How Death Affects us Beyond Dying; and How to Avoid it Before Dying.


“Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.” Norman Cousins

Death has been known as one of the scariest experiences in our lives. Most people fear it. Death is traumatizing, yet, we tend to administer the same implicit approach to many of the worldly, temporary things we found in this world, and things that we shall leave behind when we die; things that will come and go; things that live and die. This is the type of death that I discuss in this article–a death that defines and implicates the final destination to all temporary things.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t know anything on this planet with infinite attributes other than God, Allah—or whoever you refer to as your Creator. As such, we the human race have developed a profound tendency over the years to put all our bets in the situation-basket of what’s temporary. Consequently, we miss out on the infinite realm of things.

What Do I Mean By This?

For example, when we focus all our attention on something like a bill that we have to pay, a car that we have to replace or how our neighbor is doing better than we are, we are literally focusing on what’s finite. At times we engage in unhealthy competition with belief that there isn’t enough in circulation for all of us. We find ways to block, intimidate, criticize or judge those who have dreams we believe are similar to ours. Yet, we forget that we are all unique and different. We ignore the divine truth that no one will ever be or has ever been created with our blueprint. We negate the fact that we are all special and therefore whatever we create even if it might appear similar, is differentiated by our very nature.

Consequently, we miss out on the infinite intelligence that dwells within us…the source of all things.  And our limited perception is based on fear: the fear that we won’t have enough, the fear that we live in a scarce world: and the blind notion that we are in control of everything. We forget that we are supported in life by a divine being that takes care of our very bodily biology and does magical things like help us breathe as we sleep: manages the trillions of the body’s internal cellular activities that we don’t even know about.

“What’s lovely never dies, but passes onto other loveliness” – Thomas Bailey Aldrich

That’s why it is written in the bible that, “Seek first the kingdom of heaven and all the rest will fall in hand,” meaning that let’s seek to connect to the source of all things, that invisible Self that protects and takes care of our needs. Out of that mental/emotional condition, inspiration will drive us to how and where we can find the temporary things of this world. And I’m not suggesting that you ignore your bills or become irresponsible. What I’m suggesting is for us to stop killing each other and ourselves for things we found in this world. Let’s remove our grips on emotional and mental mediocrity because they don’t serve us. Let’s focus on that which is infinite within us. Let’s focus on loving each other, forgiving each other, and working on ourselves to become better people: better than whom we were yesterday. Let’s focus on tapping into the intangible infinite attributes within us: attributes like love, peace, hope, creativity and the like. Consequently, we won’t only be able to easily get the temporary world stuff but also access all the mental, emotional and spiritual resources to replace them.

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“Death leaves a headache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal” – Unknown

Remember, when you focus on what’s dying, you will never see what’s being born. Let’s become flexible, and develop faith in our creator regardless of our religious or non-religious technologies, well knowing that because this planet was built with us the human race in mind, we are always taken care of, and there’s no need to hate or kill each for what’s temporary.

Written by Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA, an author, Speaker, Spiritual Counselor, Coach. For more about her, please visit http://www.tapthegood.com. 

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Have Faith – Based on a Powerful Inspirational Story – Audio Recording


In this week’s inspirational blog, I share a story about having faith. Faith, in my opinion is that consistent profound, soothing inner state, that convinces us that everything will be okay. We all need faith to inspire our confidence and help us push forward regardless of the obstacles that we may be facing.

In this audio recording, I share the story. Please send the audio link to anyone who might need it.

Link to audio – https://youtu.be/ABGBurvxmvw

In the interim, I’m sending you God’s love and light.

Want to read a good book that will inspire fear to take a hike out of your system? Check out my book – Do Not Force it, Tap The Good: How to Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on Your Terms.

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**Inspirational story borrowed from http://www.inspire21.com

Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PH.D., MBA, is a Spiritual Counselor, transformational coach, Author, and Professional Speaker. To learn more about her, please visit her website at http://www.tapthegood.com

Grounding is the Answer!


floralearthIf you are like me you have labored in the fields of self-improvement for a long time; yet, that illusive, permanent happiness, peace and prosperity remain elusive.

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With that in mind, we begin the destination-less match on the treadmill to nowhere. However, in spite of the match, or even the robust jog, regardless of how fast we run, or for how long, the distance to our “happiness destination” remains the same. For this very reason, I’m enthused to ask a simple question: Who is it that we are trying so desperately to improve?

