The Most Powerful Self-Improvement Question


As the year ends, other than spending a lot of money on gifts and preparing for the holiday celebrations, we get prompted to think about what we’ve achieved during the year, what we’ve lost, what we want to achieve the following year, what to change about ourselves, how to change, financial goals, relationships goals…the list goes on.

Many, (and I plead guilty for doing this for a number of years,) have long given up on the annual-goal setting exercise because they either never follow-through with their goals, or simply, for some reason, fail to achieve their goals. So, for the fear of failing again, they negate or ignore annual resolutions.

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However, I have discovered that there is a single question that I have asked myself each year, and have also recommended for my clients, that doesn’t only help to re-establish personal worth, but also leads to new insights about self. Also, this question has somehow led me into evaluating my finance, friendship, business and future related goals.

The question is: “What do I deserve?”

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When you take time to contemplate on, and answer this question, I suggest that you consider thinking about what you are tolerating, let it be partnerships, a job (if you are employed), lifestyle, friendships—to mention but a few. After establishing what you might be tolerating, proceed to analyze what you think you deserve and why. Before you are done, you will have your most important new goals ready for your execution.

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If you discover that you are tolerating more than you think, then contact me at www.tapthegood.com/contacts/ for a complimentary personal coaching/counseling session to establish how I can help you take your power back and become the authority of your life.

Looking for a good book to read during the holidays? Check out, Do not Force it, Tap The Good: How to Tap Into One’s Infinite Potential, Develop a Profound Positive Attitude and Live Life on Your Terms.

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Happy holidays

Love and light

Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Published Author, Counselor, Personal Coach, Professional Speaker

http://www.tapthegood.com

Does What You Want Deserve You?


Often times who crave to get certain things in life. We crave for jobs, relationships, cars, etc, only to get them and start craving for different things. At times when we get what we have been longing for, this is when we realize that it doesn’t resonate with our personal standards.

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As a counselor and coach, I have discovered that people long for what they don’t really want. They tend to focus so much on the  wanted “thing” instead of the feelings that the ‘thing” will elicit in them when they get it. For example; a woman craves to attract a man. And when she does, she realizes that she deserves better. This is when she also discovers that she didn’t evaluate what she particularly deserves before she established what she wanted.

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My simple advice is that before you start working towards achieving a set goal, let it be a woman, man, job, promotion, car, etc, ask yourself if this goal reflects on your standards, values, and self esteem. The starting point is to evaluate how you value yourself. What makes you, you? What’s your worth?

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As you ponder on the above, I have a resource for you. My book, Do Not Force It, Tap The Good: How to Tap into one’s Inner Infinite Intelligence, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on his/her Termswill help you evaluate your personal standards, and then challenge you to upgrade your self-worth. 

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Check out the book on CD, Kindle, Audio and Paper back.

links to the book:

Kindle – https://www.amazon.com/not-Force-TAP-GOOD-Intelligence-ebook/dp/B006JNBGDW

Paper back – http://www.amazon.com/Do-not-Force-TAP-GOOD/dp/1461079098

Audible – http://www.amazon.com/Do-Not-Force-Tap-Good/dp/B008JAEXRE?ie=UTF8&qid=&ref_=tmm_aud_swatch_0&sr=

CD – http://www.amazon.com/Do-Not-Force-Tap-Good/dp/0985379103/ref=tmm_abk_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

Have a great week ahead.

Love and light

http://www.tapthegood.com

All Things are Possible


Live your life in a sublime spirit of confidence and determination; disregard appearances, conditions. In fact, disregard all evidence of your senses that deny the fulfillment of your desire. Rest in the assumption that you are already what you want to be, for in that determined assumption, you and your Infinite Being are merged in creative unity, and with your Infinite Being, (God) remember that all things are possible. GOD NEVER FAILS. 

The question is; how do you get to that mental, emotional and spiritual place of absolute faith? The proven process of developing unwavering faith in life, yourself and God, is fully explained in my book – Do Not Force it, Tap The GoodHow to Tap into one’s Inner Infinite Intelligence, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on his/her Terms

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Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor, Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com/books/

Book link – http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B006JNBGDW/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?ie=UTF8&btkr=1

 

Free Your Thinking


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In thinking of any form of abundance in any respect do not think in terms of tangible manifestations of it, but rather of the spiritual cause, the idea, the law according to which it becomes manifest. Appearances change, things come and go, but there forever remains the ways and the means for other things to become manifest in your experience. You will always be able to add two and two and get four as an answer. You will always be able to release a rock from your hand and have it fall to the ground. In everything you are, do, and experience you are fundamentally dealing with basic principles and causes.  These never become exhausted, never refuse to work, but all too often it is felt that they do when they appear to, the fault lies not in them but in your limited idea as to what they can do for you.

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Therefore, regardless of what it is you feel you should have more of, whether it is wealth, success, health, better relations with others, or more sales, they all resolve themselves back to the thought pattern and your internal representations…i.e., beliefs and mind paradigms. A greater experience of anything first requires awareness that the possibility is available to you, and then a desire and willingness to accept it.

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Do Not Force it, Tap the Good: How to Tap into Your Infinite Potential, Develop a Profound Positive Attitude, and Life on Your Terms, is a book that will help you examine your belief systems, eliminate what doesn’t serve you, and give you the proven tips to develop impeccable self-esteem, confidence, and faith in life and God (or a higher being…whatever “God” means to you.)

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Book links – http://www.amazon.com/not-Force-TAP-THE-GOOD-ebook/dp/B006JNBGDW, http://www.tapthegood.com/books/

Remember, March 1st, is Global Worry-free Day. It’s up to you to decide what you want to do with this day. Please spread the word.

