Money-Quote of the Day


Poverty is the art of dwelling in heavens of hell.”

~ Dr. Jacent M Mpalyenkana-Murray, PhD, MBA

In the bible it is implied that the poor will not enter into the kingdom of God. In my opinion they were referring to the poor in mindset, the poor in behavior, poor self-belief and self-worth. Those who have a poor self-concept of themselves will always dwell in mental and emotional states of hell.

1. What is your money mindset?

2. What fears are holding you snapped onto scarcity, financial struggle, and money-related stress?

3. What are you doing about it?

When we believe that financial freedom will show up by just stressing about our financial struggles, we are set to dwell in heavens of hell for a really long time.

The book, Stimulate Your Money Magnetism:  Advanced EFT, and Ho’oponopono Scripts to Dissolve all Your Subconscious and Conscious Money-related Fears and Stimulate Your Money Magnetism Now, is a game changer. The content in this book is designed with a guarantee to help you release your money related fears, if you follow through the suggested exercises. The overall benefit of the book, is a realization of your path to financial freedom: and that is a given.

Get a copy of the book today, and find out yourself.

Love and light

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The Power in Immateriality – In Memory of my Father


We live in a material world, or at least need materials to facilitate our lives. Evidently materialism has its place. However, the source of materiality takes the superior position if compared to the latter. All things regardless of their nature and magnitude are rooted in immateriality, aka the invisible: and to be more specific, consciousness. To divert slightly, invisibility is the source of visibility. And sometimes, if not most, the invisible nuggets we possess are more powerful and impactful than our “visibles.”

Why am I sharing this?

Well, today is 28 years since my biological father decided to leave his body. At a very tender age, I looked at his lifeless body and felt my heart melt in tears by the burning, unending and determined pain. I was heart broken. I was confused, disappointed and afraid. I hadn’t known him long enough. I didn’t know how I was to remember him. I didn’t know what he had left for me, that I would hold onto to keep him alive in my mind, and especially in my heart. I moaned his death for years.

But today, I understand that the immaterial wealth our parents leave in us, is more important than the material they give us. I know that even if he had left for me the most expensive car on earth, it would not hold the same value, today. I have also learnt that values, skills, knowledge and wisdom, are some of the most valuable invisible nuggets that have the power to endlessly create visible things… materialism.

No material thing survives time. Time consumes everything. So, today, I sit in gratitude and honor of my father, because of the wisdom he gave me–wisdom that has stood the test of time. I remember he told me that money is important but it doesn’t buy love; forgiveness is a pathway to peace: and trusting other human beings is overrated. As I get older, these nuggets of wisdom are great additions to my personal values. They possess the potential for unlimited materialism, or wealth, in different forms. Most importantly, although I miss my father very much, what he left in me, keeps him alive in my heart. And although he is no longer visibly available for me to see, he is always alive in my mind, in my heart and in my life. He is always here with me in my very DNA: the DNA he gave me when he fathered me. And I will forever be grateful for what he left in me.

What is in this Story for you?

Below are a few of the takeaways.

  1. True wealth is rooted in the invisible world. What you have, is who you are.
  2. The most precious gifts in life, are invisible nuggets such as wisdom, knowledge, skills and personal values.
  3. Just because you don’t see it, doesn’t mean it is not there.
  4. Gratitude is like a sun: it brings warmth and light in times of sadness and darkness.
  5. We don’t die: we only leave our bodies. 🙂

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I am Quitting my Job: Weekly iV of Inspiration


It is time to quit

Why would I quit my job? You might wonder. Now, the job I am quitting immediately is judging people. It has cost me so much more than what I have put in. And I am sure you can relate. 

Let me explain

Judging, begins by observing the subject, relating to it by drawing information from your subconscious mind that recognizes the subject. Next, you have to perceive, define and then conclude on the subject. And the conclusion is what we normally refer to as judging.

What a waste of mental and emotional resources to come up with a judgement about someone! Although the process is normally done in a matter of seconds or minutes, it is still a hell of a long process. And most importantly, you can never be certain about the content of a book by just looking at its cover.

