Is Your Job Progressing, or Retarding You?


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In school, for the most part we are programmed to believe that the only way to make it in life is to work for others. And although there’s nothing wrong with being employed, the danger is when we either don’t earn what we deserve or don’t ask for what we deserve because we don’t feel worthy.

In this short video, I share a few insights to inspire you to recognize your worth and then act accordingly.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/Ok7e06h7J5s

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Are You 100% Free to Be What You Want to Be?


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Some philosophers have argued that we are not totally free to be who want to be. What we think is freedom is merely being free to express ourselves as predetermined by our earlier and continuous programming. Due to the fact that being free means being happy and content with wherever and whatever one is, we tend to mistake settling for what is available, for authentic contentment. We forget that if we are unaware of other realities we have nothing to compare with. As such we regard our present reality as the real deal. Furthermore, because we are deeply programmed to believe and be a certain way, we conclude that this is the best we can be or do. We settle for beliefs  and lives that are not organically our own. 

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For instance, as I child, I was told, and I believed that if a woman rode a bike they would never get married. Because riding a bike compromised being feminine. Today, I’m still struggling to learn how to ride a bike–upon discovering that getting married has nothing to do with riding a bike. 🙂 
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That’s one of many beliefs that I was exposed to as a child, and I have had to examine, question and change my beliefs every so often in order to discover if they are regressing or progressing me.

The question is: Which of your beliefs are promoting your life?

Note that it takes more than wishful thinking to examine all our beliefs in order to originate beliefs and ways of living that are organically our own. Note that everytime someone starts questioning the general status quo, they are isolated, rejected if not killed. They are thrown out of the crowd. Think about people like, Martin Luther King, Jr, Jesus, the Christ–to mention a few.

So, if you want to create a reality that is organically your own, you have to step away from the crowds, follow your bliss and inner guidance, question everything, be open to everything, yet attached to nothing. You also have to be willing to be alone in order to find your authentic-self.  However, the benefits are inexhaustible. 

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In this video, I discuss this concept in detail. 

Link to VIDEO – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNgNA0oyGHM

Please share your thoughts. 

If you are seeking for a spiritual speaker to speak about “What it Means to be Free”, or  a counselor/coach who will work with you in examining your current reality and creating an organic one based on your authentic-self, please send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com

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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana.Ph.D., MBA, is a Spiritual Counselor, Transformational Coach, Published author and Professional speaker. For more about her, visit http://www.tapthegood.com

My Out of Body Experience: 8 Lessons I Received that Will Change Your Life


outOn March, 17th, 2018, I experienced an out-of-the-body episode, and what was so scarily is that I was awake and it was during the day. This is one of the most stressful, painful and horrifying experiences that I have ever encountered. However, after the experience, I received 8 messages that I have included in this audio recording

Link – https://youtu.be/Ub0GWim6Sts

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If you don’t understand any of the messages, please send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com and I will explain. 

I’m certain that something in these messages will spark your memory about who you truly are. 

In the interim, please share the video with your family and friends. 

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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA, is a published author, Professional Speaker, Counselor and Transformational Coach. For more about her, please visit her website at http://www.tapthegood.com

YouTube channel – https://www.youtube.com/user/MsJacent

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Are you Lonely??


  1. Have you tried searching for love in all the places you can, but failed to find it?worried-woman-288x260
  2. Do you attract the same douche-bags in your life?

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3.    Do you end up attracting the same partner who makes you feel like committing suicide?

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I have been there. It took years before I could figure out what I was doing wrong. I blamed myself and the entire world for the recurring love misfortunes. With that in mind, I embarked on a long search for solutions. And today, I live with an amazing man who thinks the world of me. And I attracted this man. I realized that I had to deal with my inner world in order to create a better outer world.

Now, I have a resource for you. You are lucky that you don’t have to do the research like I did.  I have put together a healing program called The 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp. This program digs deep to deracinate the root causes of emotional baggage, and other underlying issues that block true unconditional love. In this program you will benefit the following.

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  • Clean all your 7 chakras through guided meditations and EFT – the Emotional Freedom Technique – Value of $225

  • Heal Daddy Issues if you have any – a Value of $95

  • Heal the Unconscious mind from old negative programming –  a Value of $95

  • Go through the Forgiveness Meditation – a Value of $45

  • Go through the Super Love Manifestation Guided Meditation- a Value of $67

  • And much more.

 The normal price of the Program is $302

Today for a limited time only –until March 31st, the program is priced at a 50% discount of $147

Get your program at http://tapthegood.com/meditations/ 

The program is accessible from the first column of the page.

The time to ACT is NOW!!

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Dr. Jacinta Mariah, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Success Coach / Counselor

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Gossip:  An Excerpt from the self-help book- Do Not Force It, Tap The Good.


        “In a 2008 movie titled “Doubt,” Philip Seymour Hoffman, cast as Father Brendan Flynn, gave what I consider a perfect sermon about gossip, in one of the scenes.  He told his congregation a story about a woman who went for repentance to her local priest.  The sin she was confessing was gossip.  The priest advised her to say a couple of prayers and suggested that she tears and opens one of her pillows and dispose the feathers from her bedroom window, which was located in a flat on the tenth floor of a big apartment building.  When she followed-up with the priest the next day, he asked her what had happened when she tore up the pillow.  She explained that the wind had blown away all the feathers in different directions. She then asked the priest if her sin had been forgiven. “Go and collect all the feathers and pack them back into your pillow case,” responded the priest.  ”But father,” she cried, “they were blown-off to different directions and I cannot find them all.”  The priest replied, “That my friend, is gossip.” 

       This story explains the nature and effects of gossip.  It goes far off to places where the original gossiper does not have access to.  If one analyzes the feather concept, he/she will concur with me that the original color, weight, and shape of the feather is 99% altered after being blown away by the wind from one place to another.  Gossip is similar.  Once news leaves its original source, by the time it gets to the 10th person, the content and hence predetermined objective of the message is altered.   Considering the fact that each one of us is unique, understands, and interprets information differently, one can never be certain about the honesty in a message unless of course it is being received directly from its original source. 

      Therefore, what makes us so convinced that the gossip we receive is based on facts? In most cases, when we receive the gossip we get so overwhelmed with the content and often forget to inquire about the information path.  How many people have been involved in the information process from its original source to the point of your involvement?  Is the source of the gossip reliable, or is it someone else’s truth, based on personal perceptions, experiences, mindset, and/or subconscious programming?  Categorically, there are so many obstacles that come up between the encoding and decoding process of every information transference process.  The list of obstacles is inexhaustible. Why then react impulsively to information, especially if the instant decoding presents negative concepts?  Certainly, there can be positive aspects of gossiping; however, just by the mere fact that it is gossip implies that it is either premature information still in the processing or it wasn’t meant for everyone to know. 

      What’s more, gossip has been known to be the cause of the downfall of many kingdoms, friendships, families, and companies.  Moreover, it has a great impact on influencing perceptions and hence the decision-making process.”

For more inspirational and life changing stories, get yourself a copy of Do Not Force It, Tap The Good.

The book shares lessons that humanity can live by.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

Counselor/ Success Coach and Professional Speaker

Author of:

1. Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them

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2. Becoming a SEX CEO on a Spiritual Level

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3. Do Not Force it, Tap The Good. 

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