Is Money Scarce? Resolving Negative Associations Related to Money Attraction


Most people believe that money is the source of all evil. However, when you look closely you realize that the lack of money is the devil itself. I have never heard of a millionaire breaking a bank, or someone like Oprah conning someone else for money. Can you imagine finding Bill Gates in jail for snatching someone’s purse because he was starving, or Warren Buffet, crying in court for breaking into someone house? Imagine all you can but I know that you will not experience the preceding in your life time.

The lack of money is what sends many people into hospitals, dealing with all sorts of neurologically engineered illnesses manufactured by worrying about money. I actually once experienced a panic attack because I didn’t know how I was going to pay my bills. It’s the lack of money that suffocates our vision, weakens our enthusiasm and chokes our relationships.

” It’s the lack of money that normally suffocates our vision, weakens our enthusiasm and chokes our relationships.”

With that said, it is apparent that understanding your money psychology is important in helping you to shift from barely surviving to living life on your terms. It is vital to develop and maintain a healthy relationship with money.

In this article, I share 3 mental and emotional associations that hinder us from identifying ways to earn more money. Note that these associations are like bad marriages that can pollute your good intentions of living a wealthier life. I urge you to take time as you analyze these associations and answer the related questions so that you can resolve them and then start developing a healthier relationship with money.  

“Negative associations with money are like bad marriages that can strangle your good intentions of living a wealthier life.”

  1. Beliefs:

(a) What negative beliefs do you have about money? Write them down.

Note that whatever you believe becomes your reality. If you believe that money is the source of all evil, you are impliedly negating money. If you believe that money is a beautiful thing to have you will do whatever it takes to have more of it. Most importantly, your unconscious mind, where the magic brews, will support you into earning more money because you created a positive belief about it.

(b) After writing down all these beliefs, know that they are all lies, illusions that do not exist. They are temporary pretences that your mind holds onto and you can easily let them go. With that in mind, create a new list with the opposite beliefs to the negative ones you have. Read the new list at least 3 times daily to reinforce these new beliefs into your unconscious mind.

“Negative beliefs about money are temporary pretences that your mind holds onto and you can easily let them go.”

  1. Experiences:

What negative experiences have you had that have convinced you that having money is painful? For instance, have you lent someone money and they never paid you back? Have you been backstabbed, disappointed, lied to or wrongfully punished because of money?

(a) Take time to think about all these experiences.

(b) Realize that by thinking about these experiences, you are living in the past. You are not enjoying the magic in the present moment. You are missing out. Note that these experiences are long gone and you can nullify them in your mind. Know that you have the power to speak to your mind and tell it to let go of this poison. Do not underestimate the power you have over your thoughts. Don’t let your thoughts rule you, rule them. Command them to behave themselves. Tell yourself the truth that you are more than these experiences. Remember that all experience is intended to help us learn and grow into more informed beings, and not to hold us back from progressing in life.

“Remember that all experience is intended to help us learn and grow into more informed beings, and not to hold us back from progressing in life.”

  1. Perceptions:

Perceptions are projections of our inner world. Whatever you perceive is a reflection of how you have internally identified with the perceived. If your projections about money are filled with anger, sadness, struggle, scarcity or rage, that’s exactly how you will perceive money.

 (a) Sit in a comfortable position, close your eyes and imagine that money is your partner. How is he/she dressed? What type of conversations do you have? Do you see yourself arguing or laughing? What are you telling this money-image? Is it good or bad? How do you feel about your relationship? Do you feel like you love each other? After you are done, open your eyes and think through your visualized perception of money, plus your relationship with it.

(b) Whatever money-image and relationship that your mind revealed, go through the exercise again but this time creating a more positive image and relationship. Image that money as your partner is well groomed, strong and healthy. Imagine that you are walking down the street holding hands, laughing, and having a good time. Imagine telling each other repeatedly that you love each other very much. Generate the related positive emotions. Go through this exercise every day until you start believing that you and money are good together. Trust your mind to create similar experiences in your reality.

Remember that you are the master of your destiny. It’s up to you to realize that you are more than your experiences; you are more than the negative money associations plus all the other things that weigh you down: and that money is nothing more than the relationship you have with yourself.

 “When all is said and done we realize that all along we had both keys to our life’s prisons and freedom.”

Check out this video to access a few exercises that will help resolve negative associations you may have with money.

Love and light.

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It’s All About You.


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It is not selfish to say that it’s all about you. It’s actually empowering. Remember that you are the most important treasure for your life. Without you, your life and world do not exist.