May I therefore suggest that the “who” whose life we are trying to repair, does not actually exist outside of a story that was imposed upon us a long, long time ago? May I be so impudent to suggest that we are attempting to make an imaginary person happy? And…may I also suggest that this is an impossible task to take?

Please remember; we cannot improve the lot of a story book character. But we can put down the book and notice that the one reading is not actually in the story. Let’s step off the treadmill and ground ourselves onto solid ground–which is the only answer to finding our true selves. 

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Do not Force It, Tap the Good is a  about with philosophical and spiritual tools and techniques that have been proven to ground others. 

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Love and light

Jacinta Mariah, Ph.D.

http://www.tapthegood.com

Are you FREE??? – Introducing the 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp at 50% for a limited time only:


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“Are you free?” is a mind-blogging question that my grandmother often asked me in my teenage years. Then, I always looked at her like she was crazy, because I had long before concluded that she was a strange one. My grandmother, who unfortunately passed away on December 27, 2011, (seems like yesterday), was a Spiritual Healer, Spiritual Chiropractor, and an incredible Master Herbalist-with a gift that was passed down from a long, and profound family lineage.

Before she passed away, I got a chance to ask her about the implications of this question. She explained that freedom is the ability to see, feel, sense, touch, think, intuit, sleep, and make decisions based on one’s core being. She further narrated that as soon as you are born into this world, you are automatically branded and programmed by your immediate loved ones, society and the environment. From that moment forth, you see the world, not based on your experiences and convictions, but on people who teach you their own way of living. Although this changes as you grow older, and not all these programs limit your evolution, there is a big part of you that gets jailed up by representations and convictions that are not your own. So-when you find yourself blocked and stuck as an adult; you have to go back to your roots, get in contact with your spirit, unconscious mind and ask them what doesn’t belong to you; what could be limiting your evolution; and how you can liberate yourself in order to experience a more fulfilling life.

Based on this knowledge, my own research, experience as a spiritual healer, qualifications are an Advanced Emotional Freedom Technician, Neuro-linguistic Programmer, and Ho’oponopono-ist, I recently complied and recorded a revolutionary healing program titled – The 14 Days Love liberation Book Camp, that tackles all energetic, mental, psychological, emotional and spiritual parts of one, in order to identify any blockages that could be affecting their free, and full evolution.

This program – The 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp, will heal one from the cellular level, cleanse the soul and spirit, reprogram the subconscious mind, clean and tune up the chakras, deal with childhood memories, daddy issues, karmic codes, fear-to mention but a few.

Until June 6, 2013, the program will be discounted at 50%, offering it an incredible amount of just of $29.99.

Remember; Information is nothing until employed and enthusiastically infused into one’s being.  Go get your copy today from www.tapthegood.com.

Link to program Trailer – http://youtu.be/1fkPwOZgSmc – Pls go check it out.

 

 

Introducing the 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp


For the last couple of months, I have been researching, and working on The 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp-Program. Finally, the project has come to life. This program is intended to compliment my new self-help book, based on intensive research, and titled – Love, Men, and Money.

The 14 days Love Liberation Boot Camp is an intensive program that is designed to heal one from the cellular level. This program’s objective is to heal one’s mental, emotional and energetic bodies from the cellular level. The program embraces all the major issues that could be blocking one from manifesting love-amidst other good things-in their lives. The beauty of the program is that, although it’s designed to heal and liberate one in order to attract true love in their life, it will free one from all other karmic codes and contracts, childhood memories and trauma, subconscious baggage, and Aura blockages.

In the program, I employ the magical tools of the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), Ho’oponopono – a Hawaiian healing modality, and Neuro-linguistic Programming, Reiki, Theta, Hypnosis, The Violet Fire Flame-among other healing modalities, to deal with the issues of Procrastination, Resentment, and Fear.

Included in the program is also a 7 days’ powerful Chakra cleansing routine that will help one to clean a Chakra every day. Other issues that are tackled are; – the forgiveness meditation, Soul and Spirit Cleanse, Daddy Issues Healing, Super-Love Manifestation and a bonus recording with powerful inspirational quotations retrieved from the Bible, Koran and other spiritual readings.

The background music throughout the 14 day Love Liberation Boot Camp is embedded with subliminal messages and Theta brain waves to intensify the healing process.

