How Are You Projecting Your Inner Struggles?


Have you ever felt so angry that everything and everyone made you angrier?

Would you say that these things or people were responsible for your emotions?

Have you ever met someone so mean, that “they made medicine seem weak?” ~ Mohammad Ali.

Would you really blame yourself for the way they felt?

Well, I have. And that’s before I understood that I am in control of my emotions. And that I was the lord of my inner world. It was up to me to manage my inner world. And every time I forget that I am in charge, I get hurt.

What about you? What is your story?

Well, below are real reviews/complaints from customers received by Thomas Cook Vacations. It might be funny but take time to examine how we let the egoistical mind paint us insane.

1. “They should not allow topless sunbathing on the beach. It was very distracting for my husband who just wanted to relax.”


2. “On my holiday to Goa in India, I was disgusted to find that almost every restaurant served curry. I don’t like spicy food.”

3. “We went on holiday to Spain and had a problem with the taxi drivers as they were all Spanish.”

4. “We booked an excursion to a water park but no-one told us we had to bring our own swimsuits and towels. We assumed it would be included in the price.”

5. “The beach was too sandy. We had to clean everything when we returned to our room.”

6. “We found the sand was not like the sand in the brochure. Your brochure shows the sand as white but it was more yellow.”

7. “It’s lazy of the local shopkeepers in Puerto Vallartato close in the afternoons. I often needed to buy things during ‘siesta’ time — this should be banned.”

8. “No-one told us there would be fish in the water. The children were scared.”

9. “Although the brochure said that there was a fully equipped kitchen, there was no egg-slicer in the drawers.”

10. “I think it should be explained in the brochure that the local convenience store does not sell proper biscuits like custard creams or ginger nuts.”

11. “The roads were uneven and bumpy, so we could not read the local guide book during the bus ride to the resort. Because of this, we were unaware of many things that would have made our holiday more fun.”

12. “It took us nine hours to fly home from Jamaica to England. It took the Americans only three hours to get home. This seems unfair.”

13. “I compared the size of our one-bedroom suite to our friends’ three-bedroom and ours was significantly smaller.”

14. “The brochure stated: ‘No hairdressers at the resort.’ We’re trainee hairdressers and we think they knew and made us wait longer for service.”

15. “When we were in Spain, there were too many Spanish people there. The receptionist spoke Spanish, the food was Spanish. No one told us that there would be so many foreigners.”

16. “We had to line up outside to catch the boat and there was no air-conditioning.”

17. “It is your duty as a tour operator to advise us of noisy or unruly guests before we travel.” 18. “I was bitten by a mosquito. The brochure did not mention mosquitoes.”

19. “My fiancée and I requested twin-beds when we booked, but instead we were placed in a room with a king bed. We now hold you responsible and want to be re-reimbursed for the fact that I became pregnant. This would not have happened if you had put us in the room that we booked.”

Source: Peter Dickinson

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Do not Divide Your Attention From God/Universe


I personally consider the Bible a psychological book intended to guide us through life. The bible has so much wisdom, which when interpreted from a psychological point of view, can change your relationship with life, and all your experiences. Every story in the bible has two sides to it. There is an esoteric and exoteric interpretation for every story in the bible. That’s why it is considered a double edged sword.
 

A friend recently sent me this message on WhatsApp and I thought it was really powerful. So, I am sharing this with you

When *GOD* wanted to create *fish*, he spoke to the *sea*.

When *GOD* wanted to create *trees*, He spoke to the *earth*.

But when *GOD* wanted to create *man*, He turned to *HIMSELF*. Thus *GOD* said: *”Let us make man in our image and likeness”*.’

Note: If you get a *fish out of the water, it will die*; and when *you remove a tree from the ground, it also dies*. Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD, the Universe, or that divine power, he dies*. *GOD* is our *natural environment*. We were created to live in *HIS presence*.  God’s presence is our presence. We must be connected with *Him* because only with *Him* does life exist. We must glue our attention on God, on the universe, on the unconditional love in our hearts.


Let’s stay in oneness with GOD. Let us remember that water without fish is still water, but a fish without water is dead. The soil without the tree is still soil, but the tree without soil is nothing. God without man is still God, but  man without GOD is literally dead in spirit.

If you look closer, you will discover that there is actually no separation between you and God. God is all there is. Man is God asleep to himself, and God is man awake.

Just some thoughts to ponder.

