Have Faith – Based on a Powerful Inspirational Story – Audio Recording


In this week’s inspirational blog, I share a story about having faith. Faith, in my opinion is that consistent profound, soothing inner state, that convinces us that everything will be okay. We all need faith to inspire our confidence and help us push forward regardless of the obstacles that we may be facing.

In this audio recording, I share the story. Please send the audio link to anyone who might need it.

Link to audio – https://youtu.be/ABGBurvxmvw

In the interim, I’m sending you God’s love and light.

Want to read a good book that will inspire fear to take a hike out of your system? Check out my book – Do Not Force it, Tap The Good: How to Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on Your Terms.

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**Inspirational story borrowed from http://www.inspire21.com

Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PH.D., MBA, is a Spiritual Counselor, transformational coach, Author, and Professional Speaker. To learn more about her, please visit her website at http://www.tapthegood.com

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Dealing the Issue of Public Nudity


In today’s world, public nudity is becoming more common than unusual. And when I refer to public nudity, I’m referring to people basically getting into a mental state that triggers them to undress down to nothing.

In this recording, I, and my host, Jay Black share our different psychological, cultural and societal perceptions of the impact of public nudity on society.

Here’s the link to the recording – https://youtu.be/v9I90jFnYUY

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Please join in, share your views, and let us know if there are issues that you want us to talk about in our new weekly recordings.

In the interim, I’m sending you lots of God’s love and light.

Remember, whatever it is, do not force it, tap the good.

Love and light

Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

www.tapthegood.com

 

 

What if this is it? 3 Steps to go through the hardest times.


Are there times you’ve felt as if you’ve hit the dark wall? Times when you’ve tried everything and nothing seems to give you the results that you want?

In this video, I share three tips that will facilitate you with a few great ideas on how to go through hard times.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/bzNXg57cCRA

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Counselor, Author, Success Coach, Professional Speaker

http://www.tapthegood.com

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Do you Feel like you are Running Around in Circles?


There are times when we all feel so overwhelmed about life–when everything we do does not yield the results that we desire. During such times, we may feel as though the devil itself has binoculars on our lives.

I have experienced periods in my life when I felt as though I was moving against the wind. Everything seemed to break down. There was conflict surrounding me. Every action took me face to face with failure. I felt as though I was locked up behind a thick high wall with nowhere to go. I felt as if I was literally running around in circles–like a dog chasing its own tail. No amount of positive thinking made things better. Regardless of how hard and deeply I thought, no new information or ideas popped up in my mind as solutions. Even when I meditated and prayed for hours, I still felt a deep sense of emptiness and sadness.

Below are some of the steps that I have taken—things that have helped me get a new grip of my life.

1. Write down your goals.

2. Perform a situation analysis of your life; the steps you’ve been taking towards achieving your goals, the skills you have employed, plans, strategies, weaknesses, strengths, opportunities and threats.

2. Evaluate your successes and failures for the last 60 days.

3. STOP. Stop and relax. Stop making any major plans, taking any major actions or even expecting anything—good or bad to happen. Become a witness of your life. Observe. I know this might sound so hard to do, but if you have been taking a lot of action and seeing no results, then there is something missing. During such times, it also implies that we are not listening to our inner voice for direction or alerts.

4. Spend some time with yourself–at least 3 hours a day especially if you work for yourself. If you are employed and have to appear at a job every day, you can still become a witness of your own life by excluding judgement of others and the entire job situation. This might also mean that you don’t talk about your concerns with anyone. You are present at the job and doing what you have to do, but mindfully absent. I hope you understand what I mean. It’s about becoming laid back for a set period of time.

When we stop and do nothing major, we reduce the noises in our minds. This is when we get to hear the voice of God that is always existent at the back of our minds.

I hope this helps.

Love and light.

Dr Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Author, Speaker / Counselor / Coach / Mentor

http://www.tapthegood.com

author@tapthegood.com

Clearing Your Resistance to Miracles Through EFT!


Is it hard to believe that miracles are unfolding all around us? And that we have access to co-creating our lives and goals with the divine?

