Not a lot of fun in that.
Under the Nose: (UN) A lot of pressure…a lot of desperation. I’m always battling failure–so much at stake.

Chin (C): I can’t just trust in the Universe. That would be crazy

I’ve got to do it. It’s all me.

Collar Bone (CB): I feel isolated. There is no one to help me.

Under the Arm (UA): Why is all this happening to me?

Top of the Head (TH): I don’t think I can ever achieve my goals.

Round 2: We are going to tap on a more positive round with this statement in mind. “I am open to the divine co-creating with me!”

Karate Chop Point: (Tap on this point and repeat the statements below)

Even though, I’ve built a life making stuff happen. And I often say, oh I’ll just do it myself. I usually do it better, and I do it to my standards. I’m open to the idea that there’s a conflict in this for me. Because I’m not very open to help.

Even though, I love getting stuff done. I love making great things happen. I’m open
to the idea, that I could be an amazing achiever, and have an open window to streams of divine
brilliance, divine guidance, inspiration, and even miracles. That makes all my achieving fun.

Even though, I’ve operated this way for a long time; saying, “No thanks, I got it. I’ve got to do it all myself.” I’m now opening a window, and I’m propping it open with a stick, so I
can’t close it easily. This window is open to the divine co-creating with me. I actually don’t need to do everything myself.

The truth is I can’t always see the big picture. And although right now, I’m disconnected from the mind of God. Maybe the Divine is trying to give me more than I’ve even dreamed of.

Tapping Through the Points:

EB: I’ve been doing it this way for a long time.
If I trust and let go, would I judge myself a slacker? Or naïve?
SE: I wonder what would happen, if I open this window and allowed the Divine to stream into my life–bringing me more brilliance, more inspiration, absolute miracles, and co-creating with me.
UE: I wonder how that would feel. I wonder how it would feel in my body, to achieve my goals that way.
UN: This would feel different. …REALLY different.

Chin: I surrender my control. I surrender my old story.
CB: I surrender my doubt in divine power.
UA: I open myself to help.
TH: I open myself to miracles. I open my connection to the divine to co-create with me!

If you can go through this exercise for the next couple of days, I’m certain that you will see some positive results in your life.

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Love and light.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Certified Success Coach / S. Counselor

Tapthegood.com

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Introducing the Business Intelligence Success Coaching Mastermind


Welcome to the Business Intelligence Success Coaching Mastermind, eight weeks’ program that will ignite your true potential and reveal your magnificent genius.

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The program will be delivered twice weekly: a recorded video with a coaching session and accompanying script one day weekly; and 2 interactive hours on Skype the second day in the week.  

  1. Are you interested in making quicker and better decisions, and hence creating less delays and better quality of actions?

  2. Do you want to learn the Art of Persuasion and then effortlessly increase your sales?

  3. Are you sick and tired of trying to financially make ends meet?

  4. Do you often have trouble concentrating on what’s truly important in business, in people and in life?

  5. Do you believe you have the right products or services but is having trouble getting more clients?

  6. Are confused about seeing the possibilities and knowing which path is best for you to take?

  7. Are you having Trouble drawing clearer distinctions regarding present connections, situations and future directions?

  8. Are your past experiences and negative emotions negatively impacting your focus, productivity and success?

You are about to enter a partnership that will give you the true competitive edge. However, you must step up as well. Commit to the Business Intelligence Success coaching with the passion and focus that your life deserves. We’ll bring you extraordinary resources that will powerfully improve the quality of your personal, and professional life. Then, you can truly experience the powerful momentum that comes from living life at its peak.

We promise an experience that will not only stretch you, but that will be more fun than you have ever imagined possible. We don’t pretend that our coaching success partnership will be effortless, but it will be extraordinarily rewarding.

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The 8 Weeks Program:

Week 1: – Leadership and Purpose:

  • Embrace your Life Purpose into your USP

  • Define your “Why”

  • Establish your daily Rituals

A value of $750

Week 2 & 3: – Emotional Freedom

  • Identify your self-limiting beliefs and release them through EFT and NLP

A value of $1500

Week 4 & 5: – Money Mastery

  • Use EFT to cleanse and let go of negative emotions related to the 4 types of Money

A value of $1750

Week 6 – 8: The Art of Persuasion (Advanced NLP and Hypnotic Marketing)

  • Influential Psychology 101 and how it can positively impact your business

  • How to use mind triggers to achieve maximum influence to your leads

A value of $2250

Total Value is $6250

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For a limited time only. Special price ends 3/14/2015

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Program begins March 23, 2015. 