Love and light

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MASTER OF SUCCESS SERIES – VIDEO 2 – Which Eyes Are You Viewing The World With?


Which eyes are you viewing the world with?

What mindset are you facing your world with?

Are you facing the world as your limited identity-self or as a spiritual being?

In this video, I answer these questions and explain how these facts affect your level of success in life.

Check out video 1 of the series if you haven’t already. You can find the video in my videos.

For questions, please leave them in the comments’ section below the video

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MASTER OF SUCCESS VIDEO SERIES – VIDEO 1 – The Power of Commitment


To succeed, you have to know what you want. Then you have to establish who wants it. Is it a program running in your subconscious that wants what you want or it is you?

Okay, then who is the you that wants what you want?

In the video series, we shall dive deep in identifying what is really important in establishing sustainable success in our lives.

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Link to meditation video – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8MKEB_6uJYU

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Are You Afraid to Walk Away?


“You either live in unconditional love or just survive in delusional baseless fear.” ~ Jacent Mpalyenkana

When we dwell in unconditional love, we live: meaning that when unconditional love is our inspiration of being and doing, we are more connected to life and less influenced by fear, which is delivered by the egoistical delusional mind. When love is our inspiration, we base our decisions and actions on love. We go with the flow. We allow everything to come and go, and attach to nothing. We trust in divine wisdom within us. We have confidence that we are unshockable by conditions. We know that we are always supported, protected and loved beyond conditions.

You may demand to know, love for what, or who? The love I am attributing to is the love for your SELF. And by SELF, I am not referring to your body, identity, what you have or want. I am referring to you, the one looking behind those beautiful eyes: the shapeless, massless, undefinable, infinite you.

The next question then is, do you love your “SELF”? Which leads to other questions; who are you? How can you love someone or something you do not know? For now, just know that you are not your identity. You are not your body or race. You are “something” that can not be known by the mind. “Something” is in quotes because you are not a thing. You are of the likeness of God. So, when your inspirations are founded on unconditional love, they are anchored in God. And in God, you are always led to your next course of action. And as you know, God is all knowing, all healing, all loving, all satisfying and always the same.

I am assuming that you also know that God is not this huge guy with a beard in the sky. God is in you, expressing as you. With these facts you realize that when you know who or what you truly are, you live fully. However, when you believe that you are your body, or your identity, the ego becomes your master. There is no doubt that fear will often show up to inspire your decisions and actions. And with that inspiration, you will always lose out on what you truly want. You will often end up settling for less of what you want. You will continue relating with people who promote the ego’s works—and these include everything negative that you can imagine. It becomes hard to let go of whatever doesn’t really serve you especially when you are afraid that you cannot replace what you are holding onto with something or someone better. When you believe that all you are is your body or identity, you will live a very restricted, fearful delusional life.

So, are you afraid to walk away? Are you afraid to let go of that job, partner, relative just because you believe they can not be replaced? What is holding you back from walking away from that pain? Do you know your power? Because if you are of the likeness of God, then you have infinite power, solutions, wisdom, and eternal goodness within you, as you.

Solution: Remember who you are. Wake up.

Love and light

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Who are You to Yourself?


In the Book of Numbers you will read, “In that day there were giants in the land; and we were in our own sight as grasshoppers. And we were in their sight as grasshoppers.” This doesn’t mean a time in the past when man had the stature of giants. It means that if today your conditions seem to have attained the appearance of giants (such as unemployment, loneliness and all other things that seem to threaten you) those are the giants that make you feel yourself to be a grasshopper. But you are told in the Verse, you were first, in your own sight a grasshopper and because of this you were to the giants, a grasshopper. In other words, you can only be to others what you are first to yourself. If you believe that your problems are gigantic to you, then that is exactly how you will experience them. If you believe that you are a giant to your problems, they will metaphysically take on the sense of grasshoppers.

There is also more to experience than what you believe yourself to be. Sometimes you could religiously believe to be something, but if there’s any part of you that is in conflict with your belief, you will not project the belief in its virgin sense.

So, during this “worldly” season of love, aka Valentines, if you are searching for love , love yourself abundantly, be a loving nonjudgmental person to yourself, and the same will be reflected in your experiences. Go further into identifying all negative beliefs you have about your identity, and find a way to release them from your subconscious. Take your permission back from whatever negative prompters you gave it to–to manifest as loneliness or loveless-ness. Release the need for love and instead feel the love that you are already are. Love yourself to the extent of being 100% honest with yourself. Identify what you need to let go, who you need to forgive, the guilt you have to release, and everything else that doesn’t represent the presence of God, the presence of good, within you.