I understand that we’ve been programmed to make our lives about others.  It’s been the right thing to do. It’s deemed the spiritual thing to do. However just like batteries, they won’t have any purpose if they aren’t charged. By understanding that it’s all about you, you prepare and charge yourself for the world. Your wellbeing is the key to your giving, living, loving, and being.

How do you give what you don’t have?

How do you donate from an empty account?

How do you support when your foundation is cracking?

You need to fully own who you are in order to give yourself to others–without losing yourself in the process.

That’s why it’s vital to take care of you before anything or anyone else. This is not selfish. It’s actually the exact opposite. It is the most enlightened philanthropy.

How do you program yourself to remember that it’s all about you?

Do Not Force It, Tap The Good: How to Tap into one’s Inner Infinite Intelligence, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and Live Life on his/her Terms, is a book that show you how.

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Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana Ph.D., MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Coach

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You are more than Human: YOU ARE DIVINE


I have been taught that to be spiritual, I have to transcend the human experience.

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 The intention of my teachers was to get me to get rid of my human part in order to become divine and nothing else.  Little did I know that there is no divine without the human; the two are actually one. It is just two different ways of seeing the very same substance.

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Apparently, the divine is the essential, the fundamental, the un-manifest. The human is simply the divine when it appears as a form.The human is what the invisible divine looks like in a form. Therefore, we are not just human; we are also divine.

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 The problem is that, with all the layers and beliefs that envelop us humans through our experiences, we are blocked from our connection to our divine-selves. The way to release the clutter, let go of the unwanted, dissolve the lies, is to take full responsibility of our liberation, and take back our power.

In the books- Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them; and Do not Force it, Tap The Good, you will get to understand how to free your human-self from the clutters of negative experiences, and then re-connect to your divine-self; which is who you truly are.

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Indeed, whoever you think you are, you are more than that.

Love & Light

J.

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The Art of Instantaneous Manifestation:


Until recently, I embraced the statement “use everything within you to get what you want” religiously. It meant a lot of sense.

However, as I meditated at one of the points in the Grand Canyon – Arizona last week, I asked the universe for its guidance-especially regarding creation. I based my meditational-intention on the beauty and magnificence of the Grand Canyon. I had looked at the endless hills, contours, rocks and architectural earthly-strange creations, and just couldn’t digest this mind-blogging wonder. Furthermore, I couldn’t see the bottom of the Canyon-which bewildered my mind further. “Wow” I repeated severally-left with nothing else to say.

So-I set myself up for a meditation. “What’s the spiritual story behind this grand creation, and how can I utilize it for my own manifestations?” I asked. As I started relaxing-in the process of preparing my mind for the answers I sought, a thought crept into my mind. “Love”, it whispered. “This place was created as a result of immerse unconditional love-coupled with a burning desire to achieve its objectives.” My inner-secret voice silently whispered.

“Uuuh??” my critical mind questioned. “I don’t see love in these crazily-formulated contours and valleys” I thought.”

“But you are here for the sake of love. It’s love inducing you to seek for answers. Love brought you here. And this is the same love that the source of creation, God, employs to create.”

“Uuh” my conscious mind mocked. “This is confusing.” It continued.

When I finally finished my disturbing meditation, it came to me that love is the source of all things.

The determined and persistent erosive activity of the Colorado River, and the wind on the soft rocks, for millions of years, created this massive gap of wonder. I can’t think of any other word to compound determination and unconditional endurance, other than LOVE. Love is creative. Unconditional-full time love for anything, with absolute focus, is the most creative force in the universe.

Love should therefore be the only “thing” in your mind in order to manifest whatever you love. Love has no reasons. It’s not about using everything within you to get whatever you want. That’s struggle. It’s simply about getting everything within you in congruence with your desires. And then letting everything you’ve established within, to manifest your desires. Remember; you can never ever get what you want. You only get want you are. And this is how to do it.

1. Establish your heart’s desire.
2. Institute profound love for it in your mind.
3. Identify any related limiting beliefs, negative experiences, emotional and mental blockages-such as worry, doubt and fear.
4. Use your mind to clean and erase all the above vampire-thoughts from your internal word.
5. Wrap your mind around your heart’s desire with a profound determination, persistence and focus. Don’t let ANYTHING derail you from your goals. Focus…focus…focus. (I was recently faced with an ugly situation, and this step helped me out-so trust me, it works.)
6. Take inspired action and be flexible.
7. Watch as everything works together for your good.

