It is Time to Surrender – 3 Proven Psychological Steps to Help you Surrender


Are you attached to a desire or goal and finding it hard to surrender to the process?

Does your passion/desire for your goal stress you out?

Are you worried that you might not achieve your goal?

Well, maybe it is time to surrender. And to do so, I have recorded this VIDEO with 3 proven psychological tools to help you detach from your goal, and instead focus on the goals as you also enjoy every moment of the process.

I know this will help.

Link to video – https://youtu.be/F2qpkBwEtqs

Please do not forget to share with friends or family who might need these tips.

Love and light.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PH.D., MBA

Author, Spiritual Counselor, Corporate Trainer, Speaker

http://www.tapthegood.com

 

 

How To Handle Customer Rebuttals


In this video, I share a few vital tips on how to handle customer rebuttals.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker & Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

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Author of: Communicating Your Way to Success: Master the Art of Persuasion, Positively Influence Others, Increase Sales, and Stand Out From the Crowd.

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The Most Vital Ingredient to Build a Personal Platform for Business Persuasion


This week, I’ve decided to record a brief audio in place of writing an article so that you can listen to it as many times as you want.

Link to audio – https://soundcloud.com/jacinta-mpalyenkana/the-most-important-ingredient-for-business-persuasion

For more details, please check out my website at http://www.tapthegood.com

Claim your 30 minutes complimentary session at http://www.tapthegood.com 🙂

Remember, you are reading this content with the mind of the person responsible for his or her success 🙂

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Author, Professional Speaker, Success Coach/ Mentor

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Rich Thoughts, Poor pessimism


It’s often said that the quality of our thoughts determines the quality of our experiences. Thoughts are the lens through which we see and interpret the world.

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However, thoughts do not create reality per say. Apparently, reality can neither be created nor destroyed. Thoughts are what determine the realities that we experience. If we choose to think rich healthy thoughts, then we achieve two things:

(i) We experience a rich and healthy emotional state.

(ii) We starve the negativity.

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Therefore, considering that energy flows where attention dwells, rich thoughts equate to poor pessimism: “poor” in regards to being denied the focus.

I’m aware that the topic of positive thinking is not new. Millions of visionaries, teachers and self-development personalities have written about, and discussed the power of our thoughts—due to the complexity and depth of our negative programming. We’ve been so immensely programmed to live in illusion: worrying about things that don’t, or no longer exist: depending on other people’s stories or our past experiences to forecast the future: holding onto negative emotions from our past experiences as if they serve us: blocking the flow of life, and the power in the now.

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Whatever situation you are facing today remember that you have the power to choose which thoughts and states to focus on.

One tip is to go back to the positive state or event right before the negative one happened…the one that is currently bombarding your emotions with negativity. Then, focus on the positive state as you tap into the related positive emotions. Dive into this picture, embrace the positive states. Feel the good feelings you felt during that experience. Then anchor in these emotions by placing your tongue to the roof of your mouth. Every time you feel a negative emotion, place your tongue to the roof of your mouth for a few minutes. This should help you get in touch with the positive state that you anchored.

This process will help you remember that you are not your emotions. You are more. You can hence become a witness, which then empowers you to ease the grip that these emotions have on your feelings.

Thirsty for more? Check out my book – Do Not Force It, Tap The Good. This book shares lessons that the world can live by.

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Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor, Success Coach/Mentor

Tapthegood.com

http://www.amazon.com/not-Force-TAP-THE-GOOD/dp/1461079098

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Cell: 818-862-1182

Who is to Blame?


It’s apparent that since we are born, we are programmed to blame our challenges to our parents, teachers at school, relatives, friends, the government, God, and everything else but ourselves. Name it; we’ve been programmed to believe that someone or something out of ourselves is responsible for our failures or adversaries.

This mindset has disempowered us to take control of our lives. We consistently hope that something or someone out of us will come to our rescue. This is not to say that we don’t need our fellow humans for support or survival. The point in emphasis is that we weaken our minds by thinking that someone other than us will liberate our lives.

The important lesson that I’ve learned is that within us are the seeds of our adversaries, challenges, and disappointments, and also the source of all the solutions that we seek for. The challenge is to recognize this truth and work with it to consistently stand above all challenges, take full responsibility of our well-being, and become the authorities of our lives.

The first and most powerful technique that I discovered and use whenever life is kicking me around is to stop and breathe.  Apparently, breathing deeply and focusing on the breath, relaxes one’s mind, and brain; which then helps one to reconnect to the Kingdom of God within him or her where all solutions and ideas dwell.

The dilemma is re-programming your mind to know that you are powerful beyond power, and that the answers that you seek for are within you.

In my 8 weeks online Life Liberation, and Success Coaching Mastermind, above all benefits, you will be able to get to the root of your emotional challenges, take your power back from these negative experiences, set life, and business related power-goals, develop a winner’s mindset, and learn how to become more productive. I encourage you to check out my website – http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/ for more details.

Remember, the power is in your hands. You have the control. You have whatever it takes to liberate your life. The ball is in your hands. The decisions that you make now will determine what you will experience tomorrow.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD. MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor/Success Coach

Tapthegood.com

http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

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Do our Lives Need to Be Coached?


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The Dalai Lama once said, “the purpose of our lives is to be happy:” and for me that is the real benefit of coaching. What happiness actually means is unique to each and every one of us and more and more people are turning to a Life Coach to help them discover a great deal more happiness in their life.

