What to do When You Feel Uninspired


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How often do you feel uninspired?

What do you do when you keep procrastinating just because you don’t feel the urge to get started on a particular project?

What can you do to inspire yourself?

There are times when I have had projects to pursue: times when I know exactly what to do, how to do it, plus have the resources needed to get started. But for some reason, I couldn’t get started because I felt so uninspired.

Most times it is because my mind is stuck on what things are supposed to be, or shouldn’t be. Other times, I’m thinking about what’s wrong and how wrong it could get. And that’s how the matrix holds each of us captive. We find ourselves knowing what to do and not doing it. It is like you are aware that fire burns but you keep playing with it. You are aware that when you don’t take action nothing will be accomplished, but you don’t take action. What kind of BS is that? lol.

The underlying reason is because we are afraid. Note that we are either hosts of progress or hostages of fear. If your fear doesn’t drive you, you are its hostage. 

One of the ways to snap out of this mind block is to inspire ourselves. However, how do you inspire yourself when you don’t want to do anything? Apparently, you’ve consciously and/or subconsciously driven yourself into this emotional/mental mess. This also implies that if you feel lethargic, and you have lost the grip on how to get out. Yet, it is still up to you to get your stressed-behind out of this mess.  What do you do?

Here are a few steps to get you started on inspiring yourself. 

  1. Know that it is your responsibility to feel good and inspired. Remove the blame from anything or anyone out of yourself. Get a grip of your mind and make it your hostage. Direct your mind to do what you want instead of the other way round. Talk yourself into taking full responsibility of your emotions. 
  2. Remember, or find your why. Go back to the drawing board of why you want to accomplish that goal. For instance, during days when I don’t feel like writing or making videos to inspire my audience, I remember why–which is my life purpose. I know that when I inspire others through the different ways I do, this is the time I feel alive the most. Therefore, find your why.
  3. Meditate. Yes, meditate. Some people think that meditation is for monks. But I attest to the power of meditation. Meditation has helped me overcome some of the ugliest situations in my life. Meditation has rewarded me with a lot of clarity, enthusiasm and unconditional inner peace. It’s mainly through meditation that I get the ideas I write, and record about. The benefits of meditation are inexhaustible. To get started, you can check out my simple morning meditations on gratitude and divine love. The links are: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgMpYijDTjU  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yk7JhGZOZvU I also suggest that you start your day off with meditating. It makes all the positive difference. 

  4. Exercise: Once you change your physiology, your mood will change. Stand up, stretch, stand in your power pause, go for a walk, do yoga or whatever you can to get moving. This will amplify the production of your happy hormones and then get you inspired to take action. 
  5. Listen to affirmations. Here are a few I’ve recorded. Links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHyp6f8_jp4   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXf_l7hpFqw   
  6. Listen to your favorite music.
  7. Listen to inspirational messages. Some of these messages can be accessed by clicking on these links:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dl-rhzBgOY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flCW8oaRQYM
  8. Read a good book. You can read, Do Not Force it, Tap The Good — guaranteed to inspire you. Link to the book – https://www.amazon.com/Do-not-Force-TAP-GOOD/dp/1461079098

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8. Hire the services of a transformational coach or counselor. I offer 30 minutes complimentary sessions and these can be enough to facilitate your self-inspirational goals. To request for your free session, check out www.tapthegood.com/contact/

I’m certain that there are hundreds of other ways that you can employ to get you inspired. But the ones I have provided above, will create a strong foundation for you to get started on inspiring yourself. 

In the interim, do not worry. Nothing lasts for ever. Every thing will be okay. I promise. 

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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PHD, MBA

Author, Transformational Coach, Counselor, Speaker

http://www.tapthegood.com

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How to Connect to The Right Friends


As a teenager, connecting to the right friends was one of my biggest challenges.

I grew up with my mom in Kampala, the capital city of Uganda, and my mom was very strict about how we chose friends since most of our neighbor’s teenagers had become pregnant, escaped from their homes and/or got involved in other inappropriate activities. I disliked my mom. In my little mind, I thought she was blocking my freedom to have as many friends as I wanted. But as an adult now, I appreciate her a lot. It is because of her strategies to keep us safe from the turbulent environment in which we were in, that I and my siblings were able to complete school without getting into trouble.

