Do not Divide Your Attention From God/Universe


I personally consider the Bible a psychological book intended to guide us through life. The bible has so much wisdom, which when interpreted from a psychological point of view, can change your relationship with life, and all your experiences. Every story in the bible has two sides to it. There is an esoteric and exoteric interpretation for every story in the bible. That’s why it is considered a double edged sword.
 

A friend recently sent me this message on WhatsApp and I thought it was really powerful. So, I am sharing this with you

When *GOD* wanted to create *fish*, he spoke to the *sea*.

When *GOD* wanted to create *trees*, He spoke to the *earth*.

But when *GOD* wanted to create *man*, He turned to *HIMSELF*. Thus *GOD* said: *”Let us make man in our image and likeness”*.’

Note: If you get a *fish out of the water, it will die*; and when *you remove a tree from the ground, it also dies*. Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD, the Universe, or that divine power, he dies*. *GOD* is our *natural environment*. We were created to live in *HIS presence*.  God’s presence is our presence. We must be connected with *Him* because only with *Him* does life exist. We must glue our attention on God, on the universe, on the unconditional love in our hearts.


Let’s stay in oneness with GOD. Let us remember that water without fish is still water, but a fish without water is dead. The soil without the tree is still soil, but the tree without soil is nothing. God without man is still God, but  man without GOD is literally dead in spirit.

If you look closer, you will discover that there is actually no separation between you and God. God is all there is. Man is God asleep to himself, and God is man awake.

Just some thoughts to ponder.

Love and light

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Are You Afraid to Walk Away?


“You either live in unconditional love or just survive in delusional baseless fear.” ~ Jacent Mpalyenkana

When we dwell in unconditional love, we live: meaning that when unconditional love is our inspiration of being and doing, we are more connected to life and less influenced by fear, which is delivered by the egoistical delusional mind. When love is our inspiration, we base our decisions and actions on love. We go with the flow. We allow everything to come and go, and attach to nothing. We trust in divine wisdom within us. We have confidence that we are unshockable by conditions. We know that we are always supported, protected and loved beyond conditions.

You may demand to know, love for what, or who? The love I am attributing to is the love for your SELF. And by SELF, I am not referring to your body, identity, what you have or want. I am referring to you, the one looking behind those beautiful eyes: the shapeless, massless, undefinable, infinite you.

The next question then is, do you love your “SELF”? Which leads to other questions; who are you? How can you love someone or something you do not know? For now, just know that you are not your identity. You are not your body or race. You are “something” that can not be known by the mind. “Something” is in quotes because you are not a thing. You are of the likeness of God. So, when your inspirations are founded on unconditional love, they are anchored in God. And in God, you are always led to your next course of action. And as you know, God is all knowing, all healing, all loving, all satisfying and always the same.

I am assuming that you also know that God is not this huge guy with a beard in the sky. God is in you, expressing as you. With these facts you realize that when you know who or what you truly are, you live fully. However, when you believe that you are your body, or your identity, the ego becomes your master. There is no doubt that fear will often show up to inspire your decisions and actions. And with that inspiration, you will always lose out on what you truly want. You will often end up settling for less of what you want. You will continue relating with people who promote the ego’s works—and these include everything negative that you can imagine. It becomes hard to let go of whatever doesn’t really serve you especially when you are afraid that you cannot replace what you are holding onto with something or someone better. When you believe that all you are is your body or identity, you will live a very restricted, fearful delusional life.

So, are you afraid to walk away? Are you afraid to let go of that job, partner, relative just because you believe they can not be replaced? What is holding you back from walking away from that pain? Do you know your power? Because if you are of the likeness of God, then you have infinite power, solutions, wisdom, and eternal goodness within you, as you.

Solution: Remember who you are. Wake up.

Love and light

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Who are You to Yourself?


In the Book of Numbers you will read, “In that day there were giants in the land; and we were in our own sight as grasshoppers. And we were in their sight as grasshoppers.” This doesn’t mean a time in the past when man had the stature of giants. It means that if today your conditions seem to have attained the appearance of giants (such as unemployment, loneliness and all other things that seem to threaten you) those are the giants that make you feel yourself to be a grasshopper. But you are told in the Verse, you were first, in your own sight a grasshopper and because of this you were to the giants, a grasshopper. In other words, you can only be to others what you are first to yourself. If you believe that your problems are gigantic to you, then that is exactly how you will experience them. If you believe that you are a giant to your problems, they will metaphysically take on the sense of grasshoppers.