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

TapTheGood.com

http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

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Meet Your Worst Enemy: The Self-Fence:


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I’m certain you are wondering what I mean by “Self-Fence.”

Yap…every one of us has it. We all tend at times to come up with all sorts of reasons why we shouldn’t take action, follow through, respond to emails, or adjust to change. We feed into our cognitive dissonances to upgrade our self-denials.

The “Self-Fence” is that thing that gets us stuck in our little uncomfortable hells—wishing that things could magically change. We procrastinate, postpone important tasks, and do whatever it takes to remain unsuccessful—yet blame everyone else but ourselves.

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I’m certain that this “self-Fence” is what has blocked you from reading a book every day, and/or signing up for personal development seminars or programs. It’s funny that this “self-fence” is what has prevented you from signing up for my Business Intelligence Mastermind—a resource that will help you take your power back, and become the authority of your craft. And I’m not blaming you for not registering for our Business Intelligence Mastery full day Boot Camp… it’s “Self-Fence.”

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Dear reader, please do not allow “Self-Fence” to blind you in your pursuit for happiness and success.

Remember; March 1st is Global Worry-Free Day. It’s our turn to make a difference in the world wherever we are.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

Author, Speaker and S. Counselor / Success Coach

TapTheGood.com

5 Proven Steps to Keep Moving Towards Achieving Your Goals.


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In the video below, I share 5 proven steps that will inspire you to keep taking action until you achieve your goalshttp://youtu.be/wKVFelhThaY

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If you have any comments or would like me to address any other topics related to Success Coaching, Human Behavior and/or Spiritual Counseling, please leave your comments below this article.

Have you read the book – Do not Force it, Tap The Good? It shares inspirational and self-empowerment lessons that the whole world can live by.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mariah

Author, Speaker, S. Counselor / Certified Success Coach

Http://TapTheGood.com

Three Steps to High Productivity on Lousy Days:


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If you are a business owner just as I am, you’ve experienced days when you feel like the night was so short. Yet, the guilt to pull those bed-covers closer bombards you like a cold blanket over your head. What do you do?

Below are the steps I take to help me get going on especially lousy days.

1. I breathe deeply before I leave my bed: kind of a meditation. I believe in strength, drive and enthusiasm, and breathe out lousiness and procrastination. I go through this exercise for about 10 minutes.
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2. I jump out of bed; do a 10 minutes yoga session – still breathing deeply. I also lift 5 pound weights for another 5 minutes. I take a lurk-warm water shower, (lurk-warm or cold water wakes up the body) drink a big glass of water, take a good protein breakfast and proceed to my home office.
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3. I make a to-do list for the day, putting the difficult takes first, and then get started.
In a nut-shell; the steps are: 1. Deep breathing. 2. Exercising, stretching and a protein powered breakfast.
3. Making a to-do list and getting started without getting distracted. Please note that I didn’t include face-booking or emailing. Those are things I do later in the day after decreasing the tasks on my to-do list.
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Are you seeking to get more productivity in your life? I’m offering you a 30 minutes complimentary counseling / success coaching session in the comfort of your home—over the phone. Please check out tapthegood.com, fill out the contact form, and let’s get started helping you become the authority of your craft.

Love and Light

Dr. Jacinta Mariah
Author, Speaker, Success Coach / Counselor
http://www.tapthegood.com

Three Simple Steps to Create Your New Year’s Goals. Includes a Gift for You!


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2014 is ending in about 23 days and 10 hours—depending on where you are located. I’m aware that sometimes we create goals that we never achieve, and therefore, have given up on even trying—in avoidance of the disappointment of not achieving these set goals. However, I’m here to remind you that nothing moves, if nothing is moved. I dare you to move your thoughts away from the past, and focus on the possibilities of the future. If others have done it, oh yes you can do it too.  I challenge you to take on this project in the provided deadline (i.e.) 12/29/2014, and then claim your gift—a spelled out at the end of this article.