By following some of the strategies that I learned from my mom, and some as a transformational coach, I’ve been able to connect to and choose the right friends over the years.

Here are some of the tips that you can use to connect to the right friends.

1. Become your own best friend.
Before you can understand what friendship really means, you have to love and appreciate everything about yourself, including your flaws. You have to be your own best friend. If you don’t like yourself, you will always look for validation from your friends to define who you are. And that will be disappointing because no one has the power to define who you should be, or how you should feel about yourself. It’s up to each one of us to determine who we should be, and how we should feel. Therefore, be your best friend first, such that when you connect to friends, you are not looking for validation. You love yourself as you are.

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2. Define what friendship means to you.
It is extremely important to establish what you want to achieve from whatever you do. It’s about being purposeful. Defining what friendship means to you implies that you establish what you expect from friends; what they should expect from you as a friend, and what you will not tolerate from them. This also means that you have to develop personal values and standards below which you won’t be anyone’s friend. For instance; since you are already your own best friend, you have to know how to be friendly to yourself. This means that you respect your body by eating the right foods; you exercise and do not indulge in anything that would abuse your body—such as drugs and/or immature sex. You keep your word. You communicate clearly about what you want and don’t want, assertively. You respect your parents/elders. You keep your environment clean and safe. In a nutshell, you love yourself. As a result, you seek to connect with friends who also love themselves and most importantly, friends who will not negatively affect your self-love. They respect and appreciate who you are. They don’t try to influence you, except if it is for positive change.

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3. Become friendly.
If you want to connect to friends you have to be friendly. This means that you don’t make judgments about others because of their looks, origin, social group or religion. You communicate to others freely and attentively as you take the time to examine if these people also love themselves. You become present with people—meaning that you listen attentively to everyone you meet before you determine if that person could be a friend.

I believe that if you embrace these tips, or even add other personal tips that you’ve learned, you will be able to connect to good friends.

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Article also shared on teenmentor.com

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Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, PH.D., MBA

Author, Transformational Coach, and Speaker.

What Are you Missing out in The Present Moment? (An EFT Session is included)


The wise ones advise that being in the moment is the most powerful mind tool to attain peace. Being present has many benefits including:

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1. You increase social skills because you listen and respond accordingly. You are not in a hurry to go someplace. You are here and in the now.

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2. Improved creativity.

If you write or do some other creative work you may have found that your best work flows out of you when you are not thinking that much. You just write or paint. You enter a state where things just come to you. You get a lot done without mind-interruptions.

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3. You appreciate your world more. Because you are present and able to comprehend everything going on.

4. You release stress because you are not worried about what was, or what will be. It’s all about what is.

The question is; how can one be present all the time when there is literally so much to think and/or worry about?

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In this blog, I have included a brief EFT session to help you be in the now, at the moment where all the magic is happening.

Link to EFT Session: – https://youtu.be/JtlcdQ6ko-0

Are you in need of more personalized EFT, success coaching or counseling sessions?

Contact me for a complimentary 30 minutes EFT session to deal with an issue that is bombarding your life.

Remember, nothing happens, if nothing moves.:)

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph,D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor, Success Coach/Mentor

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Do you Feel like you are Running Around in Circles?


There are times when we all feel so overwhelmed about life–when everything we do does not yield the results that we desire. During such times, we may feel as though the devil itself has binoculars on our lives.

I have experienced periods in my life when I felt as though I was moving against the wind. Everything seemed to break down. There was conflict surrounding me. Every action took me face to face with failure. I felt as though I was locked up behind a thick high wall with nowhere to go. I felt as if I was literally running around in circles–like a dog chasing its own tail. No amount of positive thinking made things better. Regardless of how hard and deeply I thought, no new information or ideas popped up in my mind as solutions. Even when I meditated and prayed for hours, I still felt a deep sense of emptiness and sadness.