There is also more to experience than what you believe yourself to be. Sometimes you could religiously believe to be something, but if there’s any part of you that is in conflict with your belief, you will not project the belief in its virgin sense.

So, during this “worldly” season of love, aka Valentines, if you are searching for love , love yourself abundantly, be a loving nonjudgmental person to yourself, and the same will be reflected in your experiences. Go further into identifying all negative beliefs you have about your identity, and find a way to release them from your subconscious. Take your permission back from whatever negative prompters you gave it to–to manifest as loneliness or loveless-ness. Release the need for love and instead feel the love that you are already are. Love yourself to the extent of being 100% honest with yourself. Identify what you need to let go, who you need to forgive, the guilt you have to release, and everything else that doesn’t represent the presence of God, the presence of good, within you.

If you want to take it a notch further, get this BOOK and command your God-sense to set you free from all bondage.

Love and light

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Do You Really Love Yourself?


“Do you really love yourself?” asked my mother a few months ago. “Of course I do. How can you even ask such a question?” I responded. However, while alone I re-evaluated her question. Did I really truly love myself?

She asked me that question because I was complaining about a racism experience I had gone through. She urged me to focus on what was important…myself. But I didn’t really get it. I felt the need to blame the people who had racially harassed me. I felt entitled to continue pointing out the wrong they had done. And although what they had done wasn’t positive, I was doing more harm to myself. I was so focused on what was wrong, what had happened in the past and how bad these people had been to me. I put my attention on what hadn’t worked and continued to re-live it even when it had happened in the past. I hurt every day. I was literally carrying emotional baggage that was weighing me down. It struck me then that I wasn’t loving myself.

So, what negative experiences/stories are you carrying around? Are you 100% focused on yourself, or you are so busy focusing on your past ? What do you focus on most of the day? What do you think about? Are your thoughts energizing or weakening? When is the last time you did something good for yourself without feeling guilty? And I am not referring to doing something nice to your car or house, impressing your boss or loved ones.

I am referring to more intimate things such as, taking a nap, listening to your favorite music without doing anything else, stretching, doing yoga, eating right, drinking 8 glasses of water daily, meditating, going for a walk, going for a random ride, closing your eyes and doing nothing, forgiving yourself and others, having a long bath, taking time to scrub your body with a beautiful body scrub (whether you are man or woman), reading a self-help book, focusing on finding out who is the one behind those beautiful eyes of yours.

Do you really love yourself? What do you allow into your mind? Who do you allow into your space? What are your inner conversations about yourself? How do you feel about yourself?

Don’t wait for Valentine’s day to love yourself, express this love to others or long to attract love. When you love yourself unconditionally and consistently, you never have to search or expect others to love you. You will know once and for all that you are enough. And most importantly, with unconditional self-love you will project the same in your experiences.

Love and light

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Most Powerful chant & Meditation For Oneness | Dissolve All Evil |tapthegood.com


Chanting the “references” to God is certain way of focusing on “Him.” As you listen to this chant or listen, on a daily basis, you will start witnessing a blissful spaciousness, which will manifest into a sense of oneness with God, peace, certainty about life and protection.

Remember that I am, is the name of God. I am, comes before anything. You are, before anything else is. God is, before you are. So, chanting I am, is getting back to your God nature.

I am, is non-dual. It is pure awareness, and it stands on its own. So, it dissolves all illusion and with repetition and persistence, you let go of who you are not.

Listen to this recording, everyday.

Love and light

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Everything Changes: Take Heart (A Spoken Word to Inspire)


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Change is life and life is change. Everything changes because everything seen and felt is temporary. Now becomes later and later becomes history. Today becomes yesterday. Night breaks into day, and a dark night is soon embraced by trillions of stars in the sky. That’s why weather is seasonal, it changes. 

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Everything that has a beginning has an end because that’s the law of nature. Nothing lasts forever unless it’s not that thing. There is no problem that doesn’t resolve, and no obstacle that doesn’t end. There’s no conflict can’t be resolved, and no mind that can not change. There’s no heart that can not heal, and no situation stays the same. There’s no experience that’s permanent except those we continue to perceive as so. Every occurrence is subjected to the law of polarity. With every action, there’s an equal and opposite reaction. 

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On the other side of prison is freedom. With stuck-ness comes clarity. At the end of all pain is bliss. To know stress, you must know peace. At any given time, there’s always a part of you that’s not experiencing pain or struggle: a part where goodness and bliss externally dwell. There are no emotions that exist without their opposites. The law of polarity is a law of life. So, whatever happens in life has its opposite dwelling at the other end. 