For more details about the program, please visit, http://www.tapthegood.com

Check out my Youtube at http://youtu.be/6uJlMNvTFow

So go check it out.

Peace and blessings.

The Power of a woman’s Intuition in Relationships:


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As mothers of this planet, we are all born and immensely embraced with the power of intuition. This power is literally the voice of God through which he communicates to us. It is that little voice that tells us to do, or not to do certain things when we are faced with indecision.

 On the other hand, God created men with a power not so easy to put words on; one that gives them the courage and confidence to approach women, strangers for that matter, and then convince them to get into their beds. Take it or not, that is POWER!  However, God is reasonable; because the intuition he/she gave us as women, equips us with the skills to deal with men. The challenge is for us to constantly be in touch with ourselves.

 The wise ones have advocated for centuries for the discipline of living in the moment, and that is not without its benefits.  When you are in a relationship, it is important not lose yourself completely into the man’s world. This means that you remain in touch with yourself, but at the same time focus on your man with your brain, heart and mind. It is about balance. That way, you will not only enjoy yourself in the relationship, but also notice changes whenever they arise. Also, you will listen to that magic inner voice whenever it speaks, or directs you to be cautious, question something, or change your game. If you are very observant and more grounded than egoistic, you will be able to see red flags or signs that could give you insight into what your man could be doing behind your back. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you will be policing him. It simply means that you are alert, confident and do love yourself enough not to stay in a relationship that is more emotionally draining than uplifting.

 Severally, my girl friends tell me about how they caught their men red-handed cheating, perusing through dating sights, or doing whatever else is negative for the relationship; and they appear so surprised. “It was so abrupt. I was so shocked,” they claim. The only shock to me is the fact that these ladies were so out of touch of their intuitive-selves that they failed to recognize the red signs. Remember that men are not as cautious and detailed as we are. If there are changes in a man’s routine, or a discovery of new interests, he will subconsciously start changing his behavior. Moreover if you are observant, you will know in due time and then change your game. Keep in mind that love is like a puzzle. As an individual, you are the only one in control of your own feelings. If you let others manipulate them directly or indirectly through their actions, you are the loser, not them.

 Below is a list of some of the things that men do when they are cheating, or at the very least, have the intention to:-

–         They buy new under wears

–         They buy new colognes and/or perfumes

–         They put a password on their phones

–         If they have not been taking the garbage out and have always complained about it, they start taking it out before you even ask.

–         If they haven’t been using mouth wash or flossing, they will get into the habit

–         They will appear more tired and distant than usual.

–         If they have been choosing their own clothes and have always had a problem with you choosing for them what to wear, they will ask for your opinion.

–         They won’t look at you straight in the eye.

–         Some may begin critiquing your weight or clothes, something they didn’t do in the past.

 These are some of the things that men will do if their attention is being drawn to someone else.  Also, if you are always present in every situation, enjoying and absorbing every stance of the relationship, and also listening to your intuition, you will be able to smell a man’s crap before it gets to you.

 So my dear sisters, stop being shocked. Use your intuition and self-love to stay current with the relationship. Don’t be left out of the game.    

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Are you PERFECT?


Many, if not all people get offended whenever this question is posed to them.

Perfection of the self has been questioned and ridiculed longer than time. It has been debated century after another in an attempt to discover what it really denotes. 

Firstly, we are all different in so many ways, which also implies that perceptions of what is perfect and what is not drastically vary. One’s sense of perfection may be another’s sense of the absolute opposite.  

Accordingly, whenever this question is posed to anyone, it tends to scream “criticism” or “disapproval” since it is rarely used with honest intent.

My point of view is that we are perfect as long as we stop trying to impress, scorn and/or out-compete others. Furthermore, the self less of fear, resentment, self hatred, self-judgment and punishment,   selfishness, envy and all negative feelings in general, is perfection.

Perfection is more of an inner concept than the physical self which apparently changes with every second we breathe.

Perfection is when one loves him/herself unconditionally to a sweet level of loving others without expecting anything in return. Which also implies that he/she doesn’t take things personally, doesn’t make assumptions, and is impeccable with his/her word. If one is truthful with him/herself, forgives him/herself easily, makes personal decisions without seeking external approval, then that is perfection.

Perfection is being in touch with oneself 24/7, believing in oneself and knowing that he/she is a perfect creation of God.

So, this brings me back to my original question; are you perfect?

Well, am not; but am working on it. 

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