When we judge other people or make conclusions about their behavior, we consider the behavior as the only subject to perceive. However, behavior is a projection of a lot more complex information in the person than the behavior itself, Behavior is just an output. There is more to it, than it is. There is more to the person than their behavior. And there is more about that person than who they think they are. That is why I have come to a conclusion that judging others is delusional especially because you are making conclusions based on very limited information about the subject.

So, what is the option to judging? 

Well, people will reveal what is inside their minds through their behavior. However, let’s consider a few other details before we accept this suggestion as the truth.

Now, let’s imagine you go to the market to buy bananas. You will only buy the bananas that you like, right? You won’t go around the banana stall judging each of the banana batches. You might look around, pick up a few batches until you find the one you like. But your evaluations will not stick in your mind. You won’t drive home thinking about how horrible the other banana batches were. For the most part, you won’t even think about the bananas you bought. Likewise, you can relate to someone, and if their behavior triggers a negative emotion, memory or feeling within you, observe how you got to that mental/emotional state. Is this person’s behavior repetitive? Are you just having a bad day and this person just happened to be in your presence at the wrong time? As a side note, remember when someone insults you, it is just a projection of their misery. And if you get insulted, it is a projection of your insecurities.

When someone insults you, it is just a projection of their misery. And if you get insulted, it is a projection of your insecurities.” ~ Dr Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray

Whatever your reasons are, avoid jumping to conclusions about the person. Perceive and conclude on the behavior, and then act accordingly, but not on the person. Trust me, that will save you a lot of emotional turmoil. Remember it is easier to deal with actions than with people. If you just judge their behavior as action, all you have to do is examine how it made you feel, release the feelings and let it remain in the past where it belongs. Move on.

That’s the job I am quitting. I am done working as a self-employed, underpaid and quack judge, lol. I am not good at it. It is so tiring to judge people based on their behavior. People are more than their behavior. People are always changing. My judgements are neither the entire truth, nor current. Besides, it is just too much emotional work. I have decided to focus on my business, which is me, how I feel and my mindset. 

What about you? Please share your thoughts.

Love and light

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The Teacher Called, Time


What time is it wherever you are?

You don’t need to answer that question, it is just my way of soliciting your attention.

Now that I have your attention, I just wanna share something about me. Tomorrow is my birthday. And I won’t share my age because I wanna save you from information about stuff that won’t benefit you in any way. Also, I have managed to convince myself that age is just a number. And although this doesn’t stop the changes in my body from happening, over the years, I have learned that how I feel is my choice.

What is Time?

Well, most believe time is the measure of the earth’s distance and space around the sun. And others are convinced that time is a man made illusion. I won’t take sides because I am not an expert in time, but I will concur with the precept that man might have invented time. Right now in Los Angeles, California, it is about 4.04p.m as I write this article. In New York, the time is 3 hours ahead. Somewhere in the world, it is 12 hours earlier or later than 4.04p.m. If man isn’t responsible for creating these differences in time, then who is?

Therefore, I have concluded that all time really is, is change. Time represents the constant change in the universe and everything in it. And since everything is always changing, then change is the only norm. Therefore, the first lesson that time teaches us is that it is the only norm.

Time is a projection of change. ~ Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray

Although intangible, time consumes everything, or rather, everything is consumed in it. Time leaves no stone unturned. Time teaches us not to take things for granted. Time consoles us by reminding us that nothing lasts for ever; and that everything that comes must go. In, and with time, there are opportunities to plan, execute set goals, look back to re-evaluate, hope for better experiences, and heal old wounds…physically and emotionally. Time reveals secrets.

Time is a grand revealer. ~ Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

Time also shows us that when we waste our attention by focusing on our negative past experiences, the flow of life, won’t stop to wait for us. If we spend our time indulging in negative encounters, or relating with people who trigger feelings of hatred or sadness in us, time won’t rewind itself back to an earlier slot, in order to gain us more of itself so that we can use it wisely. Time waits for no one. And the truth about time is that you can waste it. Rather you waste your attention on things that don’t progress you. Time can’t be wasted because it is not a thing.

