5 Steps to Get Out of a Financial Dilemma


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Have you ever found yourself with no money and no idea about what you are going to do to get back up?

Let’s also imagine that you have bills piling and waiting for you to pay.

Let’s further imagine that you lost your job or your business collapsed and you’ve tried everything you can to get a job or business back up and nothing seems to work.

What do you do?

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Well, I have been there, done that and I know exactly how it feels to be financially handicapped and hopeless. Yet at the end of it all I realized that what was stressing me out was either what I wished things should have been, or shouldn’t have been, and not necessarily what things really were or meant. Since, for every disappointment I have experienced, I soon discover that it was a blessing in disguise. That aside, I have followed the following steps to get me out of the hard times.

Step 1: Tame Your Mind

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The first thing to do is to deal with your mind. You literally cannot stress over your situation because if you do, things will “seem” worse. “Seem,” is singled out because things are what we define them to be. If you are stressed you are definitely going to redefine the situation and add more drama in order to support your new stressing convictions.

I’m sure you know how worrying about things amplifies them. You have to refocus your mind on what you have and what you are grateful for. I know this seems easier said than done, but it is doable. And when you understand the consequences of negative thinking you will tame your mind to focus on what’s good in your life. I’m certain that you have some good things that you can focus on.

Step 2: Determine what you want and focus on it religiously.

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Many times we might think that we are focusing on what we want when we are actually dwelling on whatever we don’t want. Therefore, you have to take time and examine what you want instead of the financial havoc. Do you want to pay off your bills? How much money do you want? Do you want to be financially free? How does that look like for you? Do you want to get another job or maybe revamp your business? The idea is to be very specific about what you want and then focus on it.

Step 3: Evaluate your resources.

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For this step, you will have to get pen and paper and examine what resources you currently have that are freely available to you. You may have to consider your skills, experiences, education, talents—or anything else that is freely available to you. Another thing to consider is your wardrobe—what you can sell in a yard sale or online. List everything down.

Step 4: Decide on which skill, talent or experience you want to turn into something that will bring in money. For instance, I am also a qualified massage therapist, and during the slow financial times I advertise my massage business because firstly, I already have the required skills plus all the tools required to run a mobile spa. I literally don’t need a lot of money to get started with acquiring clients. I reach out to my regular clients, advertise on free portals like face book, craigslist and Google; and before I know it, I have clients flocking in.  The idea is to choose a skill that won’t cost you money.

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Step 5: Take action. Once you decide on which skill you want to explore, or actions to take, take immediate action. Don’t over think things. Just go for it. Trust that things will work out. Have faith. And even if things don’t work out the first time, keep tweaking them up until they get better. Whatever you do, don’t wait to be perfect.

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Click on this link to access a powerful divine love guided meditation to uplift you – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgMpYijDTjU

Click on this link to access a short inspiration video on never waiting to be perfect. 

In my book, Do Not Force It, Tap The Good, there 3 whole chapters about making something out of nothing. I’m certain that you will benefit from the tips provided.

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To get the book, please click on this link. https://www.amazon.com/Do-not-Force-TAP-GOOD/dp/1461079098/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1534208447&sr=1-2&keywords=Do+Not+Force+It%2C+Tap+The+Good

In the interim, remember that “Loss gives us a chance for an upgrade.” Mpalyenkana

http://www.tapthegood.com

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10 Tips to Achieve Success -In Celebration of March 1st, (Global Worry-free day)


Today, March 1st is the Global Worry-free day. A day I founded in 2014 as a first step to help myself and others to shift our minds away from worry, and focus on gratitude.

Click on this LINK to listen to the 10 tips to get inspired and achieve success.

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Video link – https://youtu.be/C3kLQIPFuT0

Remember that when we embrace patience, instead of worry, “infinite patience produces infinite results.” Confucious.

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Please spread the word.

Love and light

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3 Psychological techniques to Achieve Consistent Business Success


Are you a business owner?

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Do you find yourself struggling with making progress for yourself, and/or business?

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The problem might be that you are not considering the most important asset of your business; YOU.

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Many business people focus so much on the techniques and strategies to run their businesses but ignore the most important asset…themselves. Jim Rohn indicated that success for any project is based on 80% psychology, and 20% technique. Psychology is about how our minds work.

Have you ever found yourself having all the resources you need such as time, money, and other assets to get started on a project yet for some reason fail to start? That has everything to do with your psychology: how your mind works, why, when and how you make decisions—among other things.

Below are three tips to consider in order to include yourself in your business, and I mean inclusion of the self–to emphasize.

1. Examine your thought process. What do you think about yourself? What do you think about your business? Why are you pursuing that business in the first place? If you were on sale in a market place, would you buy yourself?

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2. Examine how, when and why you make decisions. What inspires you to make decision?

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3. Identify your fears. Take some time to contemplate on your fears. What are you afraid of? Why are you afraid? Do you have evidence to support your fears? What are you basing your fears on? For instance, if you are afraid that your business might not succeed, what are you basing this fear on? What happened in the past that has got you to this mental state? Are you taking action? If not why?

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If you take time to contemplate on the preceding issues, I guarantee that you will discover a few things about yourself that you might want to change or upgrade.

I also recommend that you get my book, Communicating Your Way to Success; Master the Art of Persuasion, Increase Sales, and Stand Out from the Crowd. The book shares an entire detailed interactive chapter about selling yourself to you. In this chapter, the above tips are elaborated on, and more.

Interested in personalized personal/business coaching? Visit my website at http://www.tapthegood.com and sign up for a complimentary 15 mins’ discovery session.

