Anger Management with Advanced EFT – 7 Video Sessions Included


In my humble opinion, anger is an indication that one is holding onto an unpleasant past. It is reveals that one is still stuck in the past–carrying a whole load of negative memories. 

There are many reasons on which anger is rooted. And although these reasons are acknowledged and respected, they retard, instead of progress us. 

My life has presented many opportunities for me to be angry. And I have given in to these “opportunities” more times than not. I have had very profound reasons to justify my anger. And I have held onto these reasons persistently at the back of my mind to promote the anger. I thought it was right and fitting, and actually needed of me to express my anger. I deserved to be angry. “Isn’t that what human beings do?” I thought.  Now, tell me about insanity!!  At the end of the day, the anger hurt me more than the people and experiences I was angry with. And this is a lesson to remember for as long as I live. I learned that it is vital for me to let things go as soon as they happen. There is absolutely no reason to hold onto an ugly past. And although one has to remember the lessons learned, the assigned perceptions and conclusions about the negative experiences should be nullified and dropped from the mind as quickly as possible.

It is important to remain silent and observe the angry thoughts dwelling in the mind before they take over our emotions. 

“Anger is one of the certain routes to insanity. “

If you are dealing with anger, I have recorded 7 videos to help you release and let this anger go. In the videos, I have employed the magical tools of EFT, the emotional freedom technique, known to help millions of people globally to achieve emotional freedom.

Please take advantage of these videos and do share about your experiences.

 

In the interim, I’m sending you abundant love from my heart to yours.

Dr. Jacinta M M Murray, is a spiritual counselor and transformational coach. One of the techniques she uses to help her clients achieve emotional freedom is EFT. As an advanced practitioner, Jacinta has helped thousands of her clients achieve emotional freedom. 

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When Love Hurts: One Powerful Technique to Liberate Yourself from Abuse-addiction.


Domestic abuseOur personalities are complex and to dissect them to identify the conditioning upon which we create them takes time. Sometimes we don’t even know our personalities since we might have more than one.

With that said, addictive personalities weaken our natural abilities to go through life with faith and courage. We rely on behavior or substance intake for short-term comfort or as escapes from whatever we are running from. Other times we fall into addictive behavior to subconsciously support an underlying belief.

What is abuse-addiction?

adbThis is when one finds him/herself attracting and staying in abusive relationships. Abuse addicts have many excuses for staying with abusive partners. They have supporting reasons. They could also blame themselves—suggesting that it is something wrong with them that trigger their partners’ abusive behavior. At times, they conceal the extent of the abuse, and re-narrate the incidents to prove that their partner wasn’t abusive.

For instance, for many years I was addicted to abuse. I believed that I wasn’t good enough; that I was ugly and that no man would love, without insulting me. I believed that abuse was part and partial of being in a relationship. As a child, I heard many stories about promiscuous and violent men.  Most of our neighbors were single mothers who continuously indulged in conversations about the insane nature of men. And I believe that’s when I was conditioned to believe that love hurts emotionally and physically. I must have subconsciously cemented the idea that it was okay to be abused.

It took years of emotional and physical pain, plus many disappointments to realize that I was basically hurting myself by staying in abusive relationships.

How do You Liberate Yourself From Abuse-addiction?

abseThe first step towards liberating yourself is to find out the underlying beliefs about your self-image, self-worth, self-love, relationships, plus the childhood stories you have about abuse.

Today, as a counselor and coach, I use these techniques to help my clients overcome their addictive behavior.

Do not Listen to Your Mind.

The mind is like a policeman you hire, who ends up stealing from you. The mind is a trickster, and you shouldn’t trust it. Unfortunately, we’ve been conditioned to believe that the mind is powerful. The mind is king. The mind is our friend. Trust me when I say, that the mind is the enemy. For instance, the mind could tell you damn stuff like, “Forgive him/her. They won’t do it again,” when your hubby has just smacked you. However, this could be the 100th time they’ve done it. And the mind could have told you that crap to forgive them ninety-nine other times. It will continue persuading and giving you thoughts as reasons to forgive them.  When you give in and forgive the idiot, the mind will bombard you with thoughts about how bad they hurt you. How they should treat you. How you should find someone else; or maybe have a side fling. And if you cheat instead of leave the relationship, and they find out and then abuse you again, the mind will say, “Wow! See what I told you? You are seriously damn. Why didn’t you just leave them? What the hell are you still doing in this relationship? What is wrong with you? You definitely deserve to be hit thousands times over. You are not worthy. You are not good for anything. Blab bla bla.” Note that this is the same mind that convinced you to stay in the relationship.

“The mind is like a policeman you hire, who ends up stealing from you.”

I guess you realize that the mind is not particularly our friend. Therefore, do not listen to your thoughts. Only use your mind when you need it instead of letting it use you. The idea is to ignore your thoughts. Do not recruit them. Do not assign meanings, create relationships, associations, or even entertain them for a single second. Instead, respect your feelings. If your partner behaves in ways that abuse your personal standards, move on. If they physically abuse you the first time, there is no reason in the world to stay in that relationship. Because trust me, they will do it again. Remember that when you respect and love yourself unconditionally, you will attract the same. Note that we do not experience the world as it is: we experience it as we are. As within, so without. Our experiences mirror our conditioning. Change your negative beliefs and conditioning, and your world will change accordingly.

“Only use your mind when you need it instead of letting it use you.”

