A Spoken Inspirational Word – Your Dream will Become a Reality


In this video, I share a spoken inspirational word.

I hope you feel empowered.

Whatever you do, don’t give up on your dream, friend.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/6eKm-_KhjlM

Love and light

Dr. Jacent Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

http://www.tapthegood.com

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How to Influence and Captivate an Audience:


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So many people begin with their own agendas as they communicate. Since they normally have something to say or prove, they deliver their messages without considering the person they are communicating with.

More often than not, they simply broadcast their message, as they assume that people will think it is the most important information in the world. On the other hand, good communicators know that people won’t start listening unless they connect intellectually and emotionally. The idea is to know your audience and start by conveying an emotional anecdote that shows your common perspective.

But how do you start?

In this article, I share two tips that will get you started.

  1. Know yourself.

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Dig deep to establish what makes you feel good about yourself, your confidence and self-esteem levels, your core message, and objectives. Remember that if you feel good about yourself, and your message, this will show in the way you deliver the message, and ultimately influence the reactions from your target audience.

  1. Know your audience.

Know your audience

Before you address your audience, take time to find out the general attributes they share. For instance: if your target audience is a business oriented community, find out whether they are small business owners or employed; if they are just starting out as business owners, or already established; what their major challenges are; the dominant sex in the audience, etc. Although people’s interests and expectations in an audience vary, do the best you can to find out their commonalities and formulate your presentation with that information in mind.

Have I caught your attention?

Stay tuned to learn more about my newest book – Communicating Your Way to Success: Master the Art of Persuasion, Positively Influence Others, Increase Sales, and Stand Out from the Crowd” soon to be published by the end of August 2015.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

www.tapthegood.com

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Who is to Blame?


It’s apparent that since we are born, we are programmed to blame our challenges to our parents, teachers at school, relatives, friends, the government, God, and everything else but ourselves. Name it; we’ve been programmed to believe that someone or something out of ourselves is responsible for our failures or adversaries.

This mindset has disempowered us to take control of our lives. We consistently hope that something or someone out of us will come to our rescue. This is not to say that we don’t need our fellow humans for support or survival. The point in emphasis is that we weaken our minds by thinking that someone other than us will liberate our lives.

The important lesson that I’ve learned is that within us are the seeds of our adversaries, challenges, and disappointments, and also the source of all the solutions that we seek for. The challenge is to recognize this truth and work with it to consistently stand above all challenges, take full responsibility of our well-being, and become the authorities of our lives.

The first and most powerful technique that I discovered and use whenever life is kicking me around is to stop and breathe.  Apparently, breathing deeply and focusing on the breath, relaxes one’s mind, and brain; which then helps one to reconnect to the Kingdom of God within him or her where all solutions and ideas dwell.

The dilemma is re-programming your mind to know that you are powerful beyond power, and that the answers that you seek for are within you.

In my 8 weeks online Life Liberation, and Success Coaching Mastermind, above all benefits, you will be able to get to the root of your emotional challenges, take your power back from these negative experiences, set life, and business related power-goals, develop a winner’s mindset, and learn how to become more productive. I encourage you to check out my website – http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/ for more details.

Remember, the power is in your hands. You have the control. You have whatever it takes to liberate your life. The ball is in your hands. The decisions that you make now will determine what you will experience tomorrow.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD. MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor/Success Coach

Tapthegood.com

http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

author@tapthegood.com

6 Questions to ask Before you Speak on Any Stage.


Being a Professional Speaker requires of us to be organized, captivating, and most importantly, memorable. However, before we achieve the preceding goals, preparation is paramount. If we don’t take care of the small things that one could consider irrelevant, chances are that we won’t achieve our speaker-objectives. 

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Below are some questions I have asked myself before I go on any stage. And don’t get me wrong; I’ve learned the hard way. I hope you can take advantage of the questions.

  1. Are you clear about who is in the audience and their connection to our organization?

  2. Do you know  how long you have to Speak?

  3. Do you need a signal to wrap up your talk?

  4. Do you have all the equipment and aids you need to deliver your talk?

  5. Have you met the person who will be introducing you?

  6. Will  you be taking questions from the audience?

If you are looking for a nation-wide Inspirational and Personal Development Speaker, please check out my website at http://tapthegood.com/speaking/ to learn more about my speaking services. Please send me an email at author@tapthegood.com

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

http://www.tapthegood.com

http://tapthegood.com/speaking/