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Do You Really Love Yourself?


“Do you really love yourself?” asked my mother a few months ago. “Of course I do. How can you even ask such a question?” I responded. However, while alone I re-evaluated her question. Did I really truly love myself?

She asked me that question because I was complaining about a racism experience I had gone through. She urged me to focus on what was important…myself. But I didn’t really get it. I felt the need to blame the people who had racially harassed me. I felt entitled to continue pointing out the wrong they had done. And although what they had done wasn’t positive, I was doing more harm to myself. I was so focused on what was wrong, what had happened in the past and how bad these people had been to me. I put my attention on what hadn’t worked and continued to re-live it even when it had happened in the past. I hurt every day. I was literally carrying emotional baggage that was weighing me down. It struck me then that I wasn’t loving myself.

So, what negative experiences/stories are you carrying around? Are you 100% focused on yourself, or you are so busy focusing on your past ? What do you focus on most of the day? What do you think about? Are your thoughts energizing or weakening? When is the last time you did something good for yourself without feeling guilty? And I am not referring to doing something nice to your car or house, impressing your boss or loved ones.

I am referring to more intimate things such as, taking a nap, listening to your favorite music without doing anything else, stretching, doing yoga, eating right, drinking 8 glasses of water daily, meditating, going for a walk, going for a random ride, closing your eyes and doing nothing, forgiving yourself and others, having a long bath, taking time to scrub your body with a beautiful body scrub (whether you are man or woman), reading a self-help book, focusing on finding out who is the one behind those beautiful eyes of yours.

Do you really love yourself? What do you allow into your mind? Who do you allow into your space? What are your inner conversations about yourself? How do you feel about yourself?

Don’t wait for Valentine’s day to love yourself, express this love to others or long to attract love. When you love yourself unconditionally and consistently, you never have to search or expect others to love you. You will know once and for all that you are enough. And most importantly, with unconditional self-love you will project the same in your experiences.

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You Are a god to Your Problems


In Exodus 7:1, it is written, “And the Lord said unto Moses, See, I have made thee a god to Pharaoh.” What does this mean? How can this verse impact or change your experiences? Can such seemingly simple words set you free from any or all bondage?

To begin, if you don’t believe in God, or know that there is a power bigger than you, then this short article will mean nothing to you.

Note that God, is just a name we use to identify and refer to the Creator, the Divine power behind everything we see, don’t see and are yet to see. However, the name God, doesn’t necessarily represent the entirety of what God really is.

What God is not, is religion, a man in the sky or the father of just one child, Jesus. God is our “Father,” all of us. We are all “His” creations.

For every house is built by someone, but God is the builder of everything. ” ~ Hebrews 3:4

Based on the preceding biblical verse, in my limited understanding, , God is everything, in everything, as everything. God is all there is. What creates the seeming differences in things and in human beings, is our perceptions, choices, decisions and egoistical programming–all inspired by our egoistical minds.

Luckily, God made us gods to Pharaoh. Meaning that, we are supreme to our challenges, obstacles, adversaries, and everything else that we have given our power to bring us down. We have the power to overcome all our problems because God gave us the authority to resolve and overcome all challenges.

The problem is that we don’t know who, or what we are in God. And this is because we have believed to be what we are not. We think we are our bodies, identities and what we have. We have given our God-given power to things and people to use against us. The question is, how do we set our selves free from our self-inflicted prisons?

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We can begin by remembering that we are not our “seeming bondages.” We are children of God. We are one with God…extensions of God, and sparks of God “Itself.” We have to take our God-given power back from whatever we have given our permission to hold us back.

In my newest book, Power-Prayers for Personal Freedom: Powerful Prayers Based on Spirituality, Ancient Wisdom and Biblical Principles, Designed to Free You From All Bondage, you will get to claim your power back from all bondage. The prayers are designed in a way that will trigger a deeper sense of connection to God…to eternal good. You will get to decree your true divine nature. Repetition of these prayers, will instill a deeper sense of peace and enthusiasm to pursue your dreams without negative fear.

Get your copy today, and get started on the journey of reclaiming your personal freedom. Don’t wait. Remember, you are god to Pharaoh. You are the leader of your life.

Love and light

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The Power of Authenticity


To begin, what is authenticity?