Dr. Jacinta M Murray is a spiritual counselor and transformational coach. Helping people to overcome their addictions is one of her specialties. 

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Clearing a Stubborn issue in Your Life With the Quantum Soul Healing Technique


imagesQuantum Soul Clearing is a spiritual healing method originated by Michelle Manning-Kogler, Spiritual Intuitive and healer.

This powerful healing method is based on the fact that if one is experiencing problems, the source of the problem plus the perceived problem, are established as energetic frequencies at the quantum level.

In physics, a quantum is the minimum amount of any physical entity involved in an interaction. The fundamental notion that a physical property may be “quantized” is referred to as “the hypothesis of quantization” ~ Wikipedia.

In simpler terms, quantum is the smallest particle of any physical thing. Therefore, quantum soul healing penetrates the smallest particles of a perceived problem at the soul level, and then dissolves it. To my understanding, quantum soul healing goes beyond the source of the problem to its manifestation at the deepest level–which makes the process very powerful.

“The Quantum Soul Clearing Process is essentially a “Spiritual Technology” — an energy healing technique — that combines the limitless power of Universal Consciousness, the focus and determination of the human mind, with the brilliant wisdom of the soul to create deep, lasting change in your life and to heal all that you need to heal.” ~Michelle Manning-Kogler.

The point is, even if you don’t understand what this technique means or how it works, it will do its work in your life as long you open your mind and allow the powerful words to create the frequency needed to dissolve your issues/perceived problems.

I encourage you to listen to this session every day for the next 9 days.

Love and light.
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The Art of Perseverance: 6 Tools to Persevere and Keep Moving Forward


Ellen-White-a-model-in-tenacity-and-perseverancePerseverance is a skill that’s vital for success. Without perseverance one is set to give up easily and then move from project to another just because things didn’t work out as they wanted. The most successful people in the world know how it feels to fail repeatedly but keep going no matter what comes their way.

Stories about the Fright brothers, Albert Einstein, Honda, plus many other iconic beings in history, are intended to remind us that perseverance is a necessary skill for success to be attained. Besides, the degree of celebration for any victory generally depends on the energy invested, number of obstacles overcome and the level of perseverance.

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I, like most people have had my share of disappointments in my business and life in general: disappointments that have left me feeling beaten and broken to my very core. But the passion I have to achieve my life purpose has energized me to get up, pick up the broken pieces and move forward.

The questions are;

  1. What does it take to persevere through turbulent times?
  2. What does it take not to give up?
  3. Where do you get the drive to keep moving forward when you’ve been disappointed repeatedly?
  4. How do you persevere when you have failed so many times, and consequently believe that you are a failure and will continue to fail?

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In this video, I share a few personal stories that will inspire you to get up and keep moving forward. I also share 6 tools that will help you do the same.

The tools in summary are:

~ Be clear about what you want to offer and why?

~ Focus on becoming an expert in your field of preference.

  • Use related personal stories to support your credibility
  • Keep researching and learning new information about your field
  • Invest in self-development, coaching and/or counseling.

~ Don’t take things personally. Don’t let other people’s behavior, opinions and perceptions disorient you from pursuing your goals.

~ Focus on what you want religiously

~ Keep taking steps–however small.

~ Don’t give up.

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Dr. Jacinta Murray is an author, speaker, transformational coach and spiritual counselor. She works with over 1000 clients annually, on and offline, to help them achieve emotional freedom from the negative past, heal from trauma, abuse and stress, develop a success-infused mindset, cleanse the unconscious mind from blockages, resolve bloodline and lineage conflicts, and get clear about their life purpose—among other issues.

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5 Psychologically Proven Tools to Emotionally Detach From Envious/ Jealous People


Two-Guys-sword-fightingOne of the major causes of our suffering is other people’s behaviors. Often, other people’s behavior and actions conflict with our individual beliefs, values, attachments or personal standards. And this can trigger feelings of discomfort or resentment towards them. 

Also, some people give in to negativity, and consequently develop jealousy, envy and toxic behavior that could hurt other people who also give in to personalizing the former’s actions. 

Note that jealously and envy are some of the main causes of witchcraft, backstabbing, murder, plus many other types of crime. So, it’s important to learn how to detach from jealous/envious people. 

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Now, let’s imagine that you find out that someone you thought was a friend is envious of you and has been backstabbing you in different ways. What do you do? 

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Below are 5 tips that will help you detach from such jealous/envious people and most importantly, feel at peace with their actions. In this video, I explain the tips. 

  1. Know that it is their “business.”
  2. Know that they are suffering. 
  3. Remember that you have the power and choice to detach from relating with them
  4. Block them
  5. Focus on your “business.” 

Remember to click on this video, to listen to the tips. 

Dr. Jacinta M Murray, is a spiritual counselor and transformational coach. She specializes in helping her clients achieve emotional freedom, release stress, heal from the negative past, resolve and cleanse dark entities, bloodline curses, energetic and spiritual toxins, become more productive, have clarity about their life purpose, and live life on their terms. 

For more about her, please visit, http://www.tapthegood.com

Love and light

5 Psychologically Proven Tips to Be at Peace When You can’t Change a Situation


Life can be extremely challenging at times. And during these times, it takes more than wishful thinking to stay sane and at peace. There are situations that can literally leave you numb.

What do you do?

In this video, I share 5 psychologically proven tips to help you be at peace when you hit rock bottom.

Remember, everything changes.

Let me know how you feel. Sending you much love and peace

Jacinta

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