Time propels us to keep moving forward, and progressing. Time is the best revenge, because situations and people change in, and because of it. If there were no time, there would be no change, Everything would be static and dormant. Therefore, I have concluded that time is a tool that supports our expressions in life. Time is an intelligent teacher, who especially shows us that we are supreme to it. We can not be consumed by it. We are in charge. And we can use it as we please. Yes, our bodies can be consumed by time, but we are the never changing reality that observes it. And when we get still and let time and everything moving in it play without our engagement, God is revealed.

What has time revealed to you? How do you use your time?

Love and light

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Inspirational of the Day


If you have clicked on this article, I’m certain you are ready to be inspired. However, I have nothing new to tell you today.

I came here to be inspired, myself, and I am doing this by writing this short article. I am doing what I love to do and as I do it, I feel inspired and relaxed.

What’s the point of me sharing? You may ask.

Over the years I have learned that if nothing in the external world is inspiring you, go within and search for what you already have. Search for something that you love to do, that also helps others. It could be a hobby, such as painting. You could paint with the intent to donate the painting. Whatever it is that you love doing, has potential to inspire others. As long as it is not stealing or self-destructing. I am referring to a positive hobby or skill. Just choose one of the many you have, and determine how you can use it to help someone. That’s how I know that I can’t tell you anything new that you don’t already have or know.

Giving back, even in the slightest way, is not only rewarding, but also inspiring for the giver. As you give, you start realizing that you have an abundance of resources within you.

So the question is, what is a hobby or skill that you love doing, and also believe it can inspire someone ?

Love and light.

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HEALING & COUNSELING SESSION |CLEAR THE RESISTANCE TO HEALING FROM YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS |TAPTHEGOOD.COM


When we experience negative conditions for extended periods of time, our psychological minds accept the conditions as the truth. When we decide to release these conditions from our subconscious minds where they log as prompters upon which we project the world, we meet resistance. Consequently, we self-sabotage; and this is inevitable until we release it.

Therefore, the first step towards liberating our subconscious minds from negative prompters is to denounce and release all resistance to healing. In this session, you will denounce, release, and take your power back from all resistance to healing that could be logging in your subconscious mind and in all energies and systems in your body.

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How Are You Projecting Your Inner Struggles?


Have you ever felt so angry that everything and everyone made you angrier?

Would you say that these things or people were responsible for your emotions?

Have you ever met someone so mean, that “they made medicine seem weak?” ~ Mohammad Ali.

Would you really blame yourself for the way they felt?

Well, I have. And that’s before I understood that I am in control of my emotions. And that I was the lord of my inner world. It was up to me to manage my inner world. And every time I forget that I am in charge, I get hurt.

What about you? What is your story?

Well, below are real reviews/complaints from customers received by Thomas Cook Vacations. It might be funny but take time to examine how we let the egoistical mind paint us insane.

1. “They should not allow topless sunbathing on the beach. It was very distracting for my husband who just wanted to relax.”


2. “On my holiday to Goa in India, I was disgusted to find that almost every restaurant served curry. I don’t like spicy food.”

3. “We went on holiday to Spain and had a problem with the taxi drivers as they were all Spanish.”

4. “We booked an excursion to a water park but no-one told us we had to bring our own swimsuits and towels. We assumed it would be included in the price.”

5. “The beach was too sandy. We had to clean everything when we returned to our room.”

6. “We found the sand was not like the sand in the brochure. Your brochure shows the sand as white but it was more yellow.”

7. “It’s lazy of the local shopkeepers in Puerto Vallartato close in the afternoons. I often needed to buy things during ‘siesta’ time — this should be banned.”

8. “No-one told us there would be fish in the water. The children were scared.”

9. “Although the brochure said that there was a fully equipped kitchen, there was no egg-slicer in the drawers.”

10. “I think it should be explained in the brochure that the local convenience store does not sell proper biscuits like custard creams or ginger nuts.”

11. “The roads were uneven and bumpy, so we could not read the local guide book during the bus ride to the resort. Because of this, we were unaware of many things that would have made our holiday more fun.”

12. “It took us nine hours to fly home from Jamaica to England. It took the Americans only three hours to get home. This seems unfair.”