Regardless of any story or reason supporting any condition, change, will soon transform it. With or without our intervention, time takes care of all things. If you are bombarded by struggles, you can’t seem to change, step aside and let them lead their natural course.

Trust what’s permanent about life, about you. Trust that God within you is all that’s permanent and infinite. Know that God is all knowing, all powerful, all wisdom, all kindness and God is all there really is. Be still and connect to that Divine spark within you…God. Let go and let this Divine intelligence also known as God take over. Have faith that change is natural. Change is part of creation. And the Creator “Himself/Herself” dwells within you as you. Repeat again and, again: “Because God dwells within me, I am light. I am love. I am loved. I am led. I am protected. I am supposed to be here. I am taken care of. I am well, all is well. I am.” 

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7 Steps to Un-hack the Brain From Illusion


What would you refer to as an illusion?

In my opinion an illusion is a false impression, a lie, a misinterpretation of something that’s perceived as something else. When I think about my mind and brain, illusions seem to happen more often than not especially when I’m everywhere else but in the present moment. Sometimes I come up with inner-stories to support situations, only to find out later that my thoughts were delusional—lies that only entertained my mind with negativity. With time, this has helped me understand that thoughts can manipulate our brains to develop mental routines that at times do not serve our well-being.

“Thoughts can manipulate our brains to develop mental routines that at times do not serve our well-being.”

The point is, the brain uses about 20% of the body’s total energy—and that’s a lot of energy. For that very reason the brain attempts, if we let it, to keep us protected and safe as it saves its energy. This can also imply that the brain resists change. So, if we get into a routine, the brain holds onto that routine whether it serves us or not. That’s why we resist change. That’s why routine is easier than exploration or adventure, especially if that’s what one has fed their brain with for a while.

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“The good news is that since we are not our brains, we can control, retrain, redirect and refocus it to snap out of the routines that no longer serve us.”

In this article, I share my experience on how the brain gets into a negative inward spiral—the illusion, and then share 7 steps on how we can un-hack the brain from this illusion.

Background:

Let’s imagine that something unfavorable happens in your experience. You start thinking about the event, and then develop feelings about it. Normally these are feeling of anger, disappointment, sadness, rage, bitterness or the like.

As you dwell more on the event, the brain begins taking note of the related frequencies that correspond to your emotions. Then, the brain starts recruiting similar events from your memory or environment. This is when you start thinking about things that went wrong in the past and how horrible they made you feel; plus the possibility of these events re-occurring in the future. Before you know it, the brain starts identifying triggers in your environment. And this is when you embark on noticing people or situations that accumulate negative feelings in you. One thing leads to another, and you find your mind trapped in a negative thinking spiral. If you don’t snap out of it, the brain turns this mental behavior into a routine. Then, you become a prominent negative thinker. What do you do?

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The 7 Steps to Un-hack the Brain From Illusion:

  1. Check in With Your Feelings.

If you feel stressed, bitter or any other negative emotions, know that the brain is up to something negative. Remember, our feelings are the thermometers of our thoughts. If you are experiencing negative emotions chances are that you are thinking about negative situations.

  1. Become a Witness of These Thoughts.

Once you realize that you are going into a negative thinking spiral, use your mind to become a witness of these thoughts. In your mind’s eye watch the thoughts as they come and go. Don’t attach to them.

  1. Tell Your Brain to Stop Focusing on The Negative

Remember that you are more than your brain. You own the brain, it doesn’t own you: so you can command it to do as you please.

  1. Breathe in deeply, as you imagine that your in-breath is bringing in divine light at a 360 degrees angle. Imagine being infused with divine healing light. Let this light penetrate every inch of your being, and then outflow to fill your aura and space where you are seated. Keep breathing deeply for about 10 minutes. This technique will help you get your mind out of the negative spiral.
  2. Block The Trigger Portals.

For instance, if watching negative news on television triggers negative emotions in you, don’t watch television for awhile until you are in control of your emotions. In any case, you shouldn’t be watching negative news. It’s bad for the mind.  🙂

  1. Look at Your “Desire list.”

This is a list you make for everything you want. You keep adding items or experiences that you want or desire as they pop up in your mind. Then start searching for their cost and including it on the list. This will help you get busy dwelling on what you want, whether you have the money or not. If you don’t have a “Desire list” it is time for you to create one.