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Yes, sometimes it is hard! Hey, I know it can be hard for me some days!!
Sometimes life, money and our goals can seem heavy and overwhelming! Do you ever feel like, “it’s all on me to do everything”? This is a great time to tap–as this is a particular vibe that literally blocks miracles from showing up. Whenever we feel weak, it just means that for a while we’ve forgotten about our abilities to co-create with the divine. This also implies that we are disconnected from the infinite magnificence…the kingdom of God that dwells with us. When we tap on these negative feelings, we remove the emotional blockages to our inner confidence; and are then able to tap into divine intelligence for direction, inner drive, and will power.

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So let’s do that now; shall we?
Firstly, let’s dive into an exercise to examine where we are in regards to our goals.

Think about this year. Think about your money goals, wealth goals, and/or business goals.

Now, test this phrase by saying it aloud in two ways: “I have to make it happen.”
With all the emphasis on ‘have,’ notice the feeling in that…and how true it feels.
What is the emotion?

Now say the following statement again with the emphasis on ‘make’.
“I have to make it happen.” Notice the feelings in your body when you say it that way.

Now start tapping!

Round 1: We are going to tap on the statement: “I have to make everything happen
on my own (there’s no support!)”

Karate Chop Point:

Even though, the truth is I have to make it happen; it’s all on me. I’ve got to do it,
I accept all of me now.

Even though, I have to make this happen. I feel that pressure, that constriction,
but I can’t just let this go. I accept all of my feelings now.

Even though, the truth is, it’s all me. There’s no one supporting me, no miracles showing up. I have to make this happen. Otherwise I will fail, and that will be all on me. I love and accept myself anyway.

Tapping Through the Points:

Eye brow (EB): It is all on me. It’s always been on me. I can’t just trust. I can’t let go.
Side of the Eye: (SE) That would be slacking off. I have to make this happen. Make it happen with my will, with my own two hands, my blood, sweat and tears.

Under the Eye (UE): It’s exhausting. But I keep doing it. I’ve got to make this happen.
Not a lot of fun in that.
Under the Nose: (UN) A lot of pressure…a lot of desperation. I’m always battling failure–so much at stake.

Chin (C): I can’t just trust in the Universe. That would be crazy

I’ve got to do it. It’s all me.

Collar Bone (CB): I feel isolated. There is no one to help me.

Under the Arm (UA): Why is all this happening to me?

Top of the Head (TH): I don’t think I can ever achieve my goals.

Round 2: We are going to tap on a more positive round with this statement in mind. “I am open to the divine co-creating with me!”

Karate Chop Point: (Tap on this point and repeat the statements below)

Even though, I’ve built a life making stuff happen. And I often say, oh I’ll just do it myself. I usually do it better, and I do it to my standards. I’m open to the idea that there’s a conflict in this for me. Because I’m not very open to help.

Even though, I love getting stuff done. I love making great things happen. I’m open
to the idea, that I could be an amazing achiever, and have an open window to streams of divine
brilliance, divine guidance, inspiration, and even miracles. That makes all my achieving fun.

Even though, I’ve operated this way for a long time; saying, “No thanks, I got it. I’ve got to do it all myself.” I’m now opening a window, and I’m propping it open with a stick, so I
can’t close it easily. This window is open to the divine co-creating with me. I actually don’t need to do everything myself.

The truth is I can’t always see the big picture. And although right now, I’m disconnected from the mind of God. Maybe the Divine is trying to give me more than I’ve even dreamed of.

Tapping Through the Points:

EB: I’ve been doing it this way for a long time.
If I trust and let go, would I judge myself a slacker? Or naïve?
SE: I wonder what would happen, if I open this window and allowed the Divine to stream into my life–bringing me more brilliance, more inspiration, absolute miracles, and co-creating with me.
UE: I wonder how that would feel. I wonder how it would feel in my body, to achieve my goals that way.
UN: This would feel different. …REALLY different.

Chin: I surrender my control. I surrender my old story.
CB: I surrender my doubt in divine power.
UA: I open myself to help.
TH: I open myself to miracles. I open my connection to the divine to co-create with me!

If you can go through this exercise for the next couple of days, I’m certain that you will see some positive results in your life.

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Love and light.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Certified Success Coach / S. Counselor

Tapthegood.com

author@tapthegood.com

http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

Three Simple Steps to Create Your New Year’s Goals. Includes a Gift for You!