Make an effort to sow seeds of the feelings you intend to experience when you achieve your objectives. If it is love you are seeking for, you should firstly infuse your inner world with love. Act lovingly, speak lovingly, think lovingly, and dress lovingly. Then…out of this vibration, you will magically be in congruence with the love you intend to attract from the outside. And this works for everything else you may want to attract. If it is money you want, your mind should establish a profound desire for the benefits that money will bring you. Identify the related feelings and build on those. Begin acting as though you already have the money. Start shopping around for whatever you want to use the money for.

In the pursuit of my goals, I have stumbled on a lot of resistance and negative people who found everything wrong with my work. I felt weak. But then rose up again-knowing that remaining down won’t help me achieve my goals. If we can only lodge whatever we desire in our minds, and come to a reflective conclusion that there are no options regardless of conflicting occurrences, then, and only then, shall we be in position to manifest our desires easily and effortlessly.

**Check out my revolutionary healing program – The 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp from http://www.tapthegood.com. It will heal your life!

Peace and blessings.

To All Sisters Going Through Some Things:


This week, I decided to reach out to the sisters who might be going through some things. When I tell you that I understand, trust me- I do. A few years ago, at one point in my life, I found myself totally alone. And when I say “alone”, I mean ALONE. Domestically abused, heart-broken, regretful, no friends, culture- crash, no job, and with the only support from a family- living thousands and thousands of miles away. And as if that wasn’t bad enough, I had a death-threatening experience every time I drove on the free-ways. Besides consistently exiting at the wrong exits-and getting lost for hours, the free-way competition almost drove me insane. 

For every step forward, I took four backwards. I felt stuck, emotionally, mentally, and practically. Nothing in my world meant sense. And that’s just part of the story. However, my intention today is to make this about you…not me. 

I just wanna encourage you today-that regardless of whatever you are going through, you will get to the other end-if you can only hold on. Always remember that it is not where you are coming from, or what you are going through; it is what you want to achieve in life and how you plan on achieving it. Everything else is just a stepping stone to get you there. Failure is the mother of flexibility. It doesn’t mean that the world is ending.

One of the things I would recommend is meditation. I went on YouTube every single day and meditated for hours. There is a free website that might help you a great deal; link is www.thereisaway.org. Check it out, and go through some of their exercises. Also, there are days, I lay down and just deep-breathed for an hour. This made me feel better. What’s more, my website-www.tapthegood.com, has a lot of free healing exercises that will help you feel more positive about life. Check it out.

Don’t give up. This is your life. Keep trying, keep hoping, do whatever it takes to cleanse your emotional, mental and physical bodies. Do a body cleanse if you can. Then, enthusiastically focus on thinking about the things you want in your life. 

Here is a link to a free EFT and Ho’oponopono healing session that will shift things for you. http://youtu.be/lh_wgUtGEt0

Keep breathing.

Peace and blessings.

 

How to cleanse oneself from negativity:


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In my previous article, I suggested a few things that one can do to get rid of negativity. Once he/she has cleansed his/her mind of all the vampiring memories and/or feelings, it is time to deal with the spiritual and physical bodies.

The spiritual body is one that connects us to our God-sense. I guess you have heard the saying that the kingdom of God dwells within us. It is vital to establish and maintain a “healthy” and ongoing relationship with your God-self. This implies that you develop a sense of faith, that there is something bigger than you, and every human.  Once one surrenders his/her worries or concerns to that mighty being, he/she submits well knowing that “God” will take care of him/her. This emphasizes a worry-free life and promotes relaxation, positivity and happiness.

However, it takes consistent prayer, affirmations and meditation. It also requires one to be grounded, meaning that he/she gets his/her mind to a state of absolute calm; whereby he/she views the world and its occurrences as a witness. It implies that he/she observes situations without judgment, until he/she has precisely thought through what to say, and/or do.

Nourishing the spiritual body is a challenge because of the constant negativity that bombards our world. However, the determination and focus to remain in constant touch with one god-self, is without its benefits.

Some of the steps one would take are listed below.

–          Meditate at least once a day.

–          Get a journal and write your experiences daily. This will ensure that your mind is vacuumed on a daily basis.

–          Forgive yourself and others who have wronged you, on a daily basis.

–          Be grateful for all the good things in your life every day. Write down at least 10 things you are grateful for.

–          Breathe deeply all the time, which will keep you calm and focused.

–          Focus on what you want regardless of how often the things you don’t want show up.

–          Always remember that you are not alone. You are connected to the Universal Mind, whose kingdom dwells within you. So lean on that. Learn how to surrender, well knowing that all is well.

–          Most importantly, before you leave your house every morning, image a white light surrounding you, and mentally tell yourself that, “I am surrounded by bubbles of pure positive energy that melt away every and all negativity.”

Next week I will write about how to cleanse one’s mind, soul and spirit.

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