The Merriam Webster dictionary, has several meanings for the word authenticity. However, I have chosen to use the two below.

~ ” Not false or imitation, real or actual.

~ “True to one’s own personality, spirit, or character.”

Further explained, authenticity implies that one is comfortable in their own skin. They know they are enough, and they believe they have enough for themselves.

One thing I have realized is how the egoistical mind presents fear in our minds, that when given attention to, renders us afraid of ourselves. We start doubting ourselves. We create and cement delusional, unsupported conclusions that we are not good enough; we can’t shine as we are; we need to be like other people; we need to copy what other people are doing, or being, and then behave likewise. However, we forget the power of authenticity. There are many benefits of being authentic, including the following:

  1. Self-confidence: You know that you don’t have to try so hard to be someone else and this gives you the confidence to be you.
  2. Emotional wellness: You are less stressed because you are not trying to keep up with what other people are doing, or being. You are okay as you are, and only seek to improve yourself.
  3. Originality: Being original is attractive and beautiful. It presents a fresh, unique perspective on life. People tend to be more drawn to you.
  4. Creativity: It is easier to be more creative when you are true to yourself.
  5. A chance to attract authentic relationships: Since you attract who you are, there is certainty that you will attract more authentic people, who will also accept you as you are.
  6. Success: If you are in business and doing you, chances are that you will succeed because you won’t be trying to steal other people’s ideas. And even when you get ideas from other business people, you include your own spin because you know that you are an important ingredient in your business strategies. You don’t wanna leave your uniqueness out of anything you offer.

“Being authentic is positioning yourself on a powerful and strong foundation to rule your world.” ~ Dr. Jacent Mpalyenkana-Murray, PHD. MBA

Being authentic means being free of the fear of being yourself. And even when you are afraid, you don’t let the fear stop you. The good news is that we are all created with inner abundant inexhaustible resources designed to support us in all our endeavors. Even when we feel less of who we are, or afraid to be who we authentically are, we are still enough. We have wonderful powers such as, the power of choice, attention, focus, dedication, perseverance, gratitude, influence, belief, love–to mention but a few. All we have to do is let go of whatever is shadowing our inner resources. We have to let go of fear, doubt, negative memories, and the like. We have to use our power of attention on ourselves. We have to believe that we are enough, regardless of what we have experienced.

Now, are you less of this fear? Are you authentic in all your endeavors? If not, what is preventing you?

In my book, Power-Prayers For personal freedom, you will get to command your subconscious mind to release all negative prompters that bind you to your self-inflicted imprisonment.

Love and light

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Do You Trust Your Thoughts, or Yourself?


It is easy to consider all our thoughts as our friends, because we have been with them for so long. However, much as some of these thoughts are either positive guides, creative ideas or progressing memories, there are others that appear in our consciousnesses with intent to bring us down.

The question is, how do you know which thoughts to trust? Some thoughts might be negative but guiding. How would you differentiate between thoughts that are positive and those that are disempowering? Furthermore, do you really need thoughts to survive? How often do you take action that is being guided by thoughts? To simplify, do you ever think about something at the very moment you are doing it? For the most part, you might be doing something and thinking about something else–the past or the future. For example, do you ever drive, if you drive, thinking, “Oh now I am stepping on my breaks. Now I am engaging another gear. Now, I am stopping….etc..” You get the point.

Note that our actions are retrieved from our memories. Our behaviors are retrieved from our subconscious minds. The conscious mind, which is also the doorway to thoughts is used to experience and express whatever is already in the subconscious. So, you realize that your consciousness doesn’t really require you to think, because you already have the programs and memories you need to operate. And if you need to replace these programs, this is when you think of new ways to improve them. This also implies that you don’t need to think to live. But you need to be alive in order to think. You don’t need to think to be. But you need to be in order to think. You don’t need to think to be conscious. But you need to be conscious in order to think. So, you come before your thoughts. Your thoughts can’t exist without you: meaning that you are superior.

Do you know that you even if you felt stuck and didn’t know what to do, you wouldn’t really need to think about it? The more peaceful way is to be thoughtless, empty, which is when your inner guidance will reveal your next course of action. And although this might come in a form of a thought, it will have an energy of purposefulness and inspiration about it.

Going back to the question in the title; Do you trust your thoughts or yourself? My conclusion is, I trust myself first, then my thoughts. What are your views?

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Love and light

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