How Death Affects us Beyond Dying; and How to Avoid it Before Dying.


“Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.” Norman Cousins

Death has been known as one of the scariest experiences in our lives. Most people fear it. Death is traumatizing, yet, we tend to administer the same implicit approach to many of the worldly, temporary things we found in this world, and things that we shall leave behind when we die; things that will come and go; things that live and die. This is the type of death that I discuss in this article–a death that defines and implicates the final destination to all temporary things.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t know anything on this planet with infinite attributes other than God, Allah—or whoever you refer to as your Creator. As such, we the human race have developed a profound tendency over the years to put all our bets in the situation-basket of what’s temporary. Consequently, we miss out on the infinite realm of things.

What Do I Mean By This?

For example, when we focus all our attention on something like a bill that we have to pay, a car that we have to replace or how our neighbor is doing better than we are, we are literally focusing on what’s finite. At times we engage in unhealthy competition with belief that there isn’t enough in circulation for all of us. We find ways to block, intimidate, criticize or judge those who have dreams we believe are similar to ours. Yet, we forget that we are all unique and different. We ignore the divine truth that no one will ever be or has ever been created with our blueprint. We negate the fact that we are all special and therefore whatever we create even if it might appear similar, is differentiated by our very nature.

Consequently, we miss out on the infinite intelligence that dwells within us…the source of all things.  And our limited perception is based on fear: the fear that we won’t have enough, the fear that we live in a scarce world: and the blind notion that we are in control of everything. We forget that we are supported in life by a divine being that takes care of our very bodily biology and does magical things like help us breathe as we sleep: manages the trillions of the body’s internal cellular activities that we don’t even know about.

“What’s lovely never dies, but passes onto other loveliness” – Thomas Bailey Aldrich

That’s why it is written in the bible that, “Seek first the kingdom of heaven and all the rest will fall in hand,” meaning that let’s seek to connect to the source of all things, that invisible Self that protects and takes care of our needs. Out of that mental/emotional condition, inspiration will drive us to how and where we can find the temporary things of this world. And I’m not suggesting that you ignore your bills or become irresponsible. What I’m suggesting is for us to stop killing each other and ourselves for things we found in this world. Let’s remove our grips on emotional and mental mediocrity because they don’t serve us. Let’s focus on that which is infinite within us. Let’s focus on loving each other, forgiving each other, and working on ourselves to become better people: better than whom we were yesterday. Let’s focus on tapping into the intangible infinite attributes within us: attributes like love, peace, hope, creativity and the like. Consequently, we won’t only be able to easily get the temporary world stuff but also access all the mental, emotional and spiritual resources to replace them.

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“Death leaves a headache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal” – Unknown

Remember, when you focus on what’s dying, you will never see what’s being born. Let’s become flexible, and develop faith in our creator regardless of our religious or non-religious technologies, well knowing that because this planet was built with us the human race in mind, we are always taken care of, and there’s no need to hate or kill each for what’s temporary.

Written by Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA, an author, Speaker, Spiritual Counselor, Coach. For more about her, please visit http://www.tapthegood.com. 

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What Are you Missing out in The Present Moment? (An EFT Session is included)


The wise ones advise that being in the moment is the most powerful mind tool to attain peace. Being present has many benefits including:

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1. You increase social skills because you listen and respond accordingly. You are not in a hurry to go someplace. You are here and in the now.

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2. Improved creativity.

If you write or do some other creative work you may have found that your best work flows out of you when you are not thinking that much. You just write or paint. You enter a state where things just come to you. You get a lot done without mind-interruptions.

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3. You appreciate your world more. Because you are present and able to comprehend everything going on.

4. You release stress because you are not worried about what was, or what will be. It’s all about what is.

The question is; how can one be present all the time when there is literally so much to think and/or worry about?

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In this blog, I have included a brief EFT session to help you be in the now, at the moment where all the magic is happening.

Link to EFT Session: – https://youtu.be/JtlcdQ6ko-0

Are you in need of more personalized EFT, success coaching or counseling sessions?

Contact me for a complimentary 30 minutes EFT session to deal with an issue that is bombarding your life.

Remember, nothing happens, if nothing moves.:)

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph,D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor, Success Coach/Mentor

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Do Not Underestimate Negativity:


Negativity in its true form is energy; a strong energy that holds its space firm, and consistently as long as positivity doesn’t come in to dissipate it. Furthermore, energy is never lost; which also implies that negativity moves freely and joyously in our conscious and subconscious selves preparing to create our future.  It takes on different forms to manifest in our experiences.  It is indeed a critical energetic field that should never be ignored.

Some of the outcomes of negativity include but are not limited to; dis-ease, lack and limitation, loneliness, lack of clarity and self hatred.

One thing that we all need to comprehend is that negativity doesn’t just develop unfavorable experiences by mistake, or on its own. The host normally engages in mental and/or physical activities that slowly but surely transform into sources of future encounters. The sad thing however, is that once this negativity is well nurtured and/or fed, it will continue blocking, disorganizing, reversing and limiting one who has allowed it to build a house in his/her conscious and/or subconscious.  It is a like being in form of a devil or sneaky enemy that keeps a close eye on all one is planning to do. It tends to have invisible, but significant swords, guns and machetes, I tell you. Because, just as one tries to stabilize or settle down in whatever pursuit he/she has sweated for, “Mr. Negativity” comes along and cuts off the roots of the positive experience’s full manifestation. It might come in form of a fearful thought, doubt or procrastination. Whatever way negativity crops in, it will use its full force to hold one back.

 

For instance, one may be driving for an interview and then gets a flat tire; or he/she could be rushing for that golden opportunity that he/she has been waiting for, for what seems like a century.  However as he/she pulls into the main street from his/her house to his/her destination, the car’s battery runs out, just to get stuck in the middle of the road. Moreover, a trend of similar circumstances has been bombarding his/her experiences, which has left him/her despondent and angry.

If you are reading this article and you happen to be in your thirties and above, but still hasn’t figured out your life purpose, then it is time to do a reality check. You have probably tried out so many things but everything has failed. “Why was I born?” you may have asked this question over and over again. My question is; what measures have you taken to get rid of this negativity? 

Look out for my next week’s article for some of the tools you could use to unhook yourself from NEGATIVITY, and begin living the life you are met to live.

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