When faced challenges, remember that challenges are opportunities. Problems and challenges are man’s means to earn a living. Note that all businesses are founded on providing solutions for problems that someone once had.
The more someone designs solutions for problems, the wealthier they become. Therefore, challenges are intended to be turned into opportunities to become more of ourselves by shedding off the layers of fear and other negative conditioning in order to perceive life differently. Whatever challenge you are experiencing today, know that it is not a waste. These challenges are anointing you with the skills to overcome them. And after this storm is over you will not be the same. You will be stronger and wiser—which is something amazing to look forward to.
With that said, if you haven’t read, Do Not Force it, Tap the Good, ( Link to the book – https://www.amazon.com/Do-not-Force-T…) it’s time.
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Change is life and life is change. Everything changes because everything seen and felt is temporary. Now becomes later and later becomes history. Today becomes yesterday. Night breaks into day, and a dark night is soon embraced by trillions of stars in the sky. That’s why weather is seasonal, it changes.
Everything that has a beginning has an end because that’s the law of nature. Nothing lasts forever unless it’s not that thing. There is no problem that doesn’t resolve, and no obstacle that doesn’t end. There’s no conflict can’t be resolved, and no mind that can not change. There’s no heart that can not heal, and no situation stays the same. There’s no experience that’s permanent except those we continue to perceive as so. Every occurrence is subjected to the law of polarity. With every action, there’s an equal and opposite reaction.
On the other side of prison is freedom. With stuck-ness comes clarity. At the end of all pain is bliss. To know stress, you must know peace. At any given time, there’s always a part of you that’s not experiencing pain or struggle: a part where goodness and bliss externally dwell. There are no emotions that exist without their opposites. The law of polarity is a law of life. So, whatever happens in life has its opposite dwelling at the other end.
Regardless of any story or reason supporting any condition, change, will soon transform it. With or without our intervention, time takes care of all things. If you are bombarded by struggles, you can’t seem to change, step aside and let them lead their natural course.
Trust what’s permanent about life, about you. Trust that God within you is all that’s permanent and infinite. Know that God is all knowing, all powerful, all wisdom, all kindness and God is all there really is. Be still and connect to that Divine spark within you…God. Let go and let this Divine intelligence also known as God take over. Have faith that change is natural. Change is part of creation. And the Creator “Himself/Herself” dwells within you as you. Repeat again and, again: “Because God dwells within me, I am light. I am love. I am loved. I am led. I am protected. I am supposed to be here. I am taken care of. I am well, all is well. I am.”
Have you ever shared your dream with someone only to be discouraged?
Have you ever been so certain about the direction that you want to take only to be told by someone you trust that you are going to fail?
If you answered yes, to any of the above questions then you understand how it feels when someone tries to blow out your light….damn your enthusiasm.
Apparently, it’s human nature for one to damn someone else’s light if theirs isn’t shinning. Remember that misery loves company, and if you are in company with people who have given up on their dreams, don’t expect them to inspire you.
Note that people who feel insecure about their own qualities will attempt to make others feel that way. They will devise mental plots to get you to start doubting yourself.
Furthermore, if one is stuck in a dark place for a while, understand that they have become accustomed to the darkness. They don’t want to experience anything different. Their brains have settled, and it normally takes some mental and emotional work for them to snap out of their illusion and start shinning their own light. Therefore, if you share your dream with someone in that mental state, be sure to receive discouragement.
“If one is stuck in a dark place for a while, understand that they have become accustomed to the darkness”
The next question is, what do you do if someone discourages you?
The answer lies in the very reason why you want to pursue your goal. Your why, should matter more than what anyone else says about you or your goals. Besides, what others think or say about you is their business: that’s their model of the world. Whatever one is projecting in their mind has nothing to do with you. Your business is what’s brewing in your own mind. Therefore, you can’t let naysayers retard your decision to move forward with your dream. Remember, no one but you has the power to put out your light. You are the master of your enthusiasm and your inner thrill, and it’s really up to you to keep shinning no matter what.
“No one but you has the power to put out your light.”
In this video, I share a few tips that you can use to keep your light shinning. The tips are simple and I’m certain that you already know about them. However, sometimes it helps when we are reminded that the answers and solutions we seek for are always within us.
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Of late, turbulent times seem to be more common than peaceful times. The main, yet less obvious reason for experiencing turbulent times is because we’ve let the external world and whatever happens in it to determine the way we feel. The first step then, is to take full responsibility of the way we feel and then tap into our inexhaustible mental resources in order to get a grip of our feelings. Once we are less attached to our experiences or needs/wants, we access our inbuilt God-given clarity and enthusiasm to pursue our goals without the related stress.
In this video, I share 7 mental tools that are guaranteed to help you survive challenging times. Read them, identify those tools that you relate to the most, embrace, then employ them to help you get a grip of your mind, strengthen it, then move past the challenges.
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This article was written by Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA. She is a transformational coach, counselor, professional speaker and published author. For more about her, please visit http://www.tapthegood.com
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The author, Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Phd, MBA is an Addictions/Co-dependency Counselor, a Transformational Coach, Published Author and Inspirational Speaker.