Sending you God’s love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Counselor, Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

Be Encouraged, Friend – 3 Tips to be Inspired


In this video, I share three tips that will inspire you.

Please share the video with a friend you think might need some inspiration today.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/0reCYoivjh0

If you are looking for some good books to inspire and entertain you, please check out the following:

  • Do Not Force It, Tap The Good: How to Tap Into One’s Infinite Potential, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, Live Life on His/her Terms.

Amazon  kindle link – http://www.amazon.com/not-Force-TAP-THE-GOOD-ebook/dp/B006JNBGDW. (The book is also available in Audible, CD and Paperback)

  • Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain Them.

Amazon link – http://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain-ebook/dp/B00C2WUK22/

  • Becoming a Sex CEO on a Spiritual Level: A Contemporary Guide to Establishing, Maximizing, and Maintaining a Blazing Sexual Connection Based on Love.

Amazon Link – http://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Sex-Spiritual-level-Sexual-connection-ebook/dp/B00JFHDEF2/

  • Communicating Your Way to Success: Master the Art of Persuasion, Positively Influence Others, Increase Sales, and Stand Out From the Crowd.

Amazon link – http://www.amazon.com/Communicating-Your-Way-Success-Persuasion/dp/1515179087/

Love and Light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Counselor, Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

 

Are you READY to be Inspired? Check this OUT!!


IJon pic recently had the pleasure of meeting with, and interviewing Jon Pirincci, a comedian, actor, and author of the book “What’s a Little Wind?” As you read the following interview-content, you will discover more about Jon, his work and book. If you are looking for a good inspirational relate-able book, What’s a Little Wind?” is an amazing book to consider.

1. Tell us about yourself and what you do.

I was born in Seattle Washington. When I was five yrs old, my parents moved to Rochester New York. After a few years living in New York, I decided to go to Orlando, Florida, a sunny place, with better weather where I could pursue my comedy and acting career. After living in Florida for 4 yrs, I learned that the television and film industry in Miami was blooming. So I moved to Miami and lived there for six yrs.

In 1998, I moved to Los Angeles to further my career in Acting and Comedy. I have lived in Los Angles for the past 15 yrs.

I am an actor and comedian. I love Stand-up comedy; and have been doing that for over 20 yrs. I also produce webi-sodes and pod-casts.   Additionally, I am an author of a motivational-spiritual book titled–“What’s a Little Wind?”

 2. When did you first realize you wanted to be a writer?

I have always wanted to write. I started by writing Jokes for my comedy routine with impressions, then a sitcom. I then realized that I really wanted to write a book about my life that would also inspire, and empower others. This is when I embarked on writing the book, What’s a Little Wind?” 

3. What do you think is unique about you as an author? What makes you stand out in the crowd of authors?

Having grown up in the 1960s and 70s, I understand the social positive structures and norms that made life fun and refreshing back then. This is some of what I embrace in my writing. I also blend in my humor and old fashioned values that everyone can relate to- especially in this era where technology is taking over humility and personable communication, in a world bombarded with negativity.

4. What inspired you to write this book?

I went to a motivational seminar by Joel Bauer in July 2013 where he indicated that everyone has a book in them. So I thought about it, and a month later I tapped into my creativity and started writing the book. And I have to admit that writing this book has been one of the most inspiring things that I’ve done in my life.

5How long did it take you to write this book?

4 months.

6. When did you publish this book?

 I self-published it in March 2014 through CreateSpace.

7. Who did you write this book for?

I wrote the book for anyone who is looking for empowerment, inspiration, and real-life stories to relate to.  

8Why do you think people should buy this book?

Since the book shares real life experiences of people who have gone through hard times, this book is written to inspire, empower and upgrade people’s lives. The book is very relate-able; which makes it easy for my readers to comprehend the fact that everything is about perception; and happiness is a choice that we can all make.

The book contains over 20 incredible and completely true stories about miracles of faith, angels, kismet, health, patriotism, neighbors, greed and spirits. Readers will also main achieve the following:

  • Gain new insights about this incredible, miraculous world we all live in.
  • Make meaningful and dramatic life changes based on fresh perspective.
  • Allow the wind to guide you into believing yourself and staying positive.
  • See how life opens one door and closes another for a reason that will soon be revealed.
9Please give us 4 benefits that your readers will achieve from this book.
  • They will be able to tap into their abundant happiness-resources.
  • They will understand that everything is about perception.
  • They will comprehend the fact that we all have a choice about what to focus on, and what to ignore.
  • The theme of the book, “What’s a little Wind” has inspired me and my readers to go through the hardest times—considering that stressing over our problems doesn’t make them easier, or chase them away. Becoming witnesses of our problems, and perceiving them as temporary, and with solutions to solve the problems, is what resolves them. 
10. Where can your readers find your books?
  1. whatslittlewind.com
  2. Paperback – http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Little-Wind-Inspirations-Situations-ebook/dp/B00J88BTAU/ref=sr_1_1_twi_2_kin?ie=UTF8&qid=1427726846&sr=8-1&keywords=jon+pirincci
  3. Kindle: http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Little-Wind-Jon-Pirincci/dp/1312577258/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1427726846&sr=8-1

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11. What is the retail price of your book?

   $19.95

12. What was one of the most surprising things you learned in writing your book?

That I can actually write a book; write every day, and be happy about it. It’s something that will stay with me forever– and I will always be proud I did it.

If you want to know more about Jon Pirincci and his book – What’s a Little Wind?” below are his contact details:

whatsalittlewind@gmail.com

Phone: (818) 906-4856

Love and Light.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

Tapthegood.com