  1. Stand Under a Shower.

Stand under the shower and let the water run down on you. Stay in the shower for at least 5 minutes as you breathe deeply. Repeat mentally, “Release, release, release” and imagine all the negativity and unwanted energy leaving your body, mind and spirit. Also, imagine that your brain is being washed, cleansed, renewed and purified.

Conclusion:

Remember that we are more than our bodies plus all its organs. We have the power to regulate our minds and brains, and tell them what they should dwell on. We are in control of our emotions. We are divine instructions created in the very image of God—meaning that we can create better experiences for our lives if we choose to.

Check out this meditation to start your day on a positive mood – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWBksZzV9UM

 

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Have Faith – Based on a Powerful Inspirational Story – Audio Recording


In this week’s inspirational blog, I share a story about having faith. Faith, in my opinion is that consistent profound, soothing inner state, that convinces us that everything will be okay. We all need faith to inspire our confidence and help us push forward regardless of the obstacles that we may be facing.

In this audio recording, I share the story. Please send the audio link to anyone who might need it.

Link to audio – https://youtu.be/ABGBurvxmvw

In the interim, I’m sending you God’s love and light.

Want to read a good book that will inspire fear to take a hike out of your system? Check out my book – Do Not Force it, Tap The Good: How to Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on Your Terms.

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**Inspirational story borrowed from http://www.inspire21.com

Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PH.D., MBA, is a Spiritual Counselor, transformational coach, Author, and Professional Speaker. To learn more about her, please visit her website at http://www.tapthegood.com

Who is to Blame?


It’s apparent that since we are born, we are programmed to blame our challenges to our parents, teachers at school, relatives, friends, the government, God, and everything else but ourselves. Name it; we’ve been programmed to believe that someone or something out of ourselves is responsible for our failures or adversaries.

This mindset has disempowered us to take control of our lives. We consistently hope that something or someone out of us will come to our rescue. This is not to say that we don’t need our fellow humans for support or survival. The point in emphasis is that we weaken our minds by thinking that someone other than us will liberate our lives.

The important lesson that I’ve learned is that within us are the seeds of our adversaries, challenges, and disappointments, and also the source of all the solutions that we seek for. The challenge is to recognize this truth and work with it to consistently stand above all challenges, take full responsibility of our well-being, and become the authorities of our lives.

The first and most powerful technique that I discovered and use whenever life is kicking me around is to stop and breathe.  Apparently, breathing deeply and focusing on the breath, relaxes one’s mind, and brain; which then helps one to reconnect to the Kingdom of God within him or her where all solutions and ideas dwell.

The dilemma is re-programming your mind to know that you are powerful beyond power, and that the answers that you seek for are within you.

In my 8 weeks online Life Liberation, and Success Coaching Mastermind, above all benefits, you will be able to get to the root of your emotional challenges, take your power back from these negative experiences, set life, and business related power-goals, develop a winner’s mindset, and learn how to become more productive. I encourage you to check out my website – http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/ for more details.

Remember, the power is in your hands. You have the control. You have whatever it takes to liberate your life. The ball is in your hands. The decisions that you make now will determine what you will experience tomorrow.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PhD. MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor/Success Coach

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You Are Not Different From a Rainbow:


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The rainbow is one of the most splendid creations of all times. Cultures all over the world have elicited different symbolisms from its occurrence. In The Bible, it is indicated as a symbol of God’s intention to purify the world. In most African cultures, it is a sign of deliverance from trouble. Other cultures equate it to a new beginning, hope, and wealth. The argument is that none of this magical finery is forced to occur or even maintain its form. If the right circumstances are not met, by the sun shining onto droplets of moisture in the earth’s atmosphere, the multicolored arc will not manifest.

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Likewise, if we want to manifest a better life, we have to meet the equivalent emotional, mental, spiritual and practical conditions. We have to redesign our internal representations, and mindsets to reflect on what we want mirrored in our experiences.

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We have to let go of the old mind programming that doesn’t serve us, and install now beliefs and thought processes that are in congruence with what we want: and this is actually when we fulfill the necessary conditions to manifest good experiences.

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If you want to learn more, Do not Force It, Tap The Good, is a book that explains in detail how to tap into our infinite potential, take our power back from negative prompters, and then meet the conditions to become the authorities of our crafts.

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Where do you find this book? Amazon, Kindle, and www.tapthegood.com

Love and light.

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Author, Counselor, Success Coach / Mentor

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