It is as simple as spending one of the evenings before the year ends, and following this simple format included in the next chapter to set your goals. You are doing this for yourself and no one else. So, I encourage you to enthusiastically take on this exercise.

Here are the steps.

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  1. Write three life-goals, in present tense, that you intend to achieve next year-2015. Life goals, are mainly what you intend for your health and wellbeing. For instance; family related goals such as better relationships, or maybe getting married, travelling, Educational goals, or having a kid; or moving to a new town where you’ve always wanted to live but procrastinated about the move. For example:
  • I’m happily married to my soul mate; and we have two healthy kids together – twins, a boy and girl
  • I have a great relationship with my family members. We get together every year and celebrate life.
  • I am in perfect health, with the perfect weight of 158 lbs, and with a healthy creative mind.

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 (i)  Write down the first step you will take towards achieving this goal. For example:

I have my profile set-up on eHarmony.com explaining exactly what I want in a partner.

 (ii)  Write down how you will feel, in present tense, when you achieve these goals.

For example: I feel alive, worthy and excited about life.

(iii)  Write down three reasons why you think you deserve to achieve these goals—your driving force.

For example:

  • I’m a woman, and I know I was born to give birth to healthy kids.
  • I am a loving person who deserves to share my love with a like-minded person
  • I deserve a healthy mind, body, and spirit in order fulfill my life’s purpose.

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  1. Write down three major career goal: – A business that you want to begin, an investment idea, change of jobs, job promotion, career-based training, etc. For example:
  • I have a global Success Coaching business serving 1 million clients worldwide through my on-line programs, books, and Art.
  • I have 3 paid bi-weekly speaking engagements in Fortune 500 companies and other publics in the US. I earn $5000 + each engagement.
  • I am a bestselling Author –selling 10,000,000 copies of my life-changing books world-wide. My books are translated in 189 languages.

 (i)  Write down the first step you will take towards achieving this goal. For example: I have hired a professional to re-skin and re-brand my website and highlight my business values, and unique brand.

 (ii)  Write down how you will feel, in present tense, when you achieve these goals.

For example: I feel purposeful, worthy, and enthusiastic to create more products and services to change people’s lives.

 (iii)  Write down three reasons why you think you deserve to achieve these goals—your driving force. For example:

  •  I am highly educated and skilled, and know that I have what it takes to deliver valuable services.
  • I am enthusiastic about making a difference in the world.
  • I have an immerse passion to serve, and earn out of the value I offer to my clientele.

 Money goals

  1. Write down a money / income related goal. This goal is about how much money you want to earn by, or before the end of 2015. I dare you to dream big. For example:
  • I earn $10,000,000 annually.

(i)  Write down the first step you will take towards achieving this goal. For example: I have set-up a meet-up networking group to attract like-minded people

(ii)  Write down three things that you are willing to do to earn that income. Refer to your skills, experience or education: – what you know that you can do to earn that money. For example:

  •  Success Coaching and Counseling
  • Professional Speaking Engagements
  • Selling my books, audio programs and Success programs.

 (iii) Write down how you will feel, in present tense, when you achieve this amount of money. For example:

I feel excited that my services, skills and values are appreciated. I feel so driven to create more value for my clientele. I feel alive and purposeful.

(iv)  Write down why you think you deserve this money.

For example:

I deserve this money because I am willing to do whatever it takes to serve, and then get paid for it. I deserve abundance. I believe that it is my birthright.

 I hope you get the idea.  Check out the attached file with a table summarizing the goal Setting Structure. Just click on this link — Goals Structure

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Good News!!!

I have an offer for you. If you can complete, and send me a copy of your goals by 12/29/2014, I will offer you a complimentary one hour’s success coaching session. Additionally, I will send you a recording with an EFT session to tap on achieving your goals. Just send your goals to author@tapthegood.com.

Remember my dear friend, the way you do something, is the way you do everything. The ball is in your hands.

 

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana. Ph.D, MBA.

Author, Professional Speaker, and Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com.