How We Create Insanity: An Excerpt from my upcoming book – “The Sanity Warrior”


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Insanity begins by creating stories that are delusional: delusional in the sense that we normally don’t have practical evidence of our conclusive thoughts. For instance, we predict our future based on what happened in the past, or based on stories of other people. We also base our future predictions on present experiences and conclude with certainty that our lives will manifest the same way they are manifesting now. What’s interesting is that as we engross our minds in these predictions, we develop profound beliefs about our futures, and just like magic, our futures manifest as we predicted. So, we literally create our present and future realities as we continue to emotionally and mentally visualize experiences rooted on false facts. And because we’ve been given the free-will to think and visualize as we please, we’ve also been given the power to create our realities. But we forget or neglect this truth and blame everyone and everything out of ourselves for our experiences. Yet, we create our own suffering: because suffering is a personal inner experience (call it an emotion) that we consciously or unconsciously choose to feel. 

To summarize the preceding precepts, we live insanely because we’ve forgotten who we truly are, and what we are capable of. We forget, or are never convinced that our thoughts are powerful—and that they create. We neglect that no one and nothing has power over our emotions, except our own choices. We forget the basic truth that we cannot control anyone else but ourselves. Moreover, people are always changing their approach towards everything they do. Today someone might be kind and loving, and tomorrow he/she could be rude and/or sad. The more comfortable we get with our environments and the people we deal with, the more we relax our guard and reveal what’s inside of us. What’s inside depends on the number, diversity and intensity of experiences that someone has had all their lives; the related beliefs they’ve developed about their lives, life, and the world in general, plus relationships. What’s inside each one of us is complex. Therefore, regardless of how knowledgeable anyone is in subjects like psychology and/or human behavior, he/she can never be at the same pace with what consistently influences people to perceive and act the way they do.

Unfortunately, we go about life trying to change people; blaming them for being who they are, expecting them to love and accept us for who we are; thinking that we have the power to influence their actions, and that they owe us what we want to experience. When we believe that anyone owes us what we want to experience, then we have literally given them the power to choose our experiences based on what they know. We gain this mentality when we forget or negate that we experience who are. There is nothing without perception; also implying that if you don’t perceive something that “thing” does not exist in your reality. Because perception is a projection, we perceive according to what we have already created in our inner worlds: what we believe, what we consistently think about, and the stories we’ve created.

Therefore, if you don’t perceive it, it doesn’t exist. That’s why sometimes when you are crying over something, other people could celebrate over it. And it’s because we are all different—we have different opinions. Hence, everyone is doing the best they can with the mental, emotional and spiritual resources they’ve created within themselves. This also implies that what people do is their business. It’s their idea of expression and experience. So, it is insane to stress over what people do; considering that we have a choice to perceive things as we want, or decide not to experience what we don’t want. It’s because of this gift of free-will that God awarded us that we have also created a world of sorts. Sorts, in that the experiences we all individually create are so drastically different; some are extremely pleasurable if perceived that way, and others, sorrowful. It takes more than wishful thinking to stay connected to our true nature: a nature that consistently reveals its uniqueness through the selection of our perceptions and hence experiences.

Stay tuned for the book release date….

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The Simplest Way to Connect to a Customer


In this video, I share a simple tip to help you connect to your prospects.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/GxVmoeNgU7c

To learn more about the Art of Persuasion and Business Influence, check out my book – Communicating Your Way to Success:

Link to book is: http://www.amazon.com/Communicating-Your-Way-Success-Persuasion-ebook/dp/B0151Y8CCM

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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA
http://www.tapthegood.com

 

Introducing the Business Intelligence Success Coaching Mastermind


Welcome to the Business Intelligence Success Coaching Mastermind, eight weeks’ program that will ignite your true potential and reveal your magnificent genius.

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The program will be delivered twice weekly: a recorded video with a coaching session and accompanying script one day weekly; and 2 interactive hours on Skype the second day in the week.  

  1. Are you interested in making quicker and better decisions, and hence creating less delays and better quality of actions?

  2. Do you want to learn the Art of Persuasion and then effortlessly increase your sales?

  3. Are you sick and tired of trying to financially make ends meet?

  4. Do you often have trouble concentrating on what’s truly important in business, in people and in life?

  5. Do you believe you have the right products or services but is having trouble getting more clients?

  6. Are confused about seeing the possibilities and knowing which path is best for you to take?

  7. Are you having Trouble drawing clearer distinctions regarding present connections, situations and future directions?

  8. Are your past experiences and negative emotions negatively impacting your focus, productivity and success?

You are about to enter a partnership that will give you the true competitive edge. However, you must step up as well. Commit to the Business Intelligence Success coaching with the passion and focus that your life deserves. We’ll bring you extraordinary resources that will powerfully improve the quality of your personal, and professional life. Then, you can truly experience the powerful momentum that comes from living life at its peak.

We promise an experience that will not only stretch you, but that will be more fun than you have ever imagined possible. We don’t pretend that our coaching success partnership will be effortless, but it will be extraordinarily rewarding.

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The 8 Weeks Program:

Week 1: – Leadership and Purpose:

  • Embrace your Life Purpose into your USP

  • Define your “Why”

  • Establish your daily Rituals

A value of $750

Week 2 & 3: – Emotional Freedom

  • Identify your self-limiting beliefs and release them through EFT and NLP

A value of $1500

Week 4 & 5: – Money Mastery

  • Use EFT to cleanse and let go of negative emotions related to the 4 types of Money

A value of $1750

Week 6 – 8: The Art of Persuasion (Advanced NLP and Hypnotic Marketing)

  • Influential Psychology 101 and how it can positively impact your business

  • How to use mind triggers to achieve maximum influence to your leads

A value of $2250

Total Value is $6250

ONLY $47 WEEKLY – A ONE TIME PAYMENT OF$376 

For a limited time only. Special price ends 3/14/2015

YOUR TIME HAS NOW COME FOR ACTION.

Click HERE to reserve your seat.

Program begins March 23, 2015. 

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

TapTheGood.com

http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

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