Below are some of the steps that I have taken—things that have helped me get a new grip of my life.

1. Write down your goals.

2. Perform a situation analysis of your life; the steps you’ve been taking towards achieving your goals, the skills you have employed, plans, strategies, weaknesses, strengths, opportunities and threats.

2. Evaluate your successes and failures for the last 60 days.

3. STOP. Stop and relax. Stop making any major plans, taking any major actions or even expecting anything—good or bad to happen. Become a witness of your life. Observe. I know this might sound so hard to do, but if you have been taking a lot of action and seeing no results, then there is something missing. During such times, it also implies that we are not listening to our inner voice for direction or alerts.

4. Spend some time with yourself–at least 3 hours a day especially if you work for yourself. If you are employed and have to appear at a job every day, you can still become a witness of your own life by excluding judgement of others and the entire job situation. This might also mean that you don’t talk about your concerns with anyone. You are present at the job and doing what you have to do, but mindfully absent. I hope you understand what I mean. It’s about becoming laid back for a set period of time.

When we stop and do nothing major, we reduce the noises in our minds. This is when we get to hear the voice of God that is always existent at the back of our minds.

I hope this helps.

Love and light.

Dr Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D., MBA

Author, Speaker / Counselor / Coach / Mentor

http://www.tapthegood.com

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4 Out-of-the-Box Tips to Become More Productive:


  1. Sell your TV

When you watch television continuously, you’re just watching other people get successful instead of embarking on projects that could help you achieve your dreams

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2. Say goodbye to the energy vampires in your life. (The negative souls who steal your enthusiasm). Clean your environment. Weed out people who are negative and those who don’t support or understand your dreams.

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3. Start your day at 5.00 am. Win the battle of the bed. Put mind over mattress. This habit alone will strengthen your willpower. By getting up early, I have been able to get a lot done in a few hours, and then take time out to do other things that nourish my wellbeing.

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4. Sign up for my complimentary Success Coaching and/or counseling session during which I will show you how to get your power back, become more productive, and most importantly, become the authority of your craft.

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I hope this has revealed a tip or two that you can use to become more productive.

Your productivity is your life made visible; protect it. 🙂

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

author@tapthegood.com

Worry-Free Tip 5 – In celebration of the Global Worry-Free Day – Your CHANCE TO IMPACT THE WORLD


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In this video, I share 2 tips that are guaranteed to help you stop worrying. 

Link to video:- http://youtu.be/sjJ6aDY5mSM

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Take the challenge to put your own problems aside, and make a difference in a stranger’s life.

Remember; the Global Worry-free Day is March 1st, 7.00 a.m. – 7.00 p.m. your time…your region. It’s your chance to impact the world. 

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mariah

TapTheGood.com

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You are all you need!


Bible quote of the kingdom of God

So, you or someone you know might be going through some uncomfortable things. You might be wishing for someone to come to your rescue; answers to show up from somewhere; people to avail you with the solutions you need. However, if you look closely, you will discover that even those desires, wishes, and demands you are expecting from sources out of yourself, actually do originate from thoughts engrossed within yourself. This implies one thing: the source of whatever you are seeking for is right there in the core of who you are. All you need to make viable changes, make a difference, expand and grow, take action, change beliefs and thought processes, is in your core: the central part of your very being that harbors all the answers to all questions. The challenge is to connect to this core; the kingdom of God that dwells within each one of us.

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However, we can use our minds to heal those very minds. We can command and demand our minds to let go of all the layers of emotions, memories, negative programming, self-limiting beliefs, negative thought processes, and whatever else needs to dissolve in order for us to re-connect to who we truly are.

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Today, and for the next couple of days I encourage you to affirm: “I release and let go of everything and anything within me, that blocks me from connecting to my true self: a self that is magnificent, unconditionally loving, creative, and powerful.”

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My honest intention is to remind you my dear friend, that you are all you need!

For more affirmations, mental, emotional, and spiritual practical exercises that will unlock your mind to its full magnificence, check out the book – Do Not Force It, Tap The Good.

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Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mariah

http://www.tapthegood.com