The benefits you will gain from coaching include but are not limited to;

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  • Clarity about what you want, why you want it and how you can get it.

  • Bridging the gap between where you are now and where you want to be.

  • Strategies and techniques which facilitate you to reach your goal faster.

  • Overcome obstacles, low confidence and insecurities.

  • Explore and evaluate all possible options available.

  • Dedicated time, support, encouragement and motivation.

Remember, Life Coaching is an investment in yourself and it will benefit your entire life.

What I have done is made it financially affordable for those who want to access the benefits of life/business coaching but can not afford it.

Check out my limited time only offer on Groupon on this link https://www.groupon.com/deals/tap-the-good-counseling-and-success-coaching-services

Remember, nothings happens if nothing moves. You have to MOVE. 🙂

Love and Light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

Groupon link – https://www.groupon.com/deals/tap-the-good-counseling-and-success-coaching-services

4 Out-of-the-Box Tips to Become More Productive:


  1. Sell your TV

When you watch television continuously, you’re just watching other people get successful instead of embarking on projects that could help you achieve your dreams

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2. Say goodbye to the energy vampires in your life. (The negative souls who steal your enthusiasm). Clean your environment. Weed out people who are negative and those who don’t support or understand your dreams.

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3. Start your day at 5.00 am. Win the battle of the bed. Put mind over mattress. This habit alone will strengthen your willpower. By getting up early, I have been able to get a lot done in a few hours, and then take time out to do other things that nourish my wellbeing.

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4. Sign up for my complimentary Success Coaching and/or counseling session during which I will show you how to get your power back, become more productive, and most importantly, become the authority of your craft.

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I hope this has revealed a tip or two that you can use to become more productive.

Your productivity is your life made visible; protect it. 🙂

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

author@tapthegood.com

Are you Stressed Out? Think Twice!


Often we all beaker and complain about the things we don’t have. We literally forget how blessed we are until we look around us just to see how good we have it.

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  • Today if you are worried and complaining about how dull or ugly your toilet paint looks, think about those who don’t even have access to toilets.

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  • If you are worried about not having the money to take your clothes to the dry cleaners, think about those who neither have access to, nor can afford to take their clothes to a laundry mart. 

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  • If you are complaining about how hot or cold it is in your house, think about those who live on the street. 

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  • If you are stressed about your job, think about those who have no chance or even mindset to seek for employment or upgrade their lives. 

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Whatever you are worried about today, please think twice–as you also watch this video. 🙂

Remember to be grateful as you count your blessings.:)

Link to the video – https://youtu.be/PEmXZgOeuwE

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

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Five Things that Mentally and Emotionally Strong People don’t do.


1. They don’t follow the herd

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2. They don’t externalize their power

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3. They don’t play it small

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4. They don’t look for external validation to feel good about themselves.

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5. They don’t try to please everybody.

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  •  But how do we do that when we are bombarded by emotional baggage?

  •  How do we become mentally and emotionally strong when our past is haunting us?

  •  How do we stand up for ourselves with all those internalized voices telling us that we are not good enough?

  •  How do we do the best we can, with all our might, when we feel like the world has robbed us of all we have?

 Well, the answer to all the above questions is clear: “it’s by taking our power back.” How do we take our power back? –you may wonder! We take our power back by investing in our emotional, and mental liberation, and evolution.  It’s about being so tired of being tired. It’s about being sick of being sick and tired.
 You may want to check out my new on-line liberation and success coaching mastermind that starts 4/6/2015. Link is http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/
But that’s only, and only if you are ready to heal and claim your true magnificence, and then take your power back.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

Tapthegood.com

I know What you are Going Through:


6 Steps to Retrieve Sustainable Success:

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It is common that whenever we are experiencing some discomforts in our lives, we state that “we are going” through some stuff. What is so great about the previous statement are the words “going through.” This implies that we are resolving the prevailing issues and moving towards our desired futures. However, it is easier said than done. “Going through” things for some people, might mean “going through a numbing process.” And what I mean by “numbing” is when people are investing in the denial process—where our negative emotions and fears are stored in ignorance of the consequences. What is depressing about this process is that these negative emotions never go away. We have to do the work to dissolve the negative emotions, and/or negative programming before we can be able to install the good inner stuff.

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Below, are six steps that will help you start letting go of the unwanted programming in order to install new positive inner programs that will upgrade your live.

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  1. List three self-limiting beliefs that you have about yourself.

  2. List three self-limiting beliefs that you have about money, success and/or your business?

  3. List three reasons why you think these self-limiting beliefs are serving you.

  4. List five reasons why you should let go of these beliefs.

  5. Explain how you think you will feel when you let go of these beliefs.

  6. Read the answers to question 5 every morning and evening for the next 5 days.

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Remember that the mindsets that land us in the messes we find ourselves into, can never be the mindsets that get us out. We have to let go of who we are for who we want to become. We have to make the changes, or our situations will stay the same. Fortunately, we have the power of choice to tap into in order to either upgrade, or retard our lives.

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I also understand that counseling and success coaching can be expensive: Reason as to why I have put together an online Life Liberation and Success Coaching program, discounted to help as many people as possible; easy to use in the comfort of your home, and most importantly, affordable.

If you are ready to heal your life, THE TIME IS NOW. Click on the button below to access more details about the program. http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

Scroll to the end of the middle column on the page, and give yourself the permission to change your life by signing up.

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If you have questions, I am only an email away.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Trainer, S. Counselor / Certified Success Coach

www.tapthegood.com

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