Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains


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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

Click HERE to access the video recording.

If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from http://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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Tired of Being Single or Attracting the Wrong Partner? This is for you. :)


1. Are you single?
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2. Have you been attracting the same partner over and over again?
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3. Are you sick and tired of attracting the same attributes in your partners?

4. What stories are you building in your internal world?
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Dr. Jacinta Mariah
Author, Speaker, and Success Coach
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The Cons of Daddy-issues


The normal and decent way of living, is for kids to have both parents, not only nurturing, available and loving, but also openly embracing the same attributes for themselves.  As kids we tend to soak in all experiences, since at that stage we don’t have the audacity to choose what is good for our mental banks and what isn’t.

Unfortunately, these memories comfortably lodge into our unconscious minds, only to create our future experiences.

If your father was abusive, violent or walked out on you and your mom, and you happen to have witnessed it all, your unconscious mind might have held onto these experiences as reality. That’s why you may be attracting the same type of men repetitively…with attributes very similar to your father’s.

Undoubtedly, there is a part of you that misses him, longs for him and/or blames him. There are also so many other emotions that may develop as a result of such experiences. Some people feel angry, sad, and/or lonely.

Unless you forgive that part of you still holding onto your father, there is a high possibility that you won’t attract true love. And if you do, you will be so busy searching for your father in every man you meet.

In this article, I have included a video recording of me administering a brief EFT- Emotional Freedom Technique exercise that will help you get an edge off those emotions. If you can do the exercise for a couple of days, I guarantee that you will witness positive changes in your life.

link to video is http://youtu.be/H0RpxMmPxg4

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