Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains


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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

Click HERE to access the video recording.

If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from http://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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Or sign up for my complimentary 30 minutes consultation session to set up counseling sessions that are guaranteed to help you take your power back from the negative past in order to live life on your terms.

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Dr. Jacinta Mpa, Ph.D., MBA, is a published author, counselor and transformational coach. For more about her, visit www.tapthegood.com.

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Celebrate Yourself – An Inspirational Holiday-season Message


 

Pardon my error, it is 12/24/2017 and not 12/24/2018, like I indicate in the video. I guess, I’m living fast forward. 🙂

In this audio recording, I share my take on what a holiday season and especially Christmas, could be redefined by each of us in order to create individualized experiences that do not only rekindle our spirits, but also contribute to humanity and the environment, rather than take from it continuously without considering the consequences.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/wqZmTUgki1o

Sending you warm greetings, and God’s love and light.

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Feeling Stressed Out? Three Tips to Inspire You


I recently went through an experience that left me feeling beaten and broken. I felt as if I was behind a curtain. I felt as if my true intentions weren’t understood. I felt betrayed, weak and discouraged. I felt misjudged, isolated and rejected.

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Now, you will agree that such feelings can leave one in a state of emotional warfare. Yet I knew that I had to get up. I knew that I couldn’t control anyone else but myself. I had to take my power back, and determine the way I wanted to feel regardless of what anyone else thought or felt about me. I had to continue following my dreams, and focusing on my goals. I had to feel good again which is the only way that would enable me to wake up and try at this thing called life. I needed inspiration to keep going .

In this video, I share three tips that I employed to feel inspired. I hope they help you feel inspired. Please share the video with anyone you know needs some inspiration today.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/c1PxuWSjDpg

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Have a good week.

Love and light

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

 

Be Encouraged, Friend – 3 Tips to be Inspired


In this video, I share three tips that will inspire you.

Please share the video with a friend you think might need some inspiration today.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/0reCYoivjh0

If you are looking for some good books to inspire and entertain you, please check out the following:

  • Do Not Force It, Tap The Good: How to Tap Into One’s Infinite Potential, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, Live Life on His/her Terms.

Amazon  kindle link – http://www.amazon.com/not-Force-TAP-THE-GOOD-ebook/dp/B006JNBGDW. (The book is also available in Audible, CD and Paperback)

  • Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain Them.

Amazon link – http://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain-ebook/dp/B00C2WUK22/

  • Becoming a Sex CEO on a Spiritual Level: A Contemporary Guide to Establishing, Maximizing, and Maintaining a Blazing Sexual Connection Based on Love.

Amazon Link – http://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Sex-Spiritual-level-Sexual-connection-ebook/dp/B00JFHDEF2/

  • Communicating Your Way to Success: Master the Art of Persuasion, Positively Influence Others, Increase Sales, and Stand Out From the Crowd.

Amazon link – http://www.amazon.com/Communicating-Your-Way-Success-Persuasion/dp/1515179087/

Love and Light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Counselor, Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

 

Is Your Heart Wounded?


Certain experiences have a way of wounding our hearts. The emotions these experiences leave with us, do get in the way of us getting forward.

If you, or someone you know has been hurt, looking to heal negative emotions, or seeking to attract love, I have a resource for you. Click on the following link for details. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/healing-the-wounded-heart-to-attract-love-2-part-series-tickets-17663509031

Love and Light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

tapthegood.com

Worry-Free Tip 5 – In celebration of the Global Worry-Free Day – Your CHANCE TO IMPACT THE WORLD


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In this video, I share 2 tips that are guaranteed to help you stop worrying. 

Link to video:- http://youtu.be/sjJ6aDY5mSM

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Take the challenge to put your own problems aside, and make a difference in a stranger’s life.

Remember; the Global Worry-free Day is March 1st, 7.00 a.m. – 7.00 p.m. your time…your region. It’s your chance to impact the world. 

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mariah

TapTheGood.com

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