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2014 is ending in about 23 days and 10 hours—depending on where you are located. I’m aware that sometimes we create goals that we never achieve, and therefore, have given up on even trying—in avoidance of the disappointment of not achieving these set goals. However, I’m here to remind you that nothing moves, if nothing is moved. I dare you to move your thoughts away from the past, and focus on the possibilities of the future. If others have done it, oh yes you can do it too.  I challenge you to take on this project in the provided deadline (i.e.) 12/29/2014, and then claim your gift—a spelled out at the end of this article.

It is as simple as spending one of the evenings before the year ends, and following this simple format included in the next chapter to set your goals. You are doing this for yourself and no one else. So, I encourage you to enthusiastically take on this exercise.

Here are the steps.

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  1. Write three life-goals, in present tense, that you intend to achieve next year-2015. Life goals, are mainly what you intend for your health and wellbeing. For instance; family related goals such as better relationships, or maybe getting married, travelling, Educational goals, or having a kid; or moving to a new town where you’ve always wanted to live but procrastinated about the move. For example:
  • I’m happily married to my soul mate; and we have two healthy kids together – twins, a boy and girl
  • I have a great relationship with my family members. We get together every year and celebrate life.
  • I am in perfect health, with the perfect weight of 158 lbs, and with a healthy creative mind.

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 (i)  Write down the first step you will take towards achieving this goal. For example:

I have my profile set-up on eHarmony.com explaining exactly what I want in a partner.

 (ii)  Write down how you will feel, in present tense, when you achieve these goals.

For example: I feel alive, worthy and excited about life.

(iii)  Write down three reasons why you think you deserve to achieve these goals—your driving force.

For example:

  • I’m a woman, and I know I was born to give birth to healthy kids.
  • I am a loving person who deserves to share my love with a like-minded person
  • I deserve a healthy mind, body, and spirit in order fulfill my life’s purpose.

 career goals

  1. Write down three major career goal: – A business that you want to begin, an investment idea, change of jobs, job promotion, career-based training, etc. For example:
  • I have a global Success Coaching business serving 1 million clients worldwide through my on-line programs, books, and Art.
  • I have 3 paid bi-weekly speaking engagements in Fortune 500 companies and other publics in the US. I earn $5000 + each engagement.
  • I am a bestselling Author –selling 10,000,000 copies of my life-changing books world-wide. My books are translated in 189 languages.

 (i)  Write down the first step you will take towards achieving this goal. For example: I have hired a professional to re-skin and re-brand my website and highlight my business values, and unique brand.

 (ii)  Write down how you will feel, in present tense, when you achieve these goals.

For example: I feel purposeful, worthy, and enthusiastic to create more products and services to change people’s lives.

 (iii)  Write down three reasons why you think you deserve to achieve these goals—your driving force. For example:

  •  I am highly educated and skilled, and know that I have what it takes to deliver valuable services.
  • I am enthusiastic about making a difference in the world.
  • I have an immerse passion to serve, and earn out of the value I offer to my clientele.

 Money goals

  1. Write down a money / income related goal. This goal is about how much money you want to earn by, or before the end of 2015. I dare you to dream big. For example:
  • I earn $10,000,000 annually.

(i)  Write down the first step you will take towards achieving this goal. For example: I have set-up a meet-up networking group to attract like-minded people

(ii)  Write down three things that you are willing to do to earn that income. Refer to your skills, experience or education: – what you know that you can do to earn that money. For example:

  •  Success Coaching and Counseling
  • Professional Speaking Engagements
  • Selling my books, audio programs and Success programs.

 (iii) Write down how you will feel, in present tense, when you achieve this amount of money. For example:

I feel excited that my services, skills and values are appreciated. I feel so driven to create more value for my clientele. I feel alive and purposeful.

(iv)  Write down why you think you deserve this money.

For example:

I deserve this money because I am willing to do whatever it takes to serve, and then get paid for it. I deserve abundance. I believe that it is my birthright.

 I hope you get the idea.  Check out the attached file with a table summarizing the goal Setting Structure. Just click on this link — Goals Structure

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Good News!!!

I have an offer for you. If you can complete, and send me a copy of your goals by 12/29/2014, I will offer you a complimentary one hour’s success coaching session. Additionally, I will send you a recording with an EFT session to tap on achieving your goals. Just send your goals to author@tapthegood.com.

Remember my dear friend, the way you do something, is the way you do everything. The ball is in your hands.

 

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana. Ph.D, MBA.

Author, Professional Speaker, and Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com.