13. “I compared the size of our one-bedroom suite to our friends’ three-bedroom and ours was significantly smaller.”

14. “The brochure stated: ‘No hairdressers at the resort.’ We’re trainee hairdressers and we think they knew and made us wait longer for service.”

15. “When we were in Spain, there were too many Spanish people there. The receptionist spoke Spanish, the food was Spanish. No one told us that there would be so many foreigners.”

16. “We had to line up outside to catch the boat and there was no air-conditioning.”

17. “It is your duty as a tour operator to advise us of noisy or unruly guests before we travel.” 18. “I was bitten by a mosquito. The brochure did not mention mosquitoes.”

19. “My fiancée and I requested twin-beds when we booked, but instead we were placed in a room with a king bed. We now hold you responsible and want to be re-reimbursed for the fact that I became pregnant. This would not have happened if you had put us in the room that we booked.”

Source: Peter Dickinson

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Moment of Inspiration: What to do When Feeling Confused


So, there you are feeling confused and probably uninspired. You might feel as if you are stuck in a mental or emotional box and have no clue about how to get out or move on. It could be that you have to make a decision and you don’t know the right decision to make. So, what do you do? How do you snap out of it?

The Solution:

Close right eyes and look for the confusion in your mind. Find out what it looks like, its shape, color, and whether it is mobile or static. How far is this confusion from you?

If you did the exercise right you will discover that whatever you came up with to represent the confusion was just your imagination. You imagined it into existence. You made it up. If you are lucky and came up with nothing, then you also discovered that confusion is just a thought–a believed thought that you have decided to title, confusion. Just because you don’t know what to do yet, doesn’t brand you confused.

Do not believe your thoughts. Observe the “confusion” as something separate from you. Know that it is not you. And you don’t owe it your attention. Don’t fight to let it go. Let it be but deny it your perception or interpretation; just let it float in your consciousness and if you stand your ground without mentally moving to join it, it will dissolve into obvium.

Remember that you are the one who is always aware of things, situations and thoughts. And you can remain as the awareness.

Love and light

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Are You affected by The Mind-Kombucha Syndrome?


What is kombucha?

Kombucha is a drink made out of some kind of live amoeba that feeds on sugar, green tea and water. Once the amoeba grows, you can remove some of it and place it in another container, add sugar, green tea and water and securely seal in a dark cool place for fermentation. Within a few weeks, it will be ready to drink. You can basically use one amoeba to produce tens more, as long as you keep it securely sealed in a cool, dark place during the few weeks or fermentation. .

This drink is a healthy substitute for probiotics.

Now, what has kombucha got to do with the mind?

The process of growth and accumulation for kombucha is similar to that of our minds. When we accept negative thoughts, emotions and memories to dwell within us for long periods of time, and especially feed them with our attention, they accumulate and recreate themselves into other negative states. For instance, if you have been holding onto a negative memory for a long period of time, and continue to give it your attention, it will create other negative habits, states and behavior, such as anger, resentment and the like. So, the more you hold onto these negative emotions and memories, the more they ferment and create more of themselves in different forms. The question then is, what are you holding onto that no longer serves you? What are you ready to let go? What will it take for you to decide to let go of all negative memories that no longer serve you?

As a spiritual counselor, I have witnessed some clients “housing” so much anger and deceit in their minds, to the extent that they no longer recognize the difference between themselves and these emotions/memories.

Therefore, as this year comes to an end, let’s take some time to ourselves to recognize the negative in our inner world and then do whatever it takes to let it go. Sometimes, letting go is as easy as taking a deep focused breath.

I also have a few resources that can help you. Visit my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/user/MsJacent for hundreds of free counseling, and transformational coaching videos. Or simply search for Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana-Murray on YouTube.

In the meantime, happy holidays.

Love and light

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Forgive Them – A Powerful Inspirational and Empowering Message


“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”

— Lewis B. Smedes

Forgive them 1

Forgive them, all of them so that you can create more positive emotional and mental states.

This is a short empowerment audio. If you listen with an open mind, you will get started on your forgiving journey.

 

Love and light

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https://www.amazon.com/193-Serenity-Quotes-Inspirational-Empowering/dp/1692820494/