Remember, nothing happens if nothing moves. Take the step to consider yourself as an important asset to you, your family and business which is when consistent success will become inevitable.

Love and light

http://www.tapthegood.com

4 Psychologically Proven Ways to Manage Your Time


“The two most powerful warriors are patience and time”
Tolstoy

  • We all have 24 hours in a day. However, it is amazing how others have been able to achieve more and others less. In this article I share 4 psychologically proven ways to help you manage your time more efficiently.
  • Identify areas of your life where you are wasting time and try to reduce these. A good way to do this is to log everything you do for a week in meticulous detail and then examine your record to see how you use (or misuse) your time.waste-time
  • Develop a regular work routine. Keep your work space tidy so that you can work efficiently – it’s hard to do this if things you need to find are buried under a pile of papers.Neat-and-Organized-Work-Desk-700x466
  • Work to schedule so that you meet deadlines in good time; don’t leave everything until the last minute

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  • Use a time log

One useful way to eliminate wasted time is to use a time log. First you need to make up a chart for the next seven days divided into half hour intervals starting at the time you get up and finishing at the time you go to bed. Write down what you did in each half hour of the day for the next seven days. Choose a typical week.

At the end of the week examine your time log and ask yourself the following questions:

  • Are there any periods that I could use more productively?
  • At what time of day do I do my most effective work? Some people are most alert in the morning, whilst others concentrate best during the afternoon or evening. Schedule your most important tasks for these times of day.

If you have followed the above tips, by now you should be able to identify ways in which you could manage your time more efficiently.

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If you want to take this even further, check out my website at www.tapthegood.com/contact/, fill in the details, and I will schedule a 15 minutes complimentary session to get you started on how to live life on your terms.

Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana, Ph.D, MBA

Counselor, Author, Professional Speaker, Success Coach

http://www.tapthegood.com

The Biggest Mistake That Business People Make:


The biggest mistake that wedge us from achieving what we want for our businesses and lives is NOT SETTING CLEAR GOALS.

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How do we expect our brains to focus on finding the right resources without giving them the directions they need to take us where we want to go?

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How do we expect to get somewhere without knowing where we are going?

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It’s funny, because we set goals every day. We know that when we jump into our vehicles, we set goals to get somewhere at a particular time, and for a particular reason—whatever that could be.

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  1.  Why then do we find it hard to set concrete and realistic goals for our businesses?

  2.  What do you think blocks you from setting those goals, and then developing the strategies you need to help you get there?

 As you ponder on the above question, I have a resource for you. As a Success Coach, I have some great and unique personalized tools that we can employ to help you set articulate, clear and realistic goals.

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You can also contact me for a 30 minutes complimentary success coaching session.

It’s as simple as sending me an email at author@tapthegood.com with the subject line – “Goals” and I will respond within 24 hours.

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The ball is in your hands Rock-star. 

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Love and light

Dr. Jacinta Mariah Mpalyenkana, Ph.D(s), MBA

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

http://tapthegood.com

Introducing the Business Intelligence Success Coaching Mastermind


Welcome to the Business Intelligence Success Coaching Mastermind, eight weeks’ program that will ignite your true potential and reveal your magnificent genius.

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The program will be delivered twice weekly: a recorded video with a coaching session and accompanying script one day weekly; and 2 interactive hours on Skype the second day in the week.  

  1. Are you interested in making quicker and better decisions, and hence creating less delays and better quality of actions?

  2. Do you want to learn the Art of Persuasion and then effortlessly increase your sales?

  3. Are you sick and tired of trying to financially make ends meet?

  4. Do you often have trouble concentrating on what’s truly important in business, in people and in life?

  5. Do you believe you have the right products or services but is having trouble getting more clients?

  6. Are confused about seeing the possibilities and knowing which path is best for you to take?

  7. Are you having Trouble drawing clearer distinctions regarding present connections, situations and future directions?

  8. Are your past experiences and negative emotions negatively impacting your focus, productivity and success?

You are about to enter a partnership that will give you the true competitive edge. However, you must step up as well. Commit to the Business Intelligence Success coaching with the passion and focus that your life deserves. We’ll bring you extraordinary resources that will powerfully improve the quality of your personal, and professional life. Then, you can truly experience the powerful momentum that comes from living life at its peak.

We promise an experience that will not only stretch you, but that will be more fun than you have ever imagined possible. We don’t pretend that our coaching success partnership will be effortless, but it will be extraordinarily rewarding.

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The 8 Weeks Program:

Week 1: – Leadership and Purpose:

  • Embrace your Life Purpose into your USP

  • Define your “Why”

  • Establish your daily Rituals

A value of $750

Week 2 & 3: – Emotional Freedom

  • Identify your self-limiting beliefs and release them through EFT and NLP

A value of $1500

Week 4 & 5: – Money Mastery

  • Use EFT to cleanse and let go of negative emotions related to the 4 types of Money

A value of $1750

Week 6 – 8: The Art of Persuasion (Advanced NLP and Hypnotic Marketing)

  • Influential Psychology 101 and how it can positively impact your business

  • How to use mind triggers to achieve maximum influence to your leads

A value of $2250

Total Value is $6250

ONLY $47 WEEKLY – A ONE TIME PAYMENT OF$376 

For a limited time only. Special price ends 3/14/2015

YOUR TIME HAS NOW COME FOR ACTION.

Click HERE to reserve your seat.

Program begins March 23, 2015. 

Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

Author, Speaker, Counselor / Success Coach

TapTheGood.com

http://tapthegood.com/business-